Someone once said: A good marriage can cross us to the other shore; a bad marriage drags us into a sea of suffering.
The quality of marriage determines the quality of our lives, and it also determines the quality of our lives. But a good marriage, a good partner can not be sought, and to meet one of them is also a great blessing and luck in this life.
Many people say, love a person, I don't care about his original family and family situation. In this case, it can only be said. Because in real life, you will find that poor couples are sad, and marriages without money are difficult to move forward.
01, daughter-in-law 2 sets of full-payment room
As an only child and the only child in the family, Deng Mei has absolute confidence to say that he is not short of money to spend, nor is he worried about money. Deng Mei's parents have a good job, a good income, and a good family situation, but the conditions of her in-laws' family are very different from those of her mother's family.
When talking about love, Deng Mei only thought about the supremacy of love, and did not pay attention to the door-to-door pair proposed by his parents. At that time, she talked to her husband from the countryside to die and live, and she did not abandon it, where she was willing to give up for her parents' fluttering "door to door".
Even when talking about marriage, the in-laws can't come up with a decent bride price, let alone a down payment in the marriage room, and although Deng Mei is aggrieved, he doesn't have much to worry about. On the contrary, Deng Mei's parents hate iron and steel, and want to stand idly by, but they are reluctant to let their only daughter suffer, so they can only buy a house for their daughter as a marriage house.
Pity the hearts of the parents in the world, and the compromise of Deng Mei's parents made Deng Mei even more firmly believe that his decision was not wrong. It's just a pity that after marriage, the husband's work is low or not high, not up and down, and there is no increase in income.
Deng Mei didn't care too much, she never lacked money to spend. When they have no money, their parents will take the initiative to subsidize. Even after they had a second child, they planned to change to a bigger house, and their parents were willing to take out their savings to buy them a second house.
With the strength of their parents, Deng Mei and her husband are basically lying flat. It doesn't take much effort and effort to get a house and a car that others have struggled for all their lives.
02, the mother-in-law asked to send a set to the little uncle as a marriage room
It was just that Deng Mei's sense of superiority did not last long, and he was frightened by his mother-in-law's greedy eating appearance. Because the little uncle is going to get married and start a family, the other party is unmarried and pregnant, pampered and proud, asking for a house in the city, but also an additional 100,000 dowry, less the same, this marriage can not be married.
The in-laws hollowed out the family foundation, and they could only barely scrape together 100,000 yuan, and then wanted to take out hundreds of thousands of dollars to buy a house in the city, which was tantamount to a fool's dream, and it was simply a difficult thing for strong people. The mother-in-law anxiously grayed her hair and begged her grandfather to tell her grandmother, and only then did she borrow 100,000 yuan.
Seeing his parents begging his grandfather to tell his grandmother to be humble, his husband was heartbroken. Without consulting with Deng Mei, he took the initiative to tell his parents that maybe Deng Mei could help solve the marriage room. Sure enough, it didn't take long for the mother-in-law to come to the lion and open her mouth.
The mother-in-law means that the eldest son and daughter-in-law have 2 sets of full-fund rooms, live in a new house, the old house can be given to the younger son, slightly decorated, you can be used as a marriage room. They also don't need to look around and borrow money, save hundreds of thousands of foreign debts, and make full use of old houses, not causing houses to be idle and wasteful, killing two birds with one stone.
The husband also echoed next to him, anyway, the house is empty, the rental can not collect much rent, it is better to give it to his brother, which can not only solve the problem of his brother's marriage room, but also make the parents feel at ease.
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03, daughter-in-law: My parents are not obliged to help you raise two sons
Deng Mei did not speak, watching her mother-in-law and husband there to hi, the two people chatted and chatted, and also arranged how the house should be redecorated and how to rearrange. Seeing all this, Deng Mei sneered a little.
Fortunately, she had long been prescient, although she had gone against her parents' wishes and married a rural phoenix man. But as she got married, the more she found that what her parents had predicted had come true, so she carried her husband behind her back and sent the real estate deeds of the two houses back to her parents and asked them to keep them for her.
Seeing that Deng Mei had been silent and did not speak, the mother-in-law was immediately anxious, urging her to take out the real estate certificate, and said that it was better to arrange decoration and marriage as soon as possible, after all, the belly of the future daughter-in-law could not wait.
Watching her mother-in-law and husband sing a harmony, Deng Mei couldn't help but laugh. She waved her hand, the real estate deeds of 2 houses, I had already sent back to my mother's house, and my parents helped adopt my in-laws' eldest son, who was already looking at my face. Now the in-laws still want to occupy a house for the younger son, there is no door, my parents are not obliged to help you raise two sons, and your son has no ability to eat soft rice.
Deng Mei's words were not polite at all, and directly punctured everyone's fig leaf. The husband's face is very ugly, and the mother-in-law's face is also embarrassed. In the end, seeing that Deng Mei was always uncompromising, the mother-in-law could only slip away.
Before the mother-in-law left, she inevitably cursed and grinned, and blamed her eldest son for not being able to marry an only child, but did not seek half a benefit and treatment for his parents and brother. If he really married his daughter-in-law and forgot his mother, his son bai was raised by others.
The mother-in-law's words made the husband come to the mouth of the pleading, and immediately swallowed back. He was also afraid that he would continue to blindly be filial piety, and Deng Mei would directly divorce him, allowing him to return to poverty overnight.
Today's Topic:
What do you think of what Deng Mei did?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!