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01. Preface
Love, like a fire, cannot be hidden.
The famous writer Sanmao said: "I can't hide a person like it, even if I cover my mouth, I will still run out of my eyes." ”
Some people say that true love is like a girl with a mask on her face, and she can't see the real face of the other party. In fact, true love for a person is traceable and will be expressed in action.
True love for a person, will not consider whether love is worth it, will not think about whether there is a return for giving.
True love will make a person become very positive, even if he says some big truths and expresses his principles, but when he meets a beloved woman, he can't help but compromise for her.
Loving someone can't help but intrude into her world, wanting to be close to her, warm her, protect her.
True love for someone, will work hard for her, will put her in their future plans. I hope that in my future world, I will always have her company. Give her the best life possible and make her reluctant to leave again.
People who really regard you as a treasure will "can't help themselves".
02, can't help but pay and give more warmth
Truly love a person, will not help but give, always want to be better for her, give her more love and care.
In "Please Advise More for the Rest of Your Life", Lin Zhixue accompanies his sick father in the ward, and doesze off on the hospital bed when he accompanies him at night.
When Gu Wei passed by, he would help her put on a dress, afraid that she would freeze. Gu Wei couldn't help but want to take care of her, in fact, because he was touched by her and always wanted to take care of her.
Loving someone can't help but do something for her. In the eyes, I can always see her needs and hope that she can get more care.
If you love someone, you forget to calculate personal gains and losses. Want to be nice to her, not under your control, everything is focused on the other person.
Seeing that the other party needs it, he will immediately rush over, become her pillar, and become his patron saint.
Deeply in love with a person, you can't help but want to be better to her, all the focus is on the other person, and your own world can only accommodate one her.
Fear of any problems with the other person, fear that the other party will not be able to take good care of themselves. Only she is safe and sound, only she is happy and happy, and her heart is steadfast.
03, can't help but get closer, want to have more two-person world
True love can't help but want to get closer to each other and make each other closer.
Love someone, even if you take a detour, you hope to have a chance to meet with each other. Can't help but inquire about each other's itinerary, and constantly create intersections with each other.
The deeper the love, the slower it becomes more and more greedy.
From a simple greeting from the first two people, to the later ability to sit down to eat together. After that, they long to slowly become friends with each other, and then hope to sublimate their feelings, finally become lovers, and finally want to become partners who will never be separated.
True love will make a person's footsteps become urgent, always want to pursue the other person's figure, hope that the other party can see the place where his eyes can see.
Love to the depths, you can't help but want each other's lives to overlap, even if you pay more.
True love makes two people attract to each other, so that there are more and more resonances between two people, resulting in tacit understanding.
Can't help but create the world of two people creatively, create more love, and hope that the rest of each other's lives can become each other's only.
04, can't help but work hard to create a better future
True love for a person, will not help but want to run with her to the future, will not help but plan each other's future, and make efforts to create a bright future.
"Why Sheng Zhen Mo" When He Yichen and Zhao Mosheng were not separated, He Yichen envisioned the future of the two people.
At that time, he would calculate when he would be able to save a sum of money. Before buying a house, you can rent a small house and form a "small family" that belongs only to each other.
Then, work hard, earn money to buy a house, and give her a more stable life.
If you really love someone, you will have a lot of fantasies about the future in your mind, and these fantasies will even be clear in detail. Because of the lover, there will be greater expectations for the future.
In "Loving You Like Loving Life", Wang Xiaobo wrote about the enthusiasm of a man's love for a woman: "You are so cute, people love it to death. As soon as you came, I was determined to live in a serious, not sloppy way, even if it was to bother, even if I had to sacrifice. ”
True love for a person, will work hard, not for how high their achievements can be, but reluctant to the people they love deeply suffer and suffer, hoping that she can get real happiness.
Truly love someone and can't help but work hard to create a better future for each other.
05. Summary
In love, people who really regard you as a treasure will "can't help but give and work hard".
If you really like someone, you will definitely use actions to express love and pass on warmth and love.
Even if you don't say "I love you" on your lips, there must be traces of expression of love in your behavior. Because of love, so you can't help but give, to take care of each other, to warm each other.
Love to the depths, I hope to see each other all the time, so that each other can quickly enter each other's world.
At the same time, it will also have great expectations for the future of two people, and will also redouble its efforts and struggles in order to make the future better.
The deeper the love, the more active it will be, and the more attentive it will be to care for each other's affection.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.