Poor cannot be poor, and suffering must also have pride. In life, suffering will only be bitter for a while, not for a lifetime. Growing in barren soil, you need to be not willing to be ordinary and positive in order to blossom the flower of perseverance.
Successful people are often similar, but those who fail are different. A successful person, the childhood growth experience and the impact of family on him are positive and positive. In the face of suffering, they never complain, but fly against the wind, face difficulties, and turn suffering into motivation.
Gao Fu, a famous academician of the mainland, grew up in a very poor family, and his mother Yang Guilian was only a rural woman who dropped out of school, in this difficult environment, her mother pulled several children to grow up, but trained a 9 doctors, each of whom is a Kochi talent and a pillar of society.
Childhood memories are important for people's growth, and lucky people are healed by childhood all their lives. Speaking of his mother, Academician Gao Fu is full of gratitude, he often laments in interviews that his achievements are not easy to come by, and he can have today all because he has a great mother.
Regret dropping out of school
Academician Gao Fu's mother, surnamed Yang and named Guilian, was born in a small village in Shanxi. People in that era were all living a hard life, and Mother Gao was no exception. Her father died young, her mother was ill in bed, and her younger siblings were small, and the whole family depended on her.
In order to take care of this stormy home, Yang Guilian gave up her dream of studying, regretted dropping out of school, and began to support her family at a young age.
Dropping out of school also became the biggest regret in her mind, and later because of this, she paid special attention to the education of children, and the children were also particularly angry, and 9 doctors were a dream of Yang Guilian.
In 1957, at the age of 15, Yang Guilian met Gao Cunxi. Fate let the two meet, in the contact, Yang Guilian found that this man is simply a male version of himself, similar circumstances make them understand each other better, but also cherish each other more.
It's like Venus, who has a broken arm, suddenly picks up his arm, meets it, has it, and his life is complete. Yang Guilian and Gao Cunxi also had this mentality, and soon, they came together.
One person is bitter, and two people are bitter and sweet.
After marriage, Gao Cunxi started carpentry work and took on the responsibility of supporting the family, while Yang Guilian took care of housework at home, focusing on the days of chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea.
The education of mothers who dropped out of school
Originally, the small life was a little bitter, but the two of them were soaking with each other, and it was sweet and sweet to live. After several children were born, life became more and more embarrassing. From two people to eight people, all of a sudden there are six pairs of chopsticks, and the pressure of the family is self-evident.
When a mother will be sad for the child, she would rather be hungry than wronged the child, others are like this, Yang Guilian is naturally like this. In the Gao family, the good dishes and good meals on the dinner table are first tight to the children, and then to her husband Gao Cunxi, while Yang Guilian herself only eats some leftovers, and sometimes even only drinks rice soup to fill her stomach.
For this family, Yang Guilian is very thrifty, her clothes are sewn when they are torn, sewn and repaired, almost all are patches, and there is no good material on her body.
Although she saves herself, Yang Guilian is very generous to her children, especially in reading. The regret of dropping out of school in childhood is too deep, and Yang Guilian will not let the children repeat the same mistakes and follow her old path.
Although she has no culture, Yang Guilian attaches great importance to the education of her children. In the children's learning, Yang Guilian is very strict. She will not only supervise the children's studies, but also urge them to read.
In her view, books are the ladder of human progress and the cornerstone of human success, and reading more books can benefit people a lot.
The mother's words and deeds teach children to influence children subtly, and gao Fu learns the most from his mother is kindness, kindness to others, multiple friends and many paths.
At that time, Gao Fu and his younger siblings were studying in a county school, and in order to take care of the children, Yang Guilian started her accompanying career, rented a house in the county town, and took care of the children's life nearby.
The landlord is a pair of old men and old ladies, and they are more frugal on weekdays, often a bowl of porridge is sent off.
The kind-hearted Yang Guilian can't look past it, and every time she prepares meals for the children, she will give the old couple two portions.
Yang Guilian has lost her father since she was a child, and she can understand the difficulty of the elderly, not only to deliver food, but also to find the elderly in normal times.
In fact, when the elderly reach this age, the most lacking is companionship, they just want a person who can speak to themselves.
Yang Guilian often teaches children to be generous to others, and to help if they can, just like the old couple of the landlord, kindness will reap blessings.
A family of 9 PhDs
Perhaps it is this kindness that makes Yang Guilian's family be cared for by heaven. Under her careful cultivation, the Gao family has produced a total of 9 doctors, a proper family of scholars.
Yang Guilian and her husband have a total of 6 children, Gao Fu, Gao Gao, Gao Gao later became doctors, plus daughter-in-law and grandchildren, the Gao family has a total of 9 doctors in 3 generations. It's hard to imagine that this was all cultivated by a rural woman who dropped out of school early.
However, Yang Guilian has proved that poverty can be changed, as long as there is faith and belief, positive and upward, the god of fate will also take care of you.
If the children's mother is not Yang Guilian, but any other ordinary rural woman, maybe now these children can only be farmers with their backs to the sky facing the loess! Like the ancestors, nothing will change.
Gao Fu is Yang Guilian's most proud son, he is also an academician of the Mainland Academy of Sciences, and has a high level of research in the field of biology.
Up to now, Academician Gao Fu has published nearly 500 SCI papers.
In the process of Gao Fu's growth, her mother Yang Guilian has always served as such an image as a leader. It is precisely because of Yang Guilian's teaching and ding-dong that Gao Fu will always remember the brilliance of "kindness" humanity and implement humanistic care throughout.
Later, Academician Gao Fu took the "kindness" taught him by his mother to Africa to support the Ebola epidemic, help the people there get rid of the pain of the disease, and also improve the international image of the mainland.
The mother is the earliest enlightenment teacher in a person's life, and she accompanies the child through the early years of tooth and tooth language and the vigorous youth.
It can be said that the influence of the mother can last a lifetime.
We should recognize the silent efforts of our mothers, and we should do our best to repay this effort.
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!