On August 3, 2021, there is an article that can be called the most cattle in history, entitled "'Spiritual Opium' Has Grown into Hundreds of Billions of Industries".
Why is it the most cattle? Because this article was published in the "Economic Reference Newspaper" sponsored by Xinhua News Agency and forwarded by Xinhua Net, it triggered a crash in the game stock market on the stock market, which was really a cry.
However, the dramatic scene is that the article was quietly deleted 4 hours after it was published, and when it was published again, there were no more words such as "spiritual opium" and "electronic drugs" in the article.
Video games are right and wrong, and the connection is the grief of parents. Children who are addicted to games are not overstated at all to say that they will ruin their lives.
But is that really the game's fault?
When this article came out, even netizens who knew nothing about the stock market flocked in and participated in the bickering comments. There are basically two factions, one insisting on strict regulation of the game, preferably outright, thinking that if it continues, it will ruin a generation.
The other faction is equally resolute, believing that there is nothing wrong with the game itself, but that some parents do nothing themselves and throw the pot to the game. People of this school believe that games are beneficial, can be intellectual, and can be pleasing to the body and mind. As long as the parents manage and guide them, the child will not be addicted.
It all makes sense, and when the article is deleted, it seems that the latter attitude has prevailed. Netizens who have hopes of banning the game, of course, are almost all parents of students, and feel quite disappointed.
I saw some parents on the Internet leave a disappointed message: "It seems that there is no hope, there is no hope, what to do?" ”
This hopeless, naturally refers to the ban of video games hopeless, how to do, said its inner anxiety and uneasiness. Many parents are confused.
Yes, with more peace of mind, the child can study seriously, and the family will not make a fuss because the child plays the game.
So, is it that if video games are banned, children will study hard as parents wish, and parents will be so worry-free?
In fact, this is not the case at all. Let's look back at history. When television became popular, the saying that "television ruined a generation" was also popular.
Needless to say, every era has something that kids are passionate about, like television, stand-alone games, online novels, and even today's video games.
If we are afraid that our children will be addicted to it, and we will ban it and ban it again, will society make such a huge progress?
The re-release of the article after the central media deleted it, which in itself expressed its attitude towards the game industry. The game is indeed not a flood beast. Isn't a child's greatest interest in games? In the kindergarten, the teacher organizes various games every day, and the children enjoy it.
The role of games, including video games, is self-evident, not to mention that this industry has played an important role in the economic component, and it is also an indisputable fact that the development of the game industry has promoted the progress of science and technology.
There are so many benefits to the game, why it has fallen to the point of being hated to the point of gritting their teeth, of course, because it is easy to indulge, especially children with weak self-control.
Therefore, the game has brought heavy anxiety to many parents, deduced some tragedies of family education, and becomes a harsh note of disharmony in family education and parent-child relationship.
However, the key to eliminating this harsh note lies with the parents themselves, rather than pinning their hopes on the utopia of banning the game industry. Because there are no video games, children will be addicted to other things.
Of course, the game industry must be strictly regulated – in fact, the state has always done so.
So, as a parent, what should you do to prevent your child from becoming addicted to games? Of course, there is no need to be confused, the key lies in yourself, an excellent and qualified parent, will not be anxious and confused.
1, blocking is not as good as thinning, the game is not a flood beast.
Games can be puzzle, can give people pleasure, this has long been recognized. It's just that everything has a degree problem, as long as it is excessive, it will inevitably go to the opposite side of things.
Mobile phones are the product of modern technology, and prohibiting children from touching mobile phones is not only difficult to do, but also completely unnecessary. Moreover, if children are really forbidden to touch mobile phones from a young age, it is to deprive children of the right to enjoy modern scientific and technological achievements, deprive children of the right to use modern technology to learn, and let your children lose on the starting line.
This is not alarmist, because a smart phone is the source of information in the sky, and in the information society, what it means, needless to say, everyone is very clear.
Therefore, it is not necessary to prohibit children from touching mobile phones, children should have the right to use mobile phones, including the right to use mobile phones even if communication, use mobile phones to play games, and use mobile phones to learn.
Now that there are e-sports classes in universities, you are still forbidden children to touch mobile phones, is it too backward?
The key to the problem lies in the guidance and management of parents, through the process of playing mobile phones, enhance children's self-control.
2, from the small tube, do not throw your hands to the big loss of control.
Some institutions have conducted a follow-up survey of teenagers who are addicted to games and found that many parents will throw a mobile phone to their children when their children are very young, in order not to let their children disturb themselves, so that they can play by themselves.
As a result, the child grows older and when he wants to control it, there is nothing he can do. This is the child's hour, parents should throw their hands in the cabinet, the child is older, addicted, parents want to manage can not manage. So, I became addicted.
Many parents are reluctant to admit this fact and always push the reason to the game, but the fact is that it is indisputable.
Therefore, parents must manage it from the time when their children will take the mobile phone, and the sooner the better. This should be an important part of early education, but it has been ignored by early education.
Children are very young, and it is easy to form habits under the guidance of parents. Parents must work tirelessly and must not have the slightest idea of being a treasurer. In this way, children will establish a solid awareness from an early age and develop good habits of using mobile phones.
3. Correct guidance, let the child become the owner of the mobile phone.
Addicted to games, in fact, children have become slaves to mobile phones. What you have to do as a parent is to let your child become the owner of the mobile phone and let the mobile phone serve itself.
This is very important, the mobile phone is just a tool for us. Therefore, from the first day that children touch mobile phones, it is necessary to guide children to learn knowledge and skills in the use of mobile phones for fun, not just to get fun from games.
Children use mobile phones to learn a skill, a trivial knowledge point, are commendable events, parents should be timely affirmation and praise, so that children set up mobile phones in addition to mutual contact, the most important function is learning. When you are tired of studying, play games to relax and relax.
This is the correct posture. Unfortunately, in many children, it has been turned upside down. Who is responsible? Of course, the parents did not do a good job, and they did not do it in place.
Of course, that's easier said than done. However, it is precisely because it is difficult that it is the test of parents in modern society. Whether they are qualified and excellent parents can be fully reflected in their children's attitude towards mobile phones.
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!