When the baby is just born, when the parents only know that in addition to their love to cry, there is definitely a hunger, so the child is not feeding or changing the diaper when they cry. Sometimes the voice of the child does not pay too much attention to it, thinking that the child is still young, cannot speak, and will not speak until one year old or about 10 months. In fact, parents who have such thoughts are not right.
There is a scientific study that shows that babies have the ability to perceive the world from the day they are born, and when they are young, they also hope that their parents can communicate with him, and do not think that he is still young and cannot understand anything. Although they could not understand it when they were young, they could feel the love of their families for him, and they could read the hearts of adults with their eyes.
The following mother did not take care of the child's childhood psychology, resulting in the baby's self-confidence is frustrated.
Li Li often complains that the baby looks "ugly", which affects the baby's brain development
Some newborn children may look a little ugly, but when they grow up, they slowly grow up, and they look good. There are many vivid examples of this in daily life. Small children may be born with a larger face, but as they grow older, children will draw strips, and then they will lose weight, and maybe they will become a big handsome guy or a beautiful embryo when they are raised. But not every parent thinks so.
Li li gave birth to a boy not long ago, but the boy's skin was dark and wrinkles appeared on his forehead, like an old man's. Whenever I see someone else's child grow white and pure, but your own child is black and dull, you can't bear to look at it directly. He even gave his child a wrong name, called "Little Black Baby". She felt that the name was a good fit for her own little ones.
When the child grows up to 3 years old, Li Li always calls her child a little black baby, because she has been called a habit since she was a child, and as the child grows older, this habit cannot be changed. Gradually, she found a problem, that is, whenever she called her own child Little Black Baby, she found that the child did not respond to herself, and even felt overwhelmed by the attitude. If you teach your child the name, you will respond to her.
So she told her psychiatrist friend about it, and the friend began to blame her for doing so, saying that she was affecting the child's brain development. Because the baby's language ability and brain are closely related to their childhood, if you often hear your mother calling yourself black next to yourself, it will lead to setbacks in the child's self-confidence, and it will also affect the child's IQ.
Expert studies have shown that if the baby can understand what the adult says when he is about one year old, and the adult can understand the meaning of the adult in the process of communicating with him, this means that the child's brain is well developed, in line with the brain development of a normal child, which belongs to the normal standard range.
If the child in the family is not yet one year old, he can understand the words of the adult and respond, indicating that the child has exceeded the range of normal child brain development and is very smart when he grows up. However, adults cannot judge whether their children can understand their own words based on feelings, and they also need to respect the child's language and interact with him, so that the child's brain can develop better.
1.Children aged 1-3 months, feel the world with their senses
Not long after the birth of a child in this period of time, everything was new to him, and he looked around with his own eyes every day. Attention is sometimes focused on the lamp, sometimes on the TV that is playing. At this time, the parent must not interrupt him, because he is opening up the understanding of this new field. At this time, the most children are smiling happily at adults.
Children 2.4-7 months old, can understand their own names
When a child reaches 4 months of age, he can understand the names that adults call him, and he is familiar with his own name, and will respond when someone calls him by this name. For example, if your child is called "Tong Tong", as soon as he is called, he will immediately turn his head to you and show a smile. At this time, he can also distinguish between his family, and if a stranger hugs him, he may have the opportunity to cry.
Children 3.8-12 months old can receive instructions from adults
At this stage, the baby can already receive the instructions of adults, if the mother is more fierce to him, he will not be willing to be close to you, but will be close to a kinder person. Therefore, at this time, parents should treat them gently and do not make any words with instructions.
4. Children aged 13-18 months can begin to recognize words
At this time, the child is already one year old, and when the child is one year old, he will start to chant words in his mouth, such as "Daddy" or "Mommy" without incident. So what adults need to do is to start identifying every member of the family with him, such as seeing his sister and telling him that it is a sister. The most important thing is that parents need to talk to them more.
Summary: Through the above content, we can find that children begin to perceive the world from birth, and with age, the range of perception will become larger and larger. Therefore, new mothers should no longer think that their children do not understand the meaning of adults when they are young, they are also sentient. Therefore, from an early age, we must establish a good image and a good growth environment for them.
【Transferred from: Sohu original — Zhang Keyin said life 】