People do not understand until middle age that the really poor person is the "mother"

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There is a saying that goes like this: "Between the child and the mother, the mother is always an overloaded steamship, allowing the wind and waves to blow, and willingly after all kinds of hardships." ”

When I was young, I always thought that my mother was omnipotent and could set sail every day. No matter how big the wind and rain, you can carry it.

When I reached middle age, I really understood, "Poor parents in the world." It turned out that my mother's life was really overloaded, but she was bitter and silent, and the pain was silent.

The mother likes to nag, but the pain in the heart is not for outsiders to be humane either. Only if you seriously understand it, you can feel it.

Take apart your mother's life, and each paragraph has a different sad past.

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Young mother, longing for romance, busy and happy.

Perhaps, the mother is not beautiful enough, and it will not be everyone's bridesmaid, and the mother's family is very general.

There is a way, the heart of beauty, everyone has it. My mother always dressed up beautifully, hoping to live a happy life with the men around her.

Got married, and then had children. With a "cry", the mother's heart blossomed. Whether it is one more thousand gold in the family or one more son, it is the mother who has fallen a piece of meat.

Because of the child, the mother is very busy. Wash diapers, get up in the middle of the night to cover the quilt, dry clothes, sleep... Day is not day, night is not night.

Mother was tired, but she always had a smile on her face. Ignorant of you, only remember to giggle at your mother, do not remember your mother's face, is it haggard.

My mother often sang in the moonlight: the moon light, all the way to the East River; there is a doll in the East River... Singing and singing, the children fell asleep. At this moment, it was late at night, and my mother was light-handed, washed, and slept.

When we were a few years old, my mother was always behind us, afraid that she would fall. Mother was still nagging and telling stories, as if there was infinite wisdom in her mind.

Hugo said, "The arms of a loving mother are made of love, and how can a child sleep in them without being sweet?" ”

Laughing and laughing, the child grows up; looking forward to it, looking forward to it, the child enters the school, and the dream comes.

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The middle-aged mother, hard at work, slammed the door hard.

As the saying goes, "A man is not as good as a dog in middle age." ”

How difficult the mother's life was, no one can say. Some people even think that in a family, the things that make money are handed over to the father, and the mother mainly does housework, which is not credited.

Someone said: "She, all day long, press the washing machine switch a few times, what is it?" ”

The ancients said: "The son is filial to the father and the heart is wide, and the wife and husband are less troublesome." ”

From the words of the ancients, we can see the reality that whether children are filial piety or not is, to a large extent, the education of the mother; how much the husband can achieve is inseparable from the virtuousness of the wife.

The mother from the age of thirty to fifty, between the ages of twenty, and both at home and outside the house, had to work; the elderly and children had to take care of them. There are also many mothers, money earners and housekeepers, all to do.

For the sake of the family's life, the mother slammed the door hard. It's just that she does a lot, but she says very little.

As a post-70s generation, I grew up in the countryside. Whenever there is no time to pick up the green and yellow, the family lacks food. My mother washed sweet potatoes and pumpkins and added them to the rice; she often went to dig up wild vegetables and make vegetable soups.

In the market, there are a variety of food, and my mother often goes to the market, but never buys it. When she got home, my mother took several plastic bottles from the basket and said, "Good luck today..."

Picking up garbage, I don't know when it began, became a mother's habit. Next to the school trash can, I often met my mother, which made me very embarrassed.

Under the kerosene lamp, it is often seen that the mother sews clothes. Patched clothes will also appear on family members.

In order to make the children's lives more decent, the mother always cleverly placed patches in the pants of her clothes.

Province by province, the family's hard days will pass. This is the philosophy of motherhood.

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Elderly mothers, distressed by their families, forgot themselves.

The writer Goncharov said, "A mother's love never runs out." ”

When we grow up, our mothers get older. I thought that the mother would be able to enjoy the blessings, but in fact, the mother was busier and often worried that her children would not be doing well.

Mothers who have cut doors for most of their lives, somehow, are particularly generous when their children buy houses. Take out tens of thousands of dollars, and feel that you have given less, and resent that you have no ability.

During the festival, everyone is talking and laughing, but the mother is busy, preparing meals, managing grandchildren, and afraid that everyone will say that "the taste of the food is not good."

Before the holiday, the mother will find a way to prepare a lot of specialties, hoping that everyone can go out, can bring some, experience the "taste of hometown".

When the mother is older, she will also call her children, but rarely complain, saying "good, good, all right". Until the pain is too bad to get up, they will not admit defeat, and they still think that they can do something for their children.

In the TV series, it is often seen that some rich women and strong mothers are seen. That's the plot, not the life of ordinary people.

As the mistress of an ordinary family, the mother is a person who does not read much, has no skills, and does not have a high income. When she was young, she planted land, entered factories, and when she was old, she swept the streets, picked up waste, set up stalls, planted vegetables...

The elderly mother, who also has to help with her grandchildren and be a free nanny, has to speak carefully. She didn't want her family to argue, she could only aggrieved herself.

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Lao She wrote in "My Mother": "She has never enjoyed a day of blessing in her life, and when she dies, she still eats coarse grains!" alas! What else to say? heartache! heartache! ”

Take a closer look, the mother's voice has become old, the mother needs to be on crutches, and the mother will frown.

When you reach middle age, you are also a parent and care for your children, can you leave a love to your elderly mother?

Idle, make a phone call, greet your mother, and wish your mother well-being.

Every three to five, go back to your hometown, see your mother, and nag a few words.

Time is not waiting for people, don't wait for your mother to pass away, only to remember your mother's goodness.

Author: Cloth coarse food.

Follow my words and go into your heart.

The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.