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During the period when two people are still in love, any form of large loan and house purchase is very easy to explode. At this point, I remind all men and women in love, I hope that they will have a snack, do not overestimate their love, and do not overestimate human nature.
There is such a hot news on the Internet: half of the property rights of the man's marriage room are given to the girlfriend to break up and ask for it back.
In 2016, in order to marry his girlfriend, the man Wang invested 4.5 million yuan to buy a house in Haidian District, during which his girlfriend Zhao asked for a 50% share of the house to be registered in his name as a bride price. Afterwards, the two parties broke up due to contradictions, and Wang's request to Zhao to return the property rights was rejected. The court held that Wang knew that Zhao had only paid a small amount of money, and still handled the property rights under his name, and Wang could not come up with the house as evidence of the bride price. In this case, Wang's request was actually to revoke the gift, because the property rights gift occurred in 2016 and the two parties broke up in 2017, so it has exceeded the exclusion period for exercising the right of revocation provided by law. The court finally ruled to reject Wang's appeal.
Wang Mou really suffered a dumb loss and was calculated.
He invested 4.5 million yuan to buy the house, but he could not come up with evidence that "50% of the share of the house was registered in the name of his girlfriend as a dowry", there was no way, the court could only find that Wang's request was to revoke the gift, but after the exclusion period for exercising the right of revocation prescribed by law, he could only finally reject Wang's application.
This love hurt Wang not lightly, and he lost his wife and folded the soldiers.
In fact, in love, it is quite common for two people to fund a house together, and some couples say that when the relationship is good, they add their names, and even give away the property rights of the house. It doesn't matter when the feelings are good, when the feelings are not good, the two people break up, and when it comes to money, the two people become enemies.
Wang Mou such a thing, we do not rise to gender antagonism, there is no need, because such cases, boys suffer losses, girls suffer losses, in love to meet people are not shu shu is calculated by the other half, this matter is really quite common in real life, rising to gender antagonism is meaningless, meaningful is that we should explore how to avoid risks? How do you prevent the people you love from counting you in turn?
As I said at the beginning: During the relationship, any form of large borrowing and buying a house is extremely explosive.
You think you have a good relationship, but love and marriage are still not the same, a little heart, involving money and money matters or wait until after receiving the license to get married, at least there is a legal protection. Just during the love period on the house property rights to give it to the lover, you have a good relationship will not have any risk, but in the long run the risk is huge, once the breakup, he will not return the money to you to test his humanity, but the character you can not grasp. If he takes advantage of the loophole in the law and you have no evidence, what can you do with him?
Therefore, during the love period, do not involve large loans and house purchases, your feelings cannot stand the test, and people's hearts are unpredictable.
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I have a real case around me:
Xiao Ling (pseudonym) came to the southern coastal city to travel and then fell in love with the local Qiao on the bus. Xiao Ling is relatively young, very ignorant of love, and also portrays their encounters as magical, saying that their meeting and falling in love is a kind of fate. Later, after graduating from college, Xiao Ling worked and settled in this city near the sea, and she liked the coastal city too much.
Qiao is a local, Xiao Ling soon lived in Qiao's home, and got along well with Qiao's mother, and her relationship with Qiao also reached the point of talking about marriage. But I haven't got a license yet, I just live together, and I also call Qiao's mother "Mom".
Xiao Ling and Qiao Mou also jointly purchased a property in a community outside the island as their marriage house. I knew Xiao Ling many years ago, and then I knew that Xiao Ling broke up with Qiao Mou, the two of them made a very ugly scene because of that property, Qiao Mou's mother was very good to Xiao Ling at first, but Xiao Ling broke up with her son, where is there any love?
The property belonged to Xiao Ling with a lot of money, and she persuaded her mother to sell the house in her hometown to buy it. But I didn't expect That Qiao to play Yin, that is, he didn't recognize the account. The final solution was that the property was sold, and then the two people divided the money equally, and Xiao Ling lost hundreds of thousands of dollars, as if she had bought out the chaotic feelings with money.
Xiao Ling is living very well now, met her current husband, gave birth to a pair of twin daughters and a son, the past of the relationship is the past for her, she does not care about the money, because if she does not come back, there is no point in tangling with a rotten person.
I give Xiao Ling's example, I hope to be vigilant against some men and women, during the love period you want to cooperate to buy a house, or be cautious, people who really love you will not take advantage of you in the name of love, but you must be careful when you have requirements, do not be confused by his sweet words, and do not add the so-called love filter.
Long snack, you love him does not mean that it involves a large amount of money and real estate or anything.
After marriage, how can two people say well, after all, the marriage license is the premise of the marriage license, and your money is also the common property of the husband and wife, but if you are just in love, what guarantee do you take? Love? Do you think it's reliable? Don't do such a thing if you think it's unknown, or you might be counted.
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Or hope that the interaction between men and women can be sincere, not calculated, you feel that you have calculated that he has taken advantage, it is only for a while, people, not your own, you don't take, don't do bad things, otherwise, there may really be retribution in the future.
Be honest with each other and be less calculating.
Don't engage in gender antagonism because of this case, saying what does marriage give men? There is no need, do not use individual examples to replace the whole, this kind of thinking logic is very strange, engaging in gender antagonism between men and women is meaningless, because there are good men and good women, then on the contrary, there are scumbags and scumbags.
How do we avoid risks?
We must pay attention to a person's character, get along with him well, and judge what kind of person he is through daily life and his friends. During the love period or do not involve large loans and house purchases, two people to get a license how to say, no license, what guarantee do you take?
Today's topic: Do you have any cases like this around you? Welcome to leave a message.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.