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It is said that a woman's heart is as deep as the sea, and a woman's mind is really difficult to guess. In fact, this is a misconception about women. Women's minds are not complicated, and they just want to find someone to love her well and live a peaceful and stable life with her.
And, once she wants to develop a relationship with you, she will act more proactive than you.
Of course, it is not their style to speak out frankly, what they prefer to do is to hide affection deeply in the small things in life, and the following three small things are often the best proof that she has feelings for you. Even if you receive one, you must know how to cherish it.
One: Take the initiative to talk to you about your heart
Psychology believes that when one person trusts another person enough, she will be willing to take the initiative to say what she is doing. This kind of trust is based on the feeling that the other party makes her feel safe and will give.
A male colleague often complained to me: a female colleague who came home from work with him always talked to him about her contradictions with her parents, about her interaction with her girlfriends, and about her troubles...
The male colleague said that he felt that he did not know her to this extent, and did not understand why she always had to talk to himself about these things, often making him not know how to continue, making him a little bit bigger.
Listening to the description of this male colleague, I think it is a little funny, because the female colleague has long had a good feeling for him, and will talk to him about these topics, but also out of trust, the purpose is also completely to let him know more about her.
And this male colleague can't even see such an obvious gesture of affection, which can only be said to be a bit dull.
For both men and women, the heart is a secret that cannot be easily said to outsiders. Therefore, if a woman will take the initiative to reveal her heart to you and confide in you her troubles, then it is largely proof that she wants to develop with you.
Two: Take the initiative to ask you out
Someone on the Internet has asked such a question: What will happen if you like a person? There is a very short but honest answer, the answerer said:
"Of course, I want to see him every moment, and I want to be together all the time."
I couldn't believe it. Once you have a like, it is difficult to accept the control of behavior, and you will do things that you would never do in your daily life.
Rui Xiaodan of the book "Distant Savior", after confirming his intentions for Ding Yuanying, can no longer remain reserved. In this relationship, she has always been the attacking party, and the way she expressed her feelings to Ding Yuanying was to take the initiative to ask him out.
Rui Xiaodan knows very well that in this relationship, if she is not active enough, then there will be no possibility of starting, so she is very willing to be this active person, to be a role that pays love first.
Probably every woman has fantasized about her own love, and I believe that in the fantasy role, she is invariably the party who is loved and abused. But in fact, when a woman really likes a person, she will even want to be together more than the other party, and she is more willing to take the initiative to ask the other person out.
Those who were once shy were also thrown out of the clouds in the morning, after all, women's feelings are always much warmer than men's.
Three: Take the initiative to talk to you about future planning
Some people say that to see if a man really loves you, it depends on whether he has you in his plans for the future.
The saying goes in reverse, depending on whether a woman really wants to develop with you, it depends on whether she has put herself in the planning for the future.
In the foreign literary work "Madame Bovary", the heroine Emma, in her later married life, became more and more disdainful of her husband Bovary, and soon after the marriage, she began to have an affair with Rodolph.
In the process, Emma became more and more infatuated with Rodolph, so she thought of eloping with him, and she even naively described the happy life after eloping with Rodol, unaware that her piece of sincerity could only be paid by mistake.
It can be seen that women are very real, when she wants to have long-term development with you, she will take the initiative to talk to you about her future planning, and you are the most important part of her planning.
When women express their love, it is difficult to be as straightforward as men, and what they are better at is to integrate their hearts into every little thing they get along with you, hoping that you can use this to understand her sincerity to you.
Therefore, if a woman is willing to tell you all her thoughts, if she often takes the initiative to ask you out, if she will take the initiative to talk to you about future plans, please believe her sincerity, and do not doubt her determination to go down with you.
To be able to get such a love, have no regrets in this life, and live up to it, which is your greatest kindness.
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