Before reading, I would like to remind you that this article is for informational entertainment only and should not be superstitious!
In ancient times, there was a family surnamed Li in the small village, who had been farming for generations, although the family was not wealthy, but the family lived in harmony with each other, supported each other, and lived a happy life. However, one year, continuous heavy rains led to flooding, the Li family's farmland was destroyed, the house was damaged, and for a while, the life of the whole family was in trouble.
In the face of this sudden disaster, the Li family did not fall apart, but became more united.
Li Weng, an elder in the family, encouraged everyone: "The ancients said, 'family and everything is prosperous', as long as our family works together, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome. Under his leadership, the whole family was mobilized, the men went out to do odd jobs and fishing, the women were weaving and doing handicrafts at home, and the children were helping with household chores in addition to studying, and everyone did their best to contribute to the family.
What is even more touching is that the neighbors in the village were also moved by the unity of the Li family, and they all reached out to help, some provided temporary shelter, and some sent food and clothing to help them tide over the difficulties. With such joint efforts, the Li family not only rebuilt their homes, but also cultivated new fields and introduced more advanced farming techniques, resulting in a large increase in harvests and a gradual improvement in life.
The older generation often teaches us: "Family and everything is prosperous, unity is difficult to eliminate", and the harmony and prosperity of the family are often hidden in those ordinary and warm voices.
As the old saying goes, "There are five voices in the house, and the rich and noble come out of the house", which can't help but make people wonder, which five tones can have such magic power, which is closely related to the rise and fall of the family?
Either way, those warm, harmonious, loving voices are always at the heart of your home.
They are like invisible bonds, connecting the young and old of the family, resisting the wind and rain and sharing the joy together.
The first sound is a symphony of pots and pans.
The melodious symphony of pots and pans weaving, since ancient times, there is a saying that "the people take food as the sky", and the busy and lively kitchen is the warm overture of home.
In the morning and dusk, as the sun rises and the moon sets, the sound of shovels and spoons colliding in the kitchen at home is intertwined with the aroma of food, arousing the homesickness of many wanderers.
This sound, it is the taste of home, an indispensable melody in a warm harbor.
The chief director of "A Bite of China" once elaborated affectionately: "Most of the feelings of Chinese people towards food are homesickness, nostalgia, and nostalgia for the taste of childhood. "Yes, whenever I am far away from my homeland and wandering away, the familiar sound of pots and pans will turn into a wisp of nostalgia and linger in the heart of every wanderer.
This is similar to the emotion described by the ancients, "Smell the willows in this nocturne, who can't afford the love of the hometown". Folding willows to say goodbye, smelling the song and homesickness, the symphony of pots and pans, doesn't it also affect our attachment to home?
"Treatise on Typhoid Fever" says: "The spleen and stomach are the foundation of the day after tomorrow." "Every meal at home is a care and nourishment for the body, and every stir-fry of the shovel is a prayer for the health of the family.
Looking at the present day, how many literati and artists express their attachment to home in their poems, and the home they write about is often closely connected with the liveliness and warmth in the kitchen. The sound of pots and pans has long transcended the boundaries of time and space, and has become our most simple and deepest memory of home.
When this symphony plays again, it is as if we have returned to that harbor full of love and warmth.
This is the magic of home, and it is also the profound meaning contained in the symphony of pots and pans.
The second sound is the sound of children's laughter and reading.
The innocent laughter of children and the sound of reading aloud are intertwined to form the most beautiful music of a family.
The ancients said: "The house is full of children and grandchildren, and the blessings and longevity are complete." This sentence not only expresses the expectations of the ancients for their children and grandchildren, but also reflects the good wishes for the prosperity of the family.
The laughter of children is like the gentle breeze of spring, gently brushing on the cheeks, making people feel the vitality and hope of life.
Whenever the elders hear the laughter of the children, it seems that the whole world has become brighter, and all the troubles and sorrows have been thrown out of the clouds.
The sound of children's reading represents the children's thirst for knowledge, their vision for the future, and also indicates the prosperity of the family.
"The Book of Filial Piety" has a cloud: "The body is skinned, and the parents who receive it dare not destroy it, and the beginning of filial piety is also; This sentence tells us that filial piety to parents is the foundation of human beings, and studying hard and achieving a career is the best filial piety to parents.
The children's reading voice is a manifestation of filial piety, and through hard work, they not only improve themselves, but also bring honor and glory to the family.
In modern society, many successful people have emphasized the importance of family education.
They believe that if a family can raise children who love learning and are motivated, then the family has endless wealth.
The remarks of these successful people coincide with the wisdom of the ancients, and they all emphasize the importance of children's education and family inheritance.
The third sound is the sweet words and chatters between husband and wife.
This voice, like a gentle spring breeze and gurgling water, tells the delicacy and affection of the world of the two.
Zhang Sheng was born in poverty, but he was diligent and studious, and Li Wan was a gentle and virtuous woman in the neighboring village. After marriage, although they lived in poverty, they respected each other like guests, worked together, encouraged each other, and their lives were full of warmth and hope.
However, the good times did not last long, and a rare drought occurred in the local area, and the crops were not harvested, and the villagers' lives were in trouble. In the face of such adversity, many families began to fall apart, but Zhang Sheng and Li Wan were more closely united. They decided to use their wisdom and diligence to find a way out.
Li Wan proposed to use the family's little savings, plus her own weaving skills, to open a small weaving workshop. Zhang Sheng is responsible for purchasing raw materials, marketing and sales, working during the day and continuing to study at night, hoping to find more ways to survive. The husband and wife, one running around outside, and the other operating inside, although they work hard, they have no complaints, because they believe that "husband and wife are of the same heart, and their profits are cut off".
Over time, the reputation of the weaving mill gradually spread, and its products were loved for their good texture. Through continuous learning, Zhang Sheng also discovered ways to improve crop cultivation and helped the villagers overcome difficulties.
The old people often say: "Husband and wife are of the same heart, and their profits are broken." "Ancient wisdom speaks of the infinite power of harmony between husband and wife.
A harmonious family is like a towering tree, which is based on the mutual support and affectionate communication between husband and wife, which is a verbal exchange and a deep spiritual fit.
There is a saying in the Tao Te Ching: "The sound of the big voice is invisible." In the sweet words and chatters between husband and wife, there may not be too many flowery words, but these ordinary and sincere words can penetrate the dust of the years and become the deepest memories between each other. They are like the "big voices", although they are not publicized, they can go straight to the depths of the soul.
The ancients also understood the importance of harmony between husband and wife, and they believed that harmony between husband and wife was the cornerstone of family happiness.
Ancient sayings such as "the family is harmonious and everything is prosperous" and "the husband and wife are harmonious, and the family is successful" all emphasize the important position of the relationship between husband and wife in the family. And the sweet words and chatters between husband and wife are the best embodiment of this harmonious relationship.
In ancient and modern folk proverbs, we can also find confirmation of this view. For example, "fight at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed", although this saying is slightly ridiculous, it also expresses the reconciliation and intimacy after the quarrel between husband and wife, which is often reflected in those sweet words and chatter.
The fourth sound is the voice of the elders' exhortations and teachings.
This voice, as if from ancient times, echoes in the long river of time, condensing the wisdom and experience of countless generations.
There is a saying in "Zengguang Xianwen": "If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you." "The teachings of the ancients are still in our ears, telling us that the wisdom and experience of our elders are precious treasures in our journey of life.
Their exhortations and teachings are like the brightest beacon in the night sky, illuminating our way forward, so that we will not lose our way in the sea of life.
Gu Shiyun: "The whitehead scratching is shorter, and the hairpin is overwhelming." This verse depicts the image of the elders, who are full of gray hair, who have gone through vicissitudes of life, but are still full of love and expectation for us, and their every word contains a rich philosophy of life and endless wisdom.
There is also a saying in the "Book of Songs": "My father gave birth to me, my mother bowed to me, caressed me, raised me, and raised me." This verse expresses the deep affection and selfless dedication of parents to their children. The advice and teachings of our elders are the continuation of this selfless love, and they hope that we can learn from their experience, avoid detours, and grow better.
In ancient and modern folk customs, respecting and obeying the teachings of elders has always been regarded as a virtue.
There is a proverb: "There is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure." This sentence profoundly reflects the important position of elders in the family and society, and experience and wisdom are our irreplaceable wealth.
The fifth sound is the sound of celebration and blessings during the New Year's holidays.
On the occasion of the New Year's Festival, the sound of celebration and warm blessings sounded everywhere. These sounds, like colorful fireworks, light up the night sky of life and warm people's hearts.
"In the sound of firecrackers, the spring breeze sends warmth into Tusu. "In ancient times, the sound of firecrackers during the Spring Festival was a symbol of saying goodbye to the old and welcoming the new, and it carried people's good expectations for the new year. Today, this celebration has evolved into more diverse forms, but the joy and blessings have not changed.
In the West, the Christmas bells are also an important symbol of the holiday. It is not just a blessing for the New Year, but also a prayer for peace and love. These voices also carry the cohesion of the family and the yearning for a better life.
Whether it is the sound of firecrackers in the East or the bells in the West, they all travel through time and space, connecting us to our ancestors and future generations. These voices are the memory of history and the inheritance of culture.
"There is a confidant in the sea, and the end of the world is like a neighbor. "In this era of globalization, although family and friends may be scattered all over the world, every festive season, a phone call, a message, can bring our hearts closer.
These joyful voices and blessings are the most beautiful bridges, connecting the hearts of every longing.
Therefore, the old saying "a family has five voices for a home, and children and grandchildren can rely on prosperity" is not only reasonable, but also contains profound cultural heritage and life wisdom.
It reminds us to cherish every warmth and harmony in the family, and also inspires us to work hard for the prosperity of the family.
In this noisy and busy world, let's always listen to the sound of home and feel the warmth of home!