Xi Murong said that people who have a relationship always meet when they spend a good full moon, and understand the things that should be understood at just the right time, no more, no less, no sooner nor later, in order to say just the right words at the right moment and form a just marriage. Meeting the right person at the right time is a great blessing in itself.
For a woman, true love needs to grow up before it can be encountered. For example, if he is obedient to you, it may not be love, he is willing to give you something, and he may not be truly in love with you. And if he is reluctant to "spoil you" like this, then he really loves you, and women should no longer doubt it.
I can't wait to leave you idle
Many women's concept of love is to find a man who can provide for themselves to eat, drink and have fun for a lifetime, and after getting married, they only need to be at ease to be a housewife. But this kind of love is too realistic, and you will find that it is not good after a long time. A man who truly loves you, even if he has the ability to raise you, will not make you a parasite. He will not be willing to let you "idle", but force you to work hard, to pursue the life you want, to realize your own value.
Reluctant to let you overbearing
Quarrels and conflicts between couples are an inevitable thing, three days a small quarrel, five days a big fuss, this is the normal state of life. Many men immediately admit their mistakes as soon as they quarrel, which is not love, but can only be said to want to solve each other's contradictions as soon as possible, but this has encouraged women's domineering. Men who really know how to deal with each other's relationship will not let women when there are contradictions, but speak with reason, and will not let women develop domineering habits.
Reluctant to make you angry
A man who loves you, at all times, puts you on the tip of his heart, how can he be willing to make you suffer and make you angry? Men who don't love you enough may quarrel with you because of some trivial things, and they always only care about their own feelings, and only consider their own interests when they talk and do things.
And a man who really loves you, he is willing to give you pampering, give you moderate patience, give you moderate tolerance, and is not willing to make you angry. Even if he wants to be a little wronged, he doesn't want to disappoint you.
Reluctant to buy you too many luxuries
The man who spoils you will buy you all kinds of things, including a lot of luxuries. And the man who loves you won't, he can satisfy your requirements, but he won't satisfy your desires. Luxury is just a decoration, and the man who really loves you is not willing to indulge you.
Men are mostly not good at words in their feelings, and sometimes he does not say it, which does not mean that there is no you in the heart. Understand him more, go into his world, be a person who understands him, and at that time you will find that you have been engraved in his heart.