Ren Zhengfei, the head of Huawei, talked about his family at a recent media meeting, saying that he was most sorry for his children.
Ren Zhengfei has two marriages and 3 children, the younger son Ren Ping and the eldest daughter Meng Wanzhou are born to the first wife, there is not much information about Ren Ping on the Internet, and Meng Wanzhou is relatively more familiar.
When the children were young, it coincided with Ren Zhengfei's military, he could only return home once a year, and every time he went home, the children went to school during the day, wrote homework after school, and then slept, and there was no communication between father and son (daughter), and no feelings were established. Children are very demanding of themselves and rely on their own efforts.
Ren Zhengfei commented very positively on his first wife, believing that she was a strong personality and a prominent figure, and the two separated after twenty years of marriage. However, ren Zhengfei's marriage certificate at the time of his second marriage, including the birth certificate of the young daughter born to his second wife, was helped by the first wife, and the relationship between the two wives was very good.
The youngest daughter was born to Ren Zhengfei at the age of 54, although she was on the right track in her childhood, but she did not indulge herself, when she was in middle school, she would dance 15 hours a week, and when she went to college, she would also learn until one or two o'clock, very hard.
A few years ago, the youngest daughter was invited to participate in the Paris Celebrity Ball as an Asian giant, and Ren Zhengfei agreed with this very much, and also took a family portrait to support his daughter. Because he does not want his daughter to blame her parents for blocking her life when things are not going well in the future, and this is also a kind of compensation for the debt of her children.
Many parents will feel that they owe their children and are sorry for their children, but because of reality, there is no way to accompany their children to grow up slowly. Instead of self-pity, it is better to turn deficits into strength, create a high-quality environment for children, and create a better atmosphere for children to grow.
1. High-quality companionship.
Although we can't always accompany the child when he needs it, as long as we are with the child, we will accompany the child wholeheartedly and give the child the best emotional attachment. When parents are accompanying their children, please take the child as the center, let go of everything on hand and in your heart, and fly with the child's thoughts, so that the child can feel the warmth and security from the parents.
2. High-quality role models.
When the child sees the parents working hard and working hard to improve the quality of life, when the child feels that the parents' attitude towards life is rigorous and correct, when the child realizes that everything the parents do has meaning and value, the child will understand the parents' behavior, and will also grow into a positive, pioneering and enterprising person.
3. High quality direction guidance.
People's origin is destined to be where the starting line is, but having a high vision of the guidance is helpful to life's running. If parents have a wide range of knowledge and a high sensitivity to the outside world, then it will be more helpful for their children's future guidance.
4. High quality of life.
The meaning of life lies in struggle, but also in enjoyment. Materially rich, spiritually fulfilling, happy things, good friends... When a child is in a healthy environment, he will have a yearning for a better life.
Everyone's time is limited, divided into a career, it can not be shared with children, accompanied by children, it is difficult to have a career height. However, whether it is to focus on the career or accompany the children, parents should strive to do their own well, while also providing children with a high-quality growth environment, so that they can grow into the best of themselves in the midst of gains and losses.
Now, it is the crucial time for the development of the mainland, in order to win the future international competition, we must vigorously develop high technology and develop basic science, which requires a large number of high-tech talents, only top scientific and technological talents can shoulder the heavy responsibility of catching up with foreign science and technology from the source, and gradually gain a leading edge.
Professor Qiu Chengtong, a famous Chinese mathematician, believes that if China wants to become a leading country in the world, it must lay a good foundation, the most important thing is science and technology, and the success of science and technology must have a foundation, this foundation is theoretical science, however, the most critical thing in theoretical science is mathematics, which coincides with Ren Zhengfei's point of view.
Professor Qiu Chengtong also questioned the current mathematics education in the mainland, saying that such education violates the essence of mathematics, if it continues to develop in this way, it will really bury mathematical talents, and mathematics will be taught in this way, and it will be regressed for at least twenty years.
The current teaching methods of primary and secondary school students are generally cramming, lacking the process of exploring and studying mathematics, so that the students who are taught will only do a mathematical problem and cope with mathematical examinations, and have been allowing children to brush problems and engage in problem sea tactics, so that children lose their creativity and lose interest in active learning in mathematics.
However, to change this situation, it is not achievable overnight. Parents need to be less utilitarian and more fun when educating their children, so that children can realize the value of science itself and the importance of science to the development of the country.
In this regard, we have to mention the famous educator Liu Xuanyu, who is the founder of China's mathematical science popularization works and a famous mathematical master on the mainland, Professor Yang Zhenning, Hua Luogeng, Chen Jingrun, Gu Chaohao, etc. have all praised Mr. Liu Xuanyu's masterpieces and given them high praise.
Professor Yang Zhenyu said that Liu Xuanyu is a mathematician who has written a lot of interesting little stories about mathematics.
Among the mathematical works created by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, the "Three Books of Mathematics" can be called classic mathematical popular science works, covering a total of 3 classic mathematical works, namely "Mr. Ma on Arithmetic", "Mathematical Fun" and "The Garden of Mathematics".
The famous mathematician Gu Chaohao commented on this set of books: "The most influential thing for me is Liu Xuanyu's "The Garden of Mathematics". Its introduction to the initial ideas of calculus and set theory took me into a whole new world. ”
The three books start with fun math, take your child step by step to build an interest in math, and then explain the concepts of functions, equations, variables, calculus, and related applications through humorous passages.
Written by the author's ingenious methods, as long as those who have studied elementary algebra and geometry, they will read and master it easily and effortlessly, so this set of books can also be used as an important self-study book for primary and secondary school students.
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools. Be able to help their children build good mathematical thinking skills and stimulate interest in learning all subjects.