There is a sentence in the inscription of the Ming Dynasty playwright Tang Xianzu's "Peony Pavilion": "I don't know what to do, but I have always been deep." "Love is sacred, it represents purity, purity; love is mysterious, and it does not know where it arises, where it arises and where it goes.
Rui Xiaodan in the original book of "Heavenly Dao" may not have imagined that her love for Ding Yuanying would come so suddenly and so simply.
The two first met
Ding Yuanying is the boss of Rui Xiaodan's friend Xiao Yawen, and at the beginning of the original work, it was written that Xiao Yawen flew to Berlin to ask Rui Xiaodan to help find a suitable rentable house for Ding Yuanying in the ancient city, and asked her to help take care of it.
After seeing Ding Yuanying's personal information, Rui Xiaodan felt quite disdainful, especially scornful of his life, although Xiao Yawen repeatedly emphasized Ding Yuanying's extraordinary ability and unique concept, and reminded her not to be moved by such a person, Rui Xiaodan still did not pay attention to it.
The day the two first met was the day when Ding Yuanying moved to the ancient city to live. Rui Xiaodan took him to the rented house and briefly introduced him, then left after a few polite words.
After Rui Xiaodan left, she drove to the hotel of her girlfriend Ouyang Xue, and from her conversation with Ouyang Xue, it could be seen that Rui Xiaodan was an extremely confident person, she was beautiful, independent, and capable, and it was expected that Ding Yuanying would definitely contact her again in just a few days, just like the men she had met before.
However, what Rui Xiaodan did not expect was that this time she was wrong.
Gradually moved
After a full eight months, Ding Yuanying never contacted Rui Xiaodan, which aroused Rui Xiaodan's curiosity, she took the initiative to call Ding Yuanying, and Ding Yuanying's polite but distant words on the phone made her more interested.
Therefore, Rui Xiaodan began to go to the door to find Ding Yuanying, taking care of his life as a pretext, and asked his girlfriend Ouyang Xue to send some food to Ding Yuanying's family. All this is because of Ding Yuanying's attraction to her.
Ding Yuanying is not like the man she meets around her, he is capable, but he likes a quiet and plain life; in the face of a beautiful and independent woman like Rui Xiaodan, who is equally capable, he is not at all interested.
This can't help but make Rui Xiaodan have doubts in his heart, and even have a "reverse psychology", that is, a psychological state in which people take opposite attitudes and words and deeds towards each other's requirements in order to maintain their self-esteem.
The more calm Ding Yuanying was, the less interested he became, and the more Rui Xiaodan wanted to appear by his side from time to time to attract his attention. This seems to be a gambling psychology, but it is the beginning of Rui Xiaodan's love for Ding Yuanying.
Gradually, Rui Xiaodan learned about Ding Yuanying's simple and plain life, and even after listening to him let go of a song, he abandoned his work like a demon, and spent all day in the streets and alleys, spending all his savings to buy a speaker that could produce the same sound effect as Ding Yuanying's speaker.
Rui Xiaodan was not only fascinated by this shocking speaker and sound, but also fascinated by Ding Yuanying, a simple but complex person.
It can be seen from this that the emergence of love stems from the characteristics of a person who can attract others, that is, love is derived from attraction; and between men and women who have a good feeling for each other, the more cold one is, the more it will arouse the interest of the other party, and the more enthusiastic the other party will chase and fight.
The nature of love
Judging from the feelings between Ding Yuanying and Rui Xiaodan, the more Rui Xiaodan took the initiative towards him, the more Ding Yuanying restrained himself from maintaining a long distance.
This is both the subtlety of the feelings between men and women, but also shows that love is not something that exists as a physical object, as a thought and emotion, it is often illusory, often making people unable to realize it accurately and on time. However, love does not arise for no reason, there must be a reason.
At its root, the origin of love often comes from the attraction of one party to the other, and if only one party sings a monologue, then there is no way to produce emotional resonance. And only attract each other,
This creates a sense of freshness and curiosity that attracts the attention of the other.
Write at the end
Some people say that love is beautiful, and some people say that you should not touch love easily. Love can nurture people, but it can also hurt people. Some people are full of longing for love, and some people avoid love.
But it should be admitted that love will make us understand many things, good and bad, are influential and inspiring to our lives.
Whether love comes or not, we should first do ourselves well and improve ourselves in order to make ourselves attractive to love.
Of course, at the time of the arrival of love, there is no need to doubt, there is no need to retreat, just like Rui Xiaodan in the original work, cheerful and crisp, after recognizing his own thoughts, he calmly accepts and takes the initiative. In this way, there is hope of harvesting happiness!
Love begins with uniqueness, from attraction, acceptance of love, and enjoyment of happiness! ——This is the most beautiful revelation brought to us by the love between Rui Xiaodan and Ding Yuanying in the original work of "Heavenly Dao"!