It is said that young people do not know how good their uncle is, and mistakenly regard fresh meat as a treasure.
Although it is a joke, Zhao Dasheng in "Sending Spring Home" really let the editor see a middle-aged man, the best look, whether it is ability or ethics, can be said to be the ceiling in the uncle's circle.
Let's start with the capability aspect.
As the saying goes, marry a man and marry a man, dress and eat. The essence of this sentence is actually to test a man's ability. After all, no woman would want to marry a waste. And Zhao Dasheng in "Sending Spring Back from the Storm", first a company commander, then the secretary of the Discipline Inspection Commission, and the future is bright, such an ability and ability, in reality, is more fragrant than any domineering president.
Let's look at the ethics aspect.
First, stick to your principles and refuse temptation.
In ancient times, there was "a repentant husband seeking a marquis", but now a man who has money becomes bad. It can be seen that rich and powerful men will always face great temptation, and if they can't hold it, they will often be led into the abyss because of temptation. And Zhao Dasheng is very reassuring, the principle is too firm, not to mention the money and beauty sent up, is his own little money-spending hobby, he has taken the initiative to quit, so such a self-disciplined man, you never have to worry about him will make mistakes, full of security.
Second, loyalty and single-mindedness, respect and tolerance.
For women, loyalty is always the most basic and important condition for a good man. In this regard, Zhao Dasheng also behaved very well, although there are two marriages, but there is an internal affair, not empathy, and after remarriage, he also keeps his distance from his ex-wife, never let Xu Ying misunderstand, and when facing the young and beautiful Lan Jie, he has never had distractions, like Yu Zhongjun falling in love with Lin Miaoxue, this kind of thing will never happen to Zhao Dasheng.
At the same time, in getting along with Xu Ying's couple, neither high and high, nor taken for granted, but very equal and respectful, not only can see and recognize the wife's efforts, but even if the work is busy, but as long as there is time, will cook together to do housework, but also accompany his wife to walk and watch movies, the personality is not old-fashioned and boring, but quite open-minded and humorous, and even occasionally deliberately coquettish, make his wife happy, it sounds very simple, but how many men can do it?
Finally, be responsible, attentive and considerate.
Being responsible, reliable, and responsible, is also a necessary condition for a good man. It is one thing for women to be independent or not, and quite another for men to be absent. Xu Ying in the play is very independent and excellent, but whether it is her adopted daughter Chu Chu running away from home, or her daughter Zhao Xiaoyan being kidnapped, when she is worried and anxious, Zhao Dasheng accompanies her as soon as possible, supports her main backbone, tells her not to be afraid, and wants him. No woman wants a widowed marriage, and the biggest expectation for a husband is that, like Zhao Dasheng, when you need him, he will always be there.
In addition, there is another detail that surprised the editor the most in the play, that is, Chu Chu was sick and hospitalized, and when Zhao Dasheng took care of her, he was actually cutting her nails! Very naturally, as it has been done countless times. Not to mention in TV series, even in life, the editor has never seen which father would do this for his daughter. If every man becomes such a good father, then I think women will have more expectations and confidence in fertility.
Salary handover, can do housework, can coax, capable, responsible, principled, and keep a distance from the opposite sex at all times, such an uncle circle good man, really amazing, if you are Xu Ying, will you be willing to divorce?