Dear parents, when educating your children, what will you do if you encounter a situation that disagrees with the teacher? Will they find a way to embarrass the teacher and win the teacher, or will they work with the teacher to educate the child? Different choices, the child's growth, and the teacher's view of the child may be different.
Some parents will always dot on their children without knowing right and wrong, no matter whether the child is right or wrong, they will blame the teacher, thinking that the teacher is wrong to blame her child, and make the teacher's already complicated work more troublesome. Such a parent, the final result can only be to win the teacher, lose the child.
Classic case: In a kindergarten parent group, a parent, because of the unwarranted "crime" to find trouble with the teacher, wanted to get the support of other parents in the parent group, forced the teacher to admit his mistake, but was despised by other parents.
Probably, the kindergarten teacher did not lift the pants of her 5-year-old child, so the parent made a fuss about the matter. During the period, he also refused the teacher's request for a private chat, and very domineeringly said that he would say it in the group and let other parents also come out to evaluate it.
Subsequently, the teacher respected her opinion and publicly explained in the group the question of "why not lift pants for her children", because her children did not know politeness, so the teachers were teaching her children to be polite, and finally they also raised their pants to the children. At the same time, the teacher also hopes that parents can respect the teacher and chat with the teacher when they encounter personal problems.
However, for the teacher's explanation, the parent did not agree, believing that the teacher was "calculating" with her child and should have found trouble with the teacher earlier. There are even loud words in the parent group, "When did the kindergarten teacher become equal with the parents", "You are the nanny when you say it is not good"... Wait a minute.
Because the parent spoke more and more excessively, finally a parent came out to evaluate, and the result was still for the teacher to evaluate.
As a result of the incident, the teacher could not continue to communicate with the parent and lost the battle. And finally in order not to disturb the rest of the other parents, the parent was invited out of the parent group.
Perhaps, the teacher will be punished for this behavior and lose his job, but even if other teachers come, will they dare to seriously teach the parent's child? So the parent's behavior may ultimately be that he won the teacher in the matter of finding trouble with the teacher, but lost the child's life in the matter of the child's growth.
Because of this matter, I also went to consult some more experienced teachers and asked them if they would change their attitudes towards their children because of their parents.
The teachers' answer was probably: Definitely. Because teachers are also human beings and have feelings, who would not value those parents and children who trust him, cooperate with him, and accept him more than those parents and children who slander them, humiliate them, and look down on them?
Therefore, the teacher's attitude towards children does not only depend on the child, but can even be said to be more influenced by the parents, because the parents who are always questioning and making things difficult for the teacher, their education of the child is generally a failure, and they do not know how to respect the teacher and others. So dear parents, stop forcing teachers to give up on your child!
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