Fate is invisible.
In this world, there are too many encounters, and it is not possible to hold hands when they meet.
Even if they hold hands, two people may not be able to work together for a lifetime.
After all, having a chance to meet is only the first step in love. Next, whether you can sublimate the fate, you also need both sides, under the traction of the subconscious, a little familiarity, step by step closer.
Until one day, they recognized each other and made up their minds to stay together.
The feelings of two people can usher in the opportunity of sublimation in the water. At the same time, the fate of two people will also change from a feeling to a visible expression.
For example, before the relationship is determined, people will speculate more than they act. When they become couples, the two people are more willing to communicate frankly and frankly, and through specific ways such as dating and gift giving, the feelings continue to heat up.
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What is positive karma?
Love needs to be expressed.
In a relationship: You have feelings, I mean, or not enough.
If you want to make fate and smoothly turn into love, you need two people to communicate further.
For example, boys and girls have the idea of falling in love, if there is no specific confession, then the relationship between the two sides can only stay outside the relationship of lovers.
Even if two people get along, they go beyond the relationship of ordinary friends.
Even one day, the two parties had previously had acts that represented an intimate relationship. In fact, in the depths of many people's hearts, tacit still does not represent the determination of the love relationship.
Unless one day, one of the parties takes the initiative to confess, two people can be regarded as a complete establishment of a couple's relationship.
If two people become lovers, can they always fall in love?
In the world of emotions, there will still be invisible challenges, many couples have loved each other, and it is difficult to get rid of the end of love. Two people have loved each other, but they can't stay together, which can only explain a fact, that is, each other, not each other's right fate.
The so-called "positive fate" should be that after both parties fall in love, they can walk from love to marriage and go on for the rest of their lives, such a fate is the love that everyone recognizes and is worth yearning for.
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Whether it is a positive edge or not, there is a signal.
It's easy to meet.
If you want to continue to love each other, you have to face too many tests.
From the perspective of love psychology, everyone has their own personality characteristics and ways of dealing with people.
For love, two people come together, and then the two parties need to go through a long run-in process to realize whether each other is really suitable, and this relationship is not the luck of the rest of their lives.
Some couples, hand in hand, go through a period of time and then disperse.
It is because after the two sides get along, they always stare at each other's shortcomings and think that they have encountered the wrong person. In this relationship, there is no longer a sense of happiness, and it is easy for everyone to have the idea of leaving.
And those couples who can maintain appreciation, get along tirelessly, and are willing to complete each other, but under the witness of time, the two hearts will be closer together, and eventually the two people will become each other's emotional destination.
Such a fate is the right fate that friends expect.
So, in a relationship, is there a positive relationship between men and women? Actually, there is a hint.
Can you appreciate each other.
Going from strange to familiar takes time.
When two people have the opportunity to meet, how to let the feelings get the opportunity to heat up?
Usually, if both parties are not accustomed to each other, both people will avoid it, and the fate will gradually be exhausted.
People who can come together tend to stare at each other's strengths and treat each other with admiring eyes. Under such a mode of getting along, two people can't help but get closer.
After men and women meet, is it possible to hold hands?
Whether they will appreciate each other or not, they will be able to find clues.
Psychology believes that two people with similar magnetic fields, after coming together, are more likely to have a feeling of pity for each other, and they will also find more fit in mutual appreciation.
Such two people, after becoming lovers, the relationship will often be more stable.
Get along for a long time.
Appreciating each other is the first step to becoming a couple.
After two people hold hands, can they always love each other happily?
Time speaks for itself, but it will witness everything.
In the passage of time, the couple can maintain an appreciative look, which is not only conducive to the heating up of feelings, but also makes the relationship between the two sides more stable.
If couples, from seeing each other very happy, to looking at each other with disgust.
Obviously, in such feelings, there is often a lack of understanding and tolerance, even if two people have loved each other, they will lose all patience day by day in the passage of time, and in the end, they cannot become each other's "right fate".
Love itself is a trial-and-error process.
If you want to grasp the right edge, you need to give each other a period of time, and after getting along, you can achieve further understanding. If you have been together for a long time but will not be bored, please believe that the other party is your right fate.
Willingness to fulfill it.
The heating up of feelings is inseparable from paying.
However, for some people, their efforts have a bottom line.
For example, a boy meets a woman he likes and he thinks that's love. In fact, in the process of pursuing girls, men encounter setbacks and are unwilling to continue.
Obviously, such feelings are, at best, only faintly liked.
True love is often stable.
Even if there is a setback, even if it pays a lot, one person willingly fulfills the other.
Such an attitude is the deep love from the heart, and such feelings can pass the test of time.
Two people have the opportunity to get along, how to judge each other, is it the right fate?
To judge from two angles, if you are willing to pay for each other, and the other party also strives to complete themselves, it is obvious that the feelings of both sides are a kind of true love, and when they come together, the feelings will be very stable.
Conversely, those who have a shallow taste are often not true love.
Everyone's energy is limited.
We are all looking forward to, in our best years, meeting the people who are destined to meet.
But in love, you often encounter the wrong person.
The result of entanglement with each other will only consume the time of both parties, and even make everyone stop believing in love.
After a period of getting along, everyone will inevitably have such a question: Are two people the right thing? It turned out to be suggestive. Friends may wish to start from these perspectives to see if two people can always appreciate each other, whether they will be bored for a long time, and whether they will be perfect for each other.
When you understand this, I think friends will be able to find the answer you want.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.