Mommy, who raises her daughter, often receives the envy of male mothers in her daily life:
"I really envy you, my daughter Wen Wen is quiet, how good to raise."
"The daughter is the blessing of the mother's previous life, and the son is the mother's present life in this life."
"Raising a daughter is equivalent to entering a sweet little cotton jacket, and raising a son is equivalent to receiving a demon king of the mixed world."
Inside and outside, girls are better than boys. Mommy admits that raising girls may be a little more worry-free in some ways, but if you think that girls are generally better than boys, this misunderstanding is a bit deep...
Is raising a girl easier than raising a boy?
Raising a girl is more worry-free than raising a boy, which is something that many male mothers agree.
A friend of Mommy's has a son, and her sister has a daughter who is about the same age and often plays together.
This also made her envious of our female mother, thinking that raising a daughter is much more worry-free than raising a son. I asked her how to save her mind, and she gave me an example:
Every time before taking her son out, she first rushed to the door and covered the doorknob with one hand, and then stood in various strange positions to quickly put on her shoes, in case the little one opened the door and ran away when she was putting on her shoes. And with her son out, she always has only the share of chasing and shouting after her son, and she basically did not feel the leisure of leisurely strolling.
She said that taking her niece out is different, after the little girl puts on her own shoes, she will obediently stand by the door and wait for her to put on her shoes, and then go out with her hand in hand, there will be no panic in taking her son out.
So, she came to the conclusion that raising girls is much easier than raising boys.
I have to admit that there are indeed some differences between boys and girls in terms of gender characteristics and psychological characteristics, but it is too arbitrary to conclude that girls are generally better than boys based on these differences alone.
Treat every child with a normal heart
The niece's well-behavedness allows friends to have a better experience with a baby, but this does not prove that girls are better than boys, but can only say that the differences between children make the experience of raising a baby also very different.
The same is the girl, but Mommy's experience with friends is diametrically opposed. Mommy's daughter belongs to the type of female man, crazy is no less than a boy, Mommy has fished for a baby under the bed, also taken her shoes from a tree, and the family is full of toys that she has broken...
Every child is different, some children have a quiet personality, some children are more lively and outgoing, and different children give people different parenting experiences. Mommy has seen wenjing boys, but also seen the "big sky" like girls, their differences are formed by personality, family education and other factors together.
As a new generation of parents, we should see the differences that exist between each child, respect the child's personality development, and should not use the inherent gender "prejudice" to look at boys and girls.
Whether the child is good or not is not determined by gender, but only that the child behaves more trickily in some aspects, such as some children are active, some children do not like to eat, some children have a weak sense of rules, and some children are timid...
Each child has its own advantages and disadvantages, taking the advantages of other people's children and comparing them with the shortcomings of their own children, it is naturally better to raise other people's children.
Raising a baby will encounter one kind or another problem, respecting the differences between children, helping them to make the most of their strengths and avoid their weaknesses, and becoming a unique self, which is what we parents can do and should do most.