For parents, children are both hope and sustenance, and even (spiritual) dependence, in the child's eating, wearing, living, traveling, etc., are willing to invest, in the child's company, many parents are specially arranged time.
Because the ways and methods of raising children are different, there is also a gradual contrast between children and children, which forms a form of some children are very "rich" and some children are very "poor", which also reflects the difference in family situation.
We ordinary people actually know a little bit, but some aspects are not sure, and those who are engaged in educational work, especially teachers, see a lot, and the children's family situation is even clearer.
Amin, who is engaged in preschool education, has been working for more than 15 years, and a large number of experiences, as well as contacts with families, have summed up: the child's "poverty" cannot be hidden, and from these 3 points, the family situation has been exposed.
1. Whether you dare to communicate with strangers
Social interaction is an important human activity, although social activities are carried out every day, but different social skills also represent different achievements. In other words, the stronger the social skills, the more they can reflect their own value, and the better their lives.
However, not every family attaches importance to the cultivation of children's social skills, believing that children know how to socialize when they grow up. However, when we see other people's children, dare to communicate with strangers, dare to express their own voices, so as to gain the appreciation of others, others will give priority to such children when they need to participate.
From the TV, it can be found that those with better family conditions will cultivate children from all aspects, exercise children, no matter what the occasion, children dare to express themselves, but also more confident.
The family conditions are general, more is to pay attention to the education of children's book knowledge, and the child's social skills are not paid attention to, such children, at home is the "king", out of the door like "kittens", dare not speak, hide behind the parents, and dare not communicate with strangers.
2. Consumption attitude
Today's children, not only the parents will try to meet their requirements, but even have to spend pocket money alone to buy what they want. However, not all parents will meet the requirements of their children, which will naturally affect their children's consumption attitudes.
From the child's consumption attitude, we can also see his family situation. For wealthy families, parents generally do not control their children's consumption, not only to meet their children's consumption, but also to teach their children how to spend money. And when such a child spends money, as long as it is necessary, it will be worth it.
Poor families, spending money is not so free, not only parents will control, but also parents will "cry poor", often teach children to be sensible, do not buy things randomly, and save money.
Parents' consumption habits will be reflected in their children, even if they like it very much, they are not willing to spend money. Even if it is necessary, it will choose the one with poor quality and the lower price. Such a consumption attitude is naturally able to save some money, but it is not easy to live on their own, especially the sense of mental depression.
3. Focus time
When the child goes to school, the parents will most likely ask the teacher whether their children are attentive. Naturally, parents want to understand the situation of their children in order to adjust the way of education to help their children. In school, it is natural that the teacher knows the child's situation best.
Some children have a long concentration time, and some children have a short concentration time, which reflects that there is a gap between the child and the child. Obviously, children who have been focused for a long time will learn better. From the length of the child's concentration time, the child's family situation seems to be a bit outrageous, although it does not include all, but the reasons behind it are very realistic.
In a good family, parents will pay attention to the cultivation of children, including independence, self-care ability, concentration, and even a separate space to keep him from being disturbed. And the family is not well-off, parents are busy earning money, have no time to manage their children, and even work badly, they will yell at their children. And the child will see the six ears and listen to the eight directions, become very clever, in order to deal with the parents, which will obviously affect the child's concentration.
The family where the child is born cannot choose, but in the acquired conditions, parents should pay attention to the child's education, can help the child plan and guide, encourage the child to contact the outside world, encourage the child to complete the habit of independence, for the child's consumption, no matter what kind of family, parents must control, can not let the child do whatever he wants.
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed! After seeing the child will come to thank you (Tencent recommended products, quality assurance)