In the eyes of many people, Wang Xiaoli did not take his eldest son Wang Liang to attend the wedding of his youngest son Wang Zijia, which is a very confused approach. Because in the eyes of these people, brothers should not hold grudges, or should not refrain from associating. But what Wang Xiaoli is doing now is to stand on the side of Li Lin and Wang Zijia, and stay away from Wang Liang if he can.
Even the wedding of the youngest son Wang Zijia, in order not to invite Wang Liang, was held directly in Beijing, instead of inviting many people to participate in the Northeast to contribute money. And I also saw an evaluation to the effect, which said that even if Wang Xiaoli hopes that Wang Liang and Wang Zijia have a good relationship, Wang Zijia is actually not uncommon to walk around with Wang Liang.
The main reason is to stand out for his mother, and feel that the other party is a time bomb, maybe it will explode one day, and he doesn't move around with the other party, Wang Xiaoli's future family property is Wang Zijia's brother and sister, and it has nothing to do with his half-brother, after all, Wang Xiaoli Li Lin has a bad relationship with his eldest son, and there is no need to give money to the other party in the future.
Let's take a detailed look at Wang Zijia's point of view, why people are not uncommon to reconcile with Wang Liang, maybe you will think that people are very realistic, you can cover up some things that have benefited through anger, and people are willing.
First, Wang Zijia needs to stand up for her mother, Li Lin was humiliated by Wang Liang, and this matter cannot be forgiven
Wang Liang himself may have been instigated by his biological mother, and felt that his stepmother was partial to his biological children and did not treat Wang Liang fairly, so he vented a lot of his dissatisfaction with Li Lin on the Internet, saying that Li Lin was a woman who managed money, and his father was afraid of his wife, saying that Li Lin sent his biological children to study abroad, and Wang Liang could only study in China and the like.
will even say some rumor-mongering, saying that Li Lin's private life is not clean, and Wang Zijia may not be Wang Xiaoli's child. Anyway, Wang Liang himself was very humiliating or ill-intentioned towards Wang Zijia's mother. Wang Zijia is also a three-foot man, his mother was humiliated like that, he understated it, forgave lightly, and if he didn't take it seriously, others would bully his mother even more.
So even if Wang Zijia is for his mother, he will never forgive Wang Liang for his recklessness.
Second, Wang Zijia doesn't want to provoke grumpy people, and maybe there will be trouble in the future
In addition, many people know that when a person is irritable, it is actually difficult to correct, or it is difficult to correct in a short period of time. Wang Liang can attack others indiscriminately on the Internet, which shows that he is easily instigated by others, today is his mother, tomorrow may be his son or daughter-in-law, and he feels that Wang Xiaoli's division of family property is unfair or something.
Even if Wang Zijia easily forgives Wang Liang now, Wang Xiaoli will be gone in the future, Wang Liang himself will be instigated by his wife and children, and he may not know how good things will come, and he feels that his father has treated him badly, because he is Wang Xiaoli's son, it is difficult to say how old he will be in this life, after all, Wang Liang does not look like a man who wants to be self-reliant.
Third, Wang Zijia can get a lot of material benefits, Li Lin is in charge of money, he used to have a good relationship with his eldest son, and he would pay money, but now he can't be at ease if he is not good
What's more critical is that Li Lin was actually very fair before, when he married Wang Xiaoli, he was very poor and had a child, Li Lin did not dislike him, and then helped take care of Wang Liang, and the couple worked hard for their careers and saved their family property. To be realistic, if Li Lin didn't know how to plan, or take Wang Xiaoli to fight for his career and accumulate wealth, Wang Xiaoli might not be rich today.
Wang Liang's wedding expenses, wedding house, luxury car, etc. are estimated to be out of money. And Li Lin herself is rich, and she is willing to give Wang Liang flowers, but Wang Liang doesn't know how to be grateful and doesn't feel that her stepmother is good to her. If Wang Xiaoli leaves in the future, now that Wang Liang and Li Lin have a good relationship, Li Lin will definitely need to share a part of the family property to Wang Liang.
But now Wang Zijia continues the previous grievances with Wang Liang and does not move, Wang Xiaoli's future property is all with Li Lin, Li Lin does not give Wang Liang wealth, in fact, it is reasonable, and no one will say anything irresponsible, after all, they are all enemies, and it is not appropriate to rush to share money with others.