Virtuousness is a good quality in many women, and some women insist on cooking and housework even after pregnancy, which is very industrious.
They certainly deserve a thumbs up, but does that mean all women should learn from them?
Pregnant without cooking is a princess?
A few days ago, when Mommy brushed the news, she brushed a rather surprising thing: the pregnant mother who did not cook during pregnancy was actually called a princess.
A video blogger posted a video saying that a pregnant mother in Vietnam is so powerful that she cooks at 30 weeks of pregnancy and praises her for doing a good job.
It is such a mediocre video, but I did not expect that there was a very harsh comment at the bottom:
"* There are so many princesses in the sound!" I've been cooking until the day before I gave birth, the child is 15 years old, my husband has always been good to me, I can do something, which is so pretentious! ”
Unexpectedly, this statement came from a mother, which really shocked Mommy. It is reasonable to say that after experiencing the difficulty of pregnancy and childbirth, she can better understand the hardships of pregnant mothers, but she actually despises those pregnant mothers who do not cook during pregnancy, calling them princesses and accusing them of being too pretentious.
In this regard, Mommy only wants to say: the same is the world pregnant person, why is it too anxious to fry?
Moms need respect and understanding
Pregnant has been insisting on cooking, until the day before the birth of the baby, and it is completely voluntary, it is a virtuous mother, yes, but this can not be the standard and basis for her to accuse other pregnant mothers!
Is not cooking during pregnancy a pretense? The day before the baby is still on the front line of housework, is it superior to others?
Mommy can only say that this mother is lucky, and she has been able to keep cooking during pregnancy, indicating that her body did not have much discomfort throughout pregnancy, at least not by severe morning sickness.
Mommy liked to cook before she became pregnant, but as soon as she smelled the smell of oil smoke after pregnancy, her entire stomach would turn upside down and gagged. This condition continued until she was born, so Mommy didn't step into the kitchen throughout her pregnancy.
Is Mommy's pregnancy not cooking because of pretense? It's really not allowed by the physical condition!
The state of each pregnant mother after pregnancy is different, some people are alive before pregnancy, but after pregnancy, it is possible to become a weak willow wind Lin Daiyu, walking two steps will be tired and breathless.
Not having much discomfort in your body during pregnancy, and even helping to do some housework as much as you can, only means that you are luckier than some people, and it does not mean that you have the right to despise others.
Taking a step back, even if some pregnant mothers pretend to be pregnant, do not do housework, cook, and enjoy the care of their families for granted, should they be despised?
Pregnant mothers risk deforming their bodies and completely disrupting the rhythm of life, sacrificing sleep and sacrificing freedom, and are they not worthy of such care? Childbirth is a matter for two people, women bear the hard work of conceiving a new life, and it is the basic responsibility for men to take care of their pregnant wives.
Society's requirements for women are already harsh enough, and we who are also women do not need to intensify internal competition, making the living environment more inward.
At the same time, I also hope that the society will have more understanding and tolerance for mothers, because you never know how much difficult it is to experience behind becoming a mother.