Beautiful love can not be sought, everyone is also eager to meet the right person, can spend the rest of their lives with the people they like is undoubtedly happy, but want to talk about love to get married, but it is not an easy task, there are bride price and house before marriage.
The bride price is the sincerity of the man's family, representing the respect for the woman, the house is the guarantee of the woman after marriage, in case the marriage has to rent a house, in fact, as long as the two people have each other in their hearts, the two families can take the child's marriage as the main thing, the bride price and the house generally will not become a roadblock before marriage, but the people's hearts are very complicated, some people will treat the marriage as a transaction, just want to get greater benefits from it, in the end will only give a good marriage to nothing.
Aunt Wang recently encountered such a bad thing, originally the son is ready to get married, this is a good thing, Aunt Wang and his wife also gave enough women, as long as the other party's requirements are tried to meet, the car, the bride price and the house are all arranged, but near the wedding, the future daughter-in-law began to toss up, insisting that the house have to add her name, otherwise the marriage will not be married.
Aunt Wang is not accustomed to her, resolutely opposed, this house is the old couple with years of savings to buy, written in their own name, for the son as a marriage house, in the future do not plan to live with the daughter-in-law, so there is no need for them to make a down payment and repay the mortgage, this girl is not satisfied, actually remember this house.
The son sandwiched in the middle is also a dilemma, Aunt Wang directly accused him of not arguing, and said: You two are not married yet? If she is married, are you not afraid that she will change the law to empty the family foundation? So this matter is not negotiable, once compromised once, there is another time, must be resolute to the end, if she does not want to get married, it means that it is not sincere to you, if she is willing to live with you in a down-to-earth manner, this house will not be yours in the future?
After the son listened, he had to discuss with his girlfriend again, but the girlfriend still said that the house was not his own and he was insecure, so he had to add a name. Aunt Wang was also angry when she learned about it, and directly released the words: If you don't want to get married, even if you don't want to get married, return all the dowry money, my son is not indispensable to you.
In order to solve the problem between the two sides, the son took his girlfriend back home to see how things were solved, but Aunt Wang took the lead in opening her mouth: It is impossible to add a name to the house, the house bought by our old couple is used as a marriage house for you, there is no need for you to pay a penny, and I do not want to live with you, do you mean to ask for a name? What have you ever given? After listening, the other party replied: I will have children in the future, but I will give birth to your grandchildren.
Before the words were finished, Aunt Wang directly interrupted: Don't talk about having children, in addition to thinking about Dink, no matter who you marry, you will have children, I have prepared a house for you, it is already very good, on the contrary, if I don't help buy a house, you can't complain about me, after marriage, you still have to rent a house, you don't want to be grateful now, even if you still have to give birth, you still take the child as a chip, do you think it is appropriate?
Aunt Wang said this, the little girl has nothing to say, and later the son rarely goes to her house again, seeing that the good marriage is going to be yellow, the other party has not grasped the house anymore.
Zeng Guofan said: We must not take advantage of others in everything, and we must not easily take advantage of people's wealth. Now talk about marriage, many women feel that the man's family should prepare the marriage room, and even if they don't have a penny, they want to add a name, as long as the other party dares to oppose, there is also their own set of words, that is, they will have children in the future, and they must have a sense of security after marriage, so the house name is the best means.
As everyone knows, it is not yours, it is useless to remember for a long time, the house is used to live, only the husband and wife have good feelings, can they run the home well, can there be happiness and happiness, this is the biggest guarantee, if the husband and wife are not in harmony, then the pre-marital property is actually not related to your dime, even if it takes more effort to add a name, it is useless, in the end it makes the in-laws look down on it, and it also makes the husband and wife have a gap, which is really not worth the loss.