The first time the child leaves the family to go to the kindergarten seems to be a big event for the whole family, because the child is the first time to leave the parents to enter another small group, so many parents will worry about whether the child can adapt to the life of the kindergarten, and will also worry about whether the child can get along with the classmates and teachers in the kindergarten, whether it will be isolated, etc., so when the child goes to the kindergarten for the first time, the whole family's heart will be full of anxiety and uneasiness.
When I sent Erbao to kindergarten in the morning, I happened to run into a neighbor downstairs. When talking about the topic of children's kindergartens, the mother of the downstairs neighbor Tiantian said: As a parent, she is very worried about whether her children are ostracized in kindergartens, because every time they send their children to kindergarten, parents feel that the teachers in their classes are not so enthusiastic about their children.
As neighbors, we all know that every day this child is indeed not very popular with everyone: usually this child is always willful and cries, and he does not have too much independent consciousness. I am already four or five years old, and I need the help of my parents every time I go to the toilet.
Therefore, every day parents are particularly worried about their children's daily life in kindergarten, and because of this, parents will always send messages to teachers, wanting to ask teachers to take care of their children more. At the beginning, the teacher was very diligent in replying, but over time, the child's teacher did not reply much to the message.
Teachers don't really like these two kinds of children, although they don't know, but as parents let us know!
The first: children with poor sense of independence and need to be taken care of everywhere
Although we parents put our children in the hands of teachers, teachers have the obligation to help us take care of children, but after all, kindergarten teachers are not nannies, they cannot be all-round with every child.
So many times kindergarten teachers need to be particularly patient people to engage in this profession, but no matter how patient the teachers are, their experience is limited, and they are really tired in the face of dozens of children and parents.
Therefore, if teachers encounter children who have a poor sense of self-independence and have no self-care ability, coupled with their parents urging teachers to take care of their children every day, then teachers will be easily tired.
Therefore, before parents send their children to kindergarten, we must first educate children to learn a certain degree of self-care ability, such as the basic self-medication, eating by themselves and so on. This kind of small thing should be learned by them in advance. And parents also try not to send messages to teachers in every detail.
The second type: children who are too naughty, disobedient, and whose parents do not cooperate with the teacher
In fact, in addition to the basic lessons and learning knowledge in schools, there are many educations that parents and teachers need to complete together, so there are many things that cooperate between parents and teachers.
However, if the parents have not cooperated, it will be difficult for the teacher to complete the task, so this type of parent will generally not be liked by the teacher.
And if their own children are usually too naughty, and even some children will confront and insult the teacher, the original family education of children like this will have problems, they will not only interfere with the normal teaching behavior of the teacher, but also bring bad other children.
Therefore, parents must let their children learn to respect teachers and re-teach. Questions can be privately communicated with the teacher, but do not disrespect the teacher.
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