Author: Five layers
Born in a patriarchal family, how it affects girls, I think no one has a deep understanding of it more than Li Li.
About this year's winter vacation, after Li Li returned home, one day her mother suddenly asked, daughter! You are not small, have you talked about boyfriends in school!
Li Li immediately narrowed her eyes, in love, I didn't, just entered the university, how could it be!
She thought that her mother was changing her own words, afraid that she would fall in love before she was 20 years old. As a result, what her mother said next made her understand how self-inflicted she was.
The mother heard the words, smiled and said, this is not OK! You should talk about the object early, so that you can have a good reliance in the future. Otherwise, dragging and dragging, becoming an old girl, how to find a husband!
Ha? Tell me what's going on here? Li Li was a little puzzled. Other people's parents, not all let love, you have a good feeling, but also urge me to find a partner.
At that time, Li Li was a little unhappy, thinking that her mother did not think about herself at all, but she did not investigate deeply, and only buried her head to help prepare the New Year goods.
Who knows, a few days later, the family of four just finished dinner, the younger brother ran back to the room with a cigarette, but the parents looked for this gap and said they wanted to talk to Li Li.
Talk about what? My brother is not there, do you want to call him? Li Li asked stupidly.
Of course, the parents refused, they hesitated for half a day, awkwardly opened their mouths, Li Li! We bought your brother a house last month, thinking we still have to tell you.
Buying a house? To my brother? Why is it so sudden? When Li Li heard it, she was actually not surprised, after all, her brother was a boy, and it was normal for him to buy a house.
No, my parents said, although your brother is only 18 now, he has not been married for a few years. Moreover, now that house prices have fallen, we think that we must buy early and buy late, so we hurry up and start a set. You are also grown up now and should be able to understand. After all, boys are always harder, we put all our savings, have bought a house, you later ah! Really have to work harder on your own.
Although she felt a little uncomfortable in her heart, Li Li did not show it, nodding her head mechanically and perfunctorily at her parents.
However, before they could finish speaking, the father paused for a moment and told Li Li that the current house was also ready to be left to their brother, and they would inform you first, so that you would not have expectations and cause unnecessary contradictions.
What the? Now live also for the younger brother? So what am I? Li Li retorted in a loud voice.
But my mother said, you always have to marry, and it is useless to ask for a house in the family, so you give it to someone else's family. You! Find a boy with a house by yourself, not only will it all be solved, but also, you can help the family.
The more she said this, the more she couldn't listen to it, Li Li and her parents had a big fight, and the grievances of the past and the eccentricity of her parents all turned over. How can you do that? Even if you have favored sons over daughters since childhood, you can't help but take your daughter seriously!
In fact, it doesn't matter if the house is given to her brother, she didn't have the luxury of expecting it, but it was a little impersonal to inform her so hastily. She really didn't understand why other people's daughters could be treated equally. Only itself, like a tool.
In this way, after throwing down the next sentence, Li Li also ran back to the room.
After this day, Li Li changed completely, she no longer had hope for her parents, and she felt that her brother was not like a relative. The three of them are a family, and they are superfluous.
She secretly swore in her heart that if she never went back, you wouldn't think about me at all, and I wouldn't bother to waste my thoughts anymore. If you want to give it to your brother, give it! But don't try to get oil and water out of me.
Yikes! I believe anyone who hears that their parents have left nothing for themselves will be angry. Especially if my brother has it and I don't, what a disappointment it would be.
But this can also motivate yourself, live your own life, and pay less attention to those, which can only bring you pain, and can not give warmth to people.
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