The holiday is coming to an end, for the parents who go to work, the time is very short, they have not yet released themselves, and they have to go to work, but for the children, they can forget a lot, such as forgetting the routine of learning in kindergarten for a long time, forgetting the time in kindergarten, and there will be another "don't want to go to kindergarten" situation, and so on.
When children re-enter the kindergarten after holidays, they often cry, send hard or are unwell, and do not attend kindergarten. The main reason is that the rules of children's lives during the holidays are disrupted, and parents are pampered and indulgent, which bring unnecessary trouble to children entering the kindergarten. Therefore, it is best for parents to take the initiative to adjust their children's behavior and mentality, alleviate the "post-holiday syndrome", and help their children adapt to kindergarten life as soon as possible.
Post-holiday adjustments require two aspects
First, to ensure enough sleep, from relaxation to a tense state after the festival, to sleep well to adjust well, first let the child have enough sleep, adjust it easier;
Second, the daily activities are planned well, and the kindergarten teachers do a good job of the child's daily activity plan, so that there is no easy chaos.
Parents should resolutely guide and encourage them. When the child reveals that he does not love the idea of kindergarten, parents must first be gentle, but the tone should be resolute, remember not to threaten the child with words such as "no matter how to send you to kindergarten..." This will deepen the child's resistance to the kindergarten. "The attitude of parents largely determines the attitude of children, insist on sending children to kindergarten, so that children learn to live a regular life."
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Children are reluctant to go to kindergarten, and parents must use wisdom to solve it.
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In addition to special circumstances such as holidays or illness, parents must insist on letting their children go to kindergarten, not with the child's nature.
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You can't delay your child's kindergarten because you are crying.
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Parents should always learn about their children's performance with kindergarten teachers, and praise them if there is any small progress.
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When you take your child home from kindergarten every day, talk to him about what happened in the kindergarten, and you can also encourage your child to perform the nursery rhymes you have learned, and guide your child to have good memories of life in the kindergarten from a positive perspective.
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Adjust the psychological gap in time
During the festival, there are many relatives and friends at home, in the lively scene, the child may become the focus of everyone's attention, after the parents go to work, the child will return to the state of the grandparents, it is inevitable to have a strong sense of loss, parents should adjust the child's psychological gap in time.
Talk about the fun things in kindergarten with your children and remind your children of the happy life in kindergarten. After entering the kindergarten, you can also tell the child that the teacher called and said that he had performed well in the past few days and liked TA and so on.
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Restore scientific eating habits
Many parents feel that they usually do not have time to make good food for their children, and they just use the annual leave to make up for it. So I tried to buy good food for my child and make it well. As long as the child wants to eat, no matter what time, all are satisfied; there are still some parents who are afraid that their children will eat less, so they will chase the bowl and feed it when they eat; for the children's requirements, whether reasonable or not, they are all satisfied.
Therefore, after the holiday, some children will not eat by themselves, cannot eat or are unwell during meal time, and serious cases will not be able to enter the kindergarten on time, and even send them to the hospital.
In order to prevent children from being uncomfortable, parents should make some adjustments in their diet as soon as possible, and give their children a liquid diet, such as thin porridge, noodle soup, and lotus flour, which is easy to digest and replenish water. The amount of diet is from small to large, small and frequent meals, and then slowly return to a normal diet.
When the child has a serious accumulation of food, he may vomit, parents must not panic, immediately put the child's head in the lateral position to avoid vomit being inhaled into the trachea.
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Resume normal work and rest time
Holidays, adults rarely get together to entertain, so sometimes there is no time to take care of the child's life rules, children for playing with toys, snacks, sleeping, etc., how to do, which disrupts the children in the kindergarten to establish a regular living habits.
The most prominent is the nap, some children simply do not nap, which not only destroys the child's normal work and rest law, but more importantly affects the child's growth and development.
After the holiday, the environment at home should be as quiet as possible from noisy to ensure that the child has a good rest environment and order. Do more calming games with children, such as storytelling, puzzles, drawing, etc., and try to engage in less activities that make children excited and excited.
Gastrointestinal dysfunction also affects the child's sleep, diet should be to abstain from heavy oil between the holidays, make some vegetables for the child to make light porridge, a cup of hot milk before going to bed is also very necessary.
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Re-emphasize the rules
Children are easily affected by the surrounding environment, during the holidays, there are many relatives and friends at home, parents hinder face, or the obstruction of the elderly, will unconsciously indulge the child, so many bad habits are easy to develop in the festival. If not adjusted in time, the child will bring these vices into daily life after the holiday. Parents can remind their children in the right situation how they used to behave.
When a child commits behavior that does not understand reason, adhere to the principle, do not give in, and when he is not reasonable, he can be treated coldly with his crying.