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01. Preface
When a woman is emotional, she is like a lotus in the heart of the lake, blooming with an elegant and charming posture, attracting the man's eyes.
Women really love a person and will not express their feelings too warmly. On the contrary, they will pay more attention to their own cultivation and level, hoping to let the other party see the best side of themselves.
Mu Xin said: "In the past, the sun became very slow, the cars, horses, and mail were very slow, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime. ”
However, in this fast-paced era, love often becomes like fast food, happy to be used to feed, and when it is worthless, it will be discarded casually.
True love is often unattainable.
When a woman moves her heart, she will take the initiative to "restrain" some behaviors and verbal expressions.
Women's restraint is actually to give each other more time, to let each other see their hearts clearly, and to be willing to become the most important person for the rest of each other's lives without complaint or regret.
Women have a secret heart for a person and will take the initiative to "restrain" behavior.
02, when quarreling, refrain from saying fierce words
It's easy to fall in love, it's hard to stay together. When in love, two people inevitably have a run-in period, conflict, and contradiction.
After a woman moves the truth, when she quarrels, she will fiercely restrain her emotions and restrain herself from saying fierce words so as not to hurt the people she loves.
In "Parental Love", Jiang Defu always let his wife Anjie. Live according to the wife's habits, accept her "petty bourgeoisie", and be willing to try to become better for her.
Many people only see Jiang Defu love Anjie, but Anjie also pays a lot.
Jiang Defu's temper is grumpy, especially when he encounters things that touch his bottom line, he will throw his temper on anyone who he catches, even Anjie is no exception.
Anjie sometimes tried to comfort him, but in exchange for his "get out" words. Anjie didn't care about his attitude toward her, nor did he make a big fuss, but actually walked out, leaving him enough time for him to figure it out for himself.
Anjie, taking a step back, let the quarrels between them always dissipate quickly.
Women love someone and will restrain themselves. I'd rather let myself be aggrieved for a while than let the problems between each other become bigger.
Know how to accommodate men, I hope that the feelings of two people can be better managed.
After the woman moves her heart, she will restrain her emotions, let each other deal with the problem more calmly, and protect the feelings of the two people.
03, restrain the performance of shortcomings, present the perfect self
After a woman falls in love with a person, when she shows herself, she will have the heart of "taking advantage of her strengths and avoiding her weaknesses".
"For the rest of your life, please give more advice" Gu Wei went to Lin Zhi's school for the first time to eat. Lin Zhixue saw that Gu Wei was there, and when he ate, he immediately changed into a "everyone's boudoir" look.
Eat small bites, drink soup in small bites, and show that your meal is very small.
Her parents couldn't stand her transformation. The father even bluntly said how his daughter became so pretentious and did not eat well.
Lin Zhixue looked very embarrassed and said that he was originally like this. She wants to make the best impression on her boyfriend and wants to be the "perfect" girlfriend.
When a woman moves her heart, she will restrain her shortcomings in front of the beloved man and strive to present her most perfect side.
Women are emotional, they will behave very restrained in front of men, and they will deliberately behave very ladylike. For example: don't dare to speak out loud, keep a perfect outfit.
Moreover, women will also show a state of caution and try to show the best side to impress men's hearts.
Women who have real feelings will restrain themselves for love, and will change themselves for love.
04, restrained expression, like "duplicity"
A woman who is moved by a heart and likes a person will always be tempted to pander and please him.
When two people are together, she will be afraid to reject him and will be afraid to destroy the feelings between two people. Even if you suffer some grievances, you will often say "I can do it" with duplicity.
Because of love, women will care about a man's preferences, be willing to accompany him to do what she likes, and restrain her desires.
At the same time, it will also leave more time and energy to the man you love. Even if she wasn't interested in what he liked to do, she would still restrain herself and be willing to try to understand and stay with the other person.
Women, after falling in love with a person, will please him, pay too much attention to his feelings, and easily compromise.
Loving someone and restraining your playful mentality will become more and more serious.
Moreover, he will try his best to integrate into his world, restrain some of his hobbies and interests, restrain lazy thoughts, and want to become a woman closer to his soul.
05. Summary
Women's "restraint" from themselves is a way of expressing love.
When a woman really has a heart for a person, she will feel that she cannot relax at all times, and she will be restrained everywhere to let the man see her best.
The sign of a woman's affection for you is actually "restraint".
When getting along with the man she loves, she will restrain the venting of emotions and not let negative emotions affect the emotional development of two people.
Because they care about each other, they don't want each other to choose to leave because of the thorns on each other's bodies. Therefore, she will restrain herself from showing shortcomings and try to show her strengths.
When getting along with men, they will also restrain their true thoughts and care about each other's feelings.
When a woman is moved, she will "restrain" for love and want to win more pleasure from men. The deeper the love, the more restrained it will be.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.