Dad is an important partner in the parenting business, but in many families, the participation of dad in childcare is very low.
Some fathers don't even know exactly which school their children go to, and there are news that "Ma Daha" dads have sent their children to the wrong school at the beginning of the school.
Dad is not only an identity, but also an important life mentor for children, which has a great impact on the formation of children's healthy personality. A good dad has a better impact on a child than 100 teachers.
01 The father wears a white gauze dress to dance with his daughter
Some time ago, when Mommy was surfing the Internet, she saw a funny and heart-warming news.
A father in Weifang, Shandong Province, sent his daughter to a dance class, but because his daughter was only 4 years old and was going to class on the first day, it was inevitable that she was a little shy and restrained.
In order to ease the tension in his daughter's heart, the father who was watching from the sidelines suggested to the teacher to be a "sparring partner" for his daughter. With the teacher's consent, dad changed into a white gauze dress, followed the teacher and daughter, and carried the small skirt to learn ballet moves.
The daughter laughed when she saw her father's outfit and twisting movements, and she was not so nervous.
After the video of the father wearing a white gauze dress and dancing ballet with his daughter was posted on the Internet, it attracted the attention of many netizens. In this regard, the child's father said that wearing skirts is for the daughter, there is nothing to be embarrassed about, as the greatest happiness of parents is to accompany the child, every step of the daughter's growth, he does not want to be absent.
There is nothing to be embarrassed about for her daughter, this sentence made Mommy very moved.
Because dads are less involved in the parenting process, Luo Zhenyu once called his father "the most useless mother and baby product."
And this father has proved with practical actions that dad is not the most useless maternal and infant product, as long as the heart, every man may become a good father.
02 Parenting requires the involvement of the father
"Daddy with baby, live is good", it seems to have become a consensus in today's society, everyone tacitly acknowledges that dad is not good at taking babies.
Dads who are not good at carrying babies also have their own reasons:
You let him take the baby, he said he wanted to go to work to earn money to support the family; you let him accompany the baby, when he encountered something, he only knew to let the baby find his mother; no matter how difficult the game could be, he could delve into the way to crack it, only to take the baby There were only three words left:"I will not"...
In fact, no one is born to be a father, no one is born to be a mother, and every skilled mother is slowly growing up from the very beginning.
From breastfeeding and coaxing to sleep, step by step, he has evolved into a superhuman mother, and many fathers have chosen to directly "lie flat" in these things.
As everyone knows, in parenting, whether from the perspective of children or from the perspective of the family, "father's participation" is crucial.
The famous educator Spencer pointed out that fathers are the guides of children to the outside world. Studies have shown that fathers play a special role in their children's ability to establish a correct worldview and discover their own ideals of life.
On the other hand, the family in which the father actively participates in child-rearing, whether it is a husband and wife relationship or a parent-child relationship, is more harmonious.
Speaking of a thousand ways and ten thousand, raising children is not only a matter for mothers, but also requires the active participation of fathers.
A good father will not only inject more strength into the growth of the child, but also be more conducive to the harmony and happiness of the family.