Mother's Day: 10 famous mothers, read the gentle and deep maternal love

Mother is the noble person of your life.

"The mother's hand is threaded, and the wanderer's shirt is clothed." The seams are tightly sewn, and I am afraid that I will be late. Whoever says anything will be rewarded with three Chunhui. ”

No amount of poetry, no amount of praise, can not say the greatness of maternal love.

Mother is the soul of a family and the most important feng shui of a family.

Mother's Day is coming, let's read the mothers of 10 writers together and understand the gentle and deep maternal love.

01

Hu Shi: My mentor is my loving mother.

Hu Shi was most influenced by his mother in his life, and in the article "My Mother", Hu Shi wrote:

"My teacher is my loving mother", my mother disciplined me the most.

She is a loving mother and a strict father. But she never scolded me or hit me in front of others.

I did something wrong, she just looked at me, and I saw her stern eyes and was frightened.

She waited until the next morning when I woke up to teach me a lesson.

She waited until the evening when people were quiet, closed the door, first rebuked me, and then punished me, or punished kneeling, or twisted my flesh.

No matter how heavy the punishment, I was not allowed to cry. She taught her son not to be angry and let others hear.

Sentiment:

Many years later, looking back at his mother, Hu Shi said: If I can learn the slightest good temper, if I can learn a little kindness to others, if I can forgive and be considerate of people - I have to thank my loving mother.

Children who have lost their fathers at an early age are raised by their mothers.

They want to be both a gentle mother and a strict father.

Teach children to talk and walk, eat and dress, children are older, and teach some principles of how to behave for people.

The burden of life and education is all on them.

Mother's love is unrequited, and life is even more demanding!

If such kindness is not repaid, what is the meaning of the man's life?

02

Lao She: She does not spare any effort, as long as her son has a job.

When I finished elementary school, my relatives and friends unanimously wanted me to learn my craft so that I could help my mother.

I knew I should go and find food to eat to alleviate my mother's hardships.

However, I am also willing to go to school. I was secretly admitted to the normal school – uniforms, meals, books, accommodation, all supplied by the school.

Only then would I dare to improve my mother's studies.

For admission, a deposit of ten yuan is required. That's a huge sum!

My mother struggled for half a month to raise this huge amount of money, and then sent me out of the house with tears.

She toiled as long as her son had a chance. When I graduated from normal school and was assigned as the principal of a primary school, my mother and I did not close our eyes overnight.

All I said was, "Later, you can take a break!" Her answer was only a string of tears.

After I enrolled in school, my third sister got married.

The mother loves her children equally, but if she also has a little preference, she should favor the third sister, because since the death of her father, everything in the family has been supported by the mother and the third sister.

The third sister is the mother's right hand. But the mother knew that this right hand must be cut off, and she could not delay her daughter's youth for her own convenience.

When the palanquin came to our broken door, my mother's hands were as cold as ice, and there was no blood on her face—it was April in the lunar calendar, and the weather was very warm.

Everyone was afraid she would faint. However, she struggled, biting her lip, holding the door frame in her hand, and watching the flower car walk slowly.

Soon after, my aunt died. The third sister is married, my brother is not at home, I live in school again, and the only thing left in the family is my mother.

She still had to do it until she knew it, but no one spoke to her all day.

The New Year is coming, just in time for the government to advocate the use of the solar calendar, and the old year is not allowed.

Chinese New Year's Eve, I took two hours off. Return from the crowded street market to your home with a cold stove. Mother laughed.

When she heard that I still had to go back to school, she froze. It took her half a day to let out a sigh.

When it was time for me to go, she handed me some peanuts, "Go, boy! ”

The street was so lively, but I didn't see anything, and the tears obscured my eyes.

Today, tears cover my eyes again, and I remember the lonely Chinese New Year's Eve loving mother of that day.

But my mother will not wait for me anymore, she is in the ground!

Sentiment:

In order to raise her children to adulthood, the mother does not hesitate to let herself be starved and frozen, running and toiling, and preparing everything needed for her children.

The mother of Tao Kan, a famous general in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, in order to entertain her son's friends, cut her hair and sold it for money for rice;

A few pillars were removed and split as firewood; the seats were cut off in half as fodder for horses.

Thus leaving a good story of "truncated hair Yanbin".

The happiness of the child in this life is paid a huge price by the mother.

The mother's kindness is immeasurable.

03

Yang Dai: Remembering my mother.

My mother was loyal and honest and never agile.

If she's being bullied, she often doesn't feel it, only to understand afterwards, "Oh, she (or he's) laughing at me" or "Oh, he(or she) is scolding me."

But she never bothered, and soon forgot.

She has a big heart and does not miss the old evil, so she can get along with anyone and has not had a wrongdoer in her life.

Sentiment:

In "Zhou Yi", Kun is the mother and the earth. The mother is like the earth, carrying things with great virtue.

In ancient times, a mother went to visit her son who was an official, and when she saw her son outside the city ordering the execution of prisoners, she refused to enter her son's mansion.

The son came to see his mother, and the mother rebuked the son:

"I have not heard that you use benevolence to educate your people, but only kill people by punishment, and want to use this method to establish your majesty, can this be long-lasting?"

The mother concluded by saying, "I could not have imagined seeing my able-bodied son suffer from criminal law in old age!" "Then go back to your hometown."

More than a year later, the son lost his official position and was punished.

Benevolence, the virtue of life. To enable all things to grow is the greatest endement.

The love of a mother is like the love of the earth. She gave birth to all things, tolerated and benevolently, and allowed human beings to multiply and pass on from generation to generation.

04

Ice Heart: Motherly love.

Once, when I was young, I suddenly walked up to my mother, leaned back and asked, "Mom, why do you love me?" ”

The mother put down the needle and thread, pressed her cheek against my forehead, and said softly, without hesitation, "No why ,—— only because you are my daughter!" ”

Little friend, I don't believe anyone in the world can say this!

The four words "no why" came out of her mouth, how resolute, how no roundabout!

She loves me, not because I'm an "ice heart" or all the false titles and names of other people in the world;

Her love is unconditional, and the only reason is that I am her daughter.

In short, her love is to screen everything, wipe everything, layer by layer to open the veil of me before and after, so that I become the original of "this me", and directly love myself.

Sentiment:

"Song of Persuasion and Filial Piety": "The mother is present before the honor, and the prodigal son does not feel cold." ”

The Italian poet Dante said: "There is one of the most beautiful voices in the world, and that is the call of the mother." ”

In this world, the one who loves us the most is no one but our mother.

If we are sick or in danger, it is our mother who does not hesitate to hope to take our place.

When a child encounters adversity, the mother is willing to suffer on behalf of the child, and this infinite attitude of compassion and compassion, the deep compassion of kindness, shows the sacred selflessness of maternal love.

05

Xi Murong: Mothers are easy to deceive and easy to satisfy.

So this is perhaps the biggest reason why my mother should collect this rough birthday card well.

Because, over the years, I only gave her one.

Over the years, I will only continue to ask her for more love, more care, and constantly ask her for more evidence, hoping that from this evidence, I can prove that she loves me.

And me? I just gave her a sweet card when I was fourteen.

She believed me because of this, and carefully collected it, for perhaps this was the only evidence she could get from me.

At that moment, I found that all the mothers in the world were so easily deceived and satisfied!

In that instant, I couldn't help but shed tears.

Sentiment:

In the "Han Shi Wai Biography", Yun said: "The tree wants to be quiet and the wind is not stopping, and the son wants to raise and not to be kissed." ”

The greatest pain in the world is that time never returns, and everything cannot be repeated.

Filial piety comes first, and filial piety should be done in a timely manner.

While my parents are still alive, I often go home to see, cook with my parents, and nag.

There is no regret medicine in the world, and it is still too late for everything.

06

Sanmao: Eternal Mother.

Thinking back to my lifelong guilt and love for my mother, and thinking back to the sin of looking down on my mother when I was in college and not understanding her philosophy books, I hated not being able to ask her for forgiveness in front of her.

The only filial piety in this life seems to be the only way to please the mother in the matter of trying to add food.

I want to say to my mother:

The person who really understands life is her;

The person who has really come that long way is her;

The person who has really experienced so many vicissitudes and fully explained the love with behavior is also her.

In the journey of life, the depth and breadth of life given by the mother, there is no philosophical book more comprehensive than her.

Mother, mother, in your daughter's heart, you are the Source, the love, the eternity.

You are also the path, the truth and the life we have sought all our lives.

Sentiment:

Improper parents, do not know the grace of parents.

When a person truly becomes a parent, he can understand her greatness and her hard heart.

In the attitude towards parents, there is often a person's truest character.

When your parents are old, don't blame, don't be impatient, don't mess around.

A little more patience, a little more love, a little more care.

After all, when we were young, they never hated us.

They raised us, and we accompanied them to old age.

For the rest of my life, I hope that everyone can treat their parents kindly, and do not let companionship become a regret.

07

Ji Xianlin: My mother.

I am a person who loves my mother the most, but I am also a person who enjoys the most mother's love.

I left my mother at the age of six, and there have been two brief meetings since then, both due to the return of the family to mourn.

The last time was after eight years of separation, and then he went home to mourn.

This time it was the death of her mother. Back at home, my mother was already lying in a coffin, and she had not even been able to see her remains.

Since then, everyone has been separated forever, and even the face of the mother in the memory has become confused and blurred, and even in the dream, she cannot see the true face of the mother.

I don't know how many times I've had such dreams in my life.

Until my old age, I still frequently dreamed of my mother, who was always in tears and woke up crying.

I am destined to be an eternal tragic figure for enjoying my mother's love. What a blessing! What a blessing!

Sentiment:

When I was young, I studied outside; when I grew up, I was busy with work.

Married, busy with the family.

We were always busy, too busy to spend time with them.

Bi Shumin said:

"Every child who is sincere and loyal has made a grand wish of filial piety to his parents in his heart, believing that the future of Japan will be long, believing that the water will come to fruition, believing that he will have the day of success and fame and returning to his hometown, he can calmly fulfill filial piety."

It is a pity that people forget, forget the cruelty of time, forget the brevity of life, forget that there is a grace in the world that can never be repaid, and forget the fragility of life itself. ”

Take time out to spend with them and don't let regrets accompany them for the rest of your life.

08

Jia Pingwa: I am not a good son.

Jia Pingwo seems to be a person with hindsight, "After I was forty years old, the career and love that I had been ambitious for decades suffered setbacks and frustrations, and I realized that it was not to be a son." ”

Only then did she truly realize that "the greatness of a mother not only gives birth to a flesh-and-blood son, but also that she does not expect her son's return, no matter how far away he is from her and how close he comes back, she will always make his son have affection, strength, and roots." On the road of life, my mother was a gas station. ”

My mother had been in the countryside all her life, had no culture, was not good at speaking, and only saw the shadow in the sky on the plane.

She didn't know what I was doing in the far city, the only thing she knew was that I could write, and she said that when I wrote, my eyes kept blinking, and she worried about my suffering, "Can the world be written?!" ”

Sentiment:

"Song of Persuasion and Filial Piety": "The old mother is one hundred years old and often reads eighty children." ”

The mother's heart for her children will not weaken with age, and she will always be happy with the happiness of her children, suffering from the pain of her children, not only worrying about her children's diet, but also worrying about her children's clothing, and always having the grace of endless love.

"The debt of the white-haired children, the deep marks of the years", from the birth of the child to the time when his eyes are closed, he can no longer take care of the child, and the mother's love is endless and endless.

09

Mo Yan: Mother is an indelible spiritual force.

Mo Yan had told him about one of the most painful things in his memory.

Once, he followed his mother to the collective field to collect ears of wheat, and the guards of the wheat fields came, and the other wheat collectors fled.

But Mo Yan's mother was a small foot, could not run fast, and was caught.

The tall caretaker slapped her and confiscated the ears of wheat they had picked up.

At that time, her mother was knocked to the ground, and her depressed and helpless expression made Mo Yan unforgettable.

Years later, the man who guarded the wheat field became a white-haired old man who met Mo Yan at the market, and Mo Yan wanted to rush up to him to avenge him, but was pulled by his mother, who calmly said to him:

"Son, the man who hit me, and this old man, are not alone."

Sentiment:

Professor Li Meijin once told such a story:

The police arrested the suspect, who had a gun and a household registration book in his drawer.

But he eventually took out his hukou book.

When he got into the police car, he said to the police: You should thank my mother, if she had not been there, I might have killed people.

I didn't want my mother to be frightened.

Mother is the most dear person in the world, and motherly love is the greatest force in the world.

She is generous and benevolent, and there is a place in this world that is always warm.

10

Stetson: "I want to be her pride."

Once chatting with a writer friend, I asked him what was his initial motivation for learning to write?

He thought for a moment and said, "For my mother." To make her proud. ”

I was shocked and speechless for a long time.

Looking back at my original motivation for writing a novel, although it was not as simple as this friend's, I also had the same desire as him, and when I thought about it, I found that this desire also accounted for a large proportion of all the motives.

The friend said, "My motives are too vulgar, aren't they?"

I just shook my head, thinking that vulgarity is not necessarily vulgar, but I am afraid that this desire is too naïve.

He added: "I really wanted to be famous at that time, to be famous and make others envy my mother." ”

I think he was more frank than I was. I think he was happier than I was because his mother was still alive.

And I think his mother was also luckier than my mother, who didn't have a son with crippled legs, otherwise things wouldn't have been so simple.

Sentiment:

Stetson once laughed at himself for being "planted in bed."

After her son became disabled, the mother took good care of her.

On the one hand, we must take care of his daily life, and on the other hand, we must carefully take care of the dignity of our son.

She devoted her life's efforts and love to The Disabled Stetson.

Stetson's mother, stoic and tenacious, selfless and great.

It was not until the last moment of his life that the son suddenly knew that his mother had advanced liver cancer and had reached the end of his life.

But nothing can be done again.

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Family Pedagogy says:

"The source of a child's moral development lies in the wisdom, emotion, and inner passion of the mother, and how a person becomes in his own moral development determines what kind of mother he has."

In our lifetime, we can never escape the brand of family education, and in family education, the mother is undoubtedly the best teacher.

As educator Zhu Xudong said, the most wonderful education is without a trace.

Mothers with a high degree will know how to create a warm family atmosphere and let their children get a loving education;

Will practice self-cultivation and accompany children to grow up together;

Will in any case, do not forget to give children confidence and strength...

People will meet many people in this life, and the mother is the noble person in your life.

Another year of Mother's Day, I would like to dedicate this article to the greatest maternal love under the heavens, and may all mothers in the world be healthy and happy!