In "Youth and Learning", the author Tang Junyi said: The way of learning is not limited to reading. The cultivation of virtue, inner enlightenment, is a kind of learning.
When a learned person can only read books, and it is not pleasing to the eye to see anyone, it is a disaster.
Pleasing to the eye is the cultivation of the soul, and the best cultivation is to appreciate the excellence of others, use the nourishment in the book, and have the insight of human feelings and worldly affairs.
Being able to read books, read good books, and use the truth in books to practice life is the best cultivation.
It is not pleasing to the eye to see others because they have not read enough
Tang Junyi mentioned in "Youth and Learning": Don't think that we don't read books, just by virtue of our innate wisdom or thinking ability, we can really read the big book of natural universe life and society directly, and read it ourselves for the vast significance.
For the big book of society, it seems easy, but in fact it is difficult to understand.
There is such a story:
Xiao Chen is not pleasing to anyone in the unit, either he dislikes Xiao Zhang for being too procrastinating, or he dislikes Xiao Li's words and does not listen, or he dislikes Xiao Wang and only tricks his superiors.
All day long he complained, and it seemed that no one but himself had a problem.
Because it is not pleasing to see others, it also makes Xiao Chen more and more indignant, feeling that others are all sick, complaining and complaining, and finally having a bad relationship with anyone.
Many times, like Xiao Chen, we just see other people's problems and not see our own problems.
In psychology, Xiao Chen's thinking is called personality disorder, that is, pushing all problems to others, and not seeing what problems he has.
Reading is a mirror that can illuminate the strengths of others and the shortcomings of oneself.
Through books, purify the mirror of the soul, and increase the breadth of thinking and the depth of thought through reading. A person can only go far if he walks the path that others have already taken.
In the same way, only if a person thinks too much about what his predecessors have thought, can he make the fastest progress, and reading is not only to do learning, but more importantly, to use the mirror of the soul to increase cultivation and see through himself.
Seeing others pleasing to the eye is the best cultivation
Read books to live, not to die. To be a person must be to believe the words of others and to see others pleasing to the eye.
The more a person looks at others, the more this person can become a great instrument.
To see others pleasing to the eye is actually to see oneself pleasing to the eye. What is in people's eyes is often mirrored, and what you see in your eyes will only see what you see.
In "Heavenly Dao", Ding Yuanying is a very powerful person, but he does not have a little shelf, even for Ye Xiaoming and Liu Bing, who are ignorant of righteousness.
In order to help Ye Xiaoming and Liu Bing, Ding Yuanying did not collect a penny, purely poverty alleviation nature to help them, but these two people repeatedly doubted his starting point, encountered a little harm to their own interests, and immediately wanted to run away.
For other people, when they encounter such ungrateful people, they will be particularly angry, but Ding Yuanying is particularly calm, just saying: This is your own business, just think clearly.
I didn't feel that it was unpleasant to look at these people because I met people, which was where Ding Yuanying's good cultivation and atmosphere were.
The greatness of the instrument, in its ability to accommodate things, the presence of the human heart, is first manifested in the amount of its ability to believe and be willing to do.
For Ding Yuanying, he read a lot of books, and his natural temperament and thinking were different from ordinary people, enlightened from books, and then enlightened from enlightenment.
Seeing others pleasing to the eye is enlightenment, it is the opening of doubts, it is the mountains and rivers that are full of doubts and no way, the willows are dark and the flowers are bright and another village, it is the doubtful land in the depths of the pupu, and suddenly some people laugh and speak.
Only by looking at others well can we win respect and show our own self-cultivation.
Read more books to see that everyone is pleasing to the eye
Listening to reading and reading, can not be wasted, good listener is called deaf, good reader is said to be clear.
When people read books, little by little knowledge, will be related into a line, from the spider web, from the point to the surface, from the surface to the body, whether it is the mind or cognition, will gradually expand and broaden.
If you look at others well, you must first reflect on whether you are not cultivating enough? At this time, you may wish to read more. For most of the wrong thought lies in the fact that the mind is out of sync with the understanding.
When you read more books, you can realize that you are deeper, higher, and farther, find more hidden problems from a problem, and get the general truth of implicit things from one thing.
From reading, you will gain the ability to go very deep, ascend, and go far, and your personal cultivation will also be improved day by day.
Read books often, read good books, and you will be enlightened. Enlightenment is enlightenment, awareness, imitation, and action. The greatest role of reading is to go from unknown to known, from chaos to enlightenment.
Whether it is thinking, thinking, or science, culture and history, it is inseparable from words, reading can be from human nature, temperament to personal cultivation, there will be a supernatural way of survival, and then to the world, rule the world.
One is to achieve oneself and improve one's self-cultivation, and the other is to open up culture and get rid of pride, arrogance and personal impetuosity. Especially in the era of traffic, most people are prone to anxiety, and there is a kind of indignation that no one looks good.
At this time, we may wish to read more books, the spirit to the simple hou, when we sincerely believe in a person, we can forget our narrow cognition, so as to have true wisdom, look at others.
When we have read many books and learned more knowledge, we know the fate of life and the personal value we want to give ourselves.
Reading, doing learning, and turning learning into one's own energy field is a person's self-cultivation in reading, and it is also the root of the breeding of ideals and feelings.