In the recent Winter Olympics, the hottest thing was not the ice pier, but our ice queen Frog Princess Gu Ailing. At just 18 years old, she easily won the gold medal on the freestyle ski jump, becoming the youngest Olympic champion in the freestyle skiing event! She won two gold and one silver in the Winter Olympics, she is still a proper Beijing big girl, she uses her height of 175 to support the youth of countless people, she is also a very loving and filial piety to her parents' daughter!
Whether it was after achieving excellent results at the Olympic Games, or in the interview after being named as a pie lover at the summary and commendation meeting of the Beijing Winter Olympics and Paralympic Games in the near future, she did not forget to mention her mother: Gu Yan. Gu Yan graduated from the Department of Chemical Engineering of Peking University, then went to the United States to study, and stayed on Wall Street after graduation.
When she was in school, Gu Yan was a member of the Peking University Short Track Speed Skating Team and a ski instructor, when she was teaching skiing on the snow park, and her 2-year-old daughter also heard about it, and she was exposed to skiing early. The relationship between Gu Ailing and her mother is that of mother and daughter and sister, and every interview is inseparable from thanking her mother for her education. But what is curious is why Gu Ailing never mentioned his father? This puts a big question mark on everyone. Let's give you a solution.
Puzzle 1: What is Gu Ailing's father? No need for her to say it herself, Gu Mu actually revealed it earlier!
Gu Ailing once revealed that she was raised by her grandmother and her mother together, and she received her mother's teachings from a young age, teaching Gu Ailing to become a strong, never accept defeat, independent, and peace-loving woman, Gu Yan is her mother, but also her idol, and so is her grandmother.
Gu Ailing also said in the interview that today I can have such achievements, all thanks to my mother's support and not giving up, her education method is successful, worth learning from everyone. Gu Ailing's mother is a North University bully, in addition to strong learning ability, there are different hobbies and identities, a proper slash life, in addition to the character is also very resistant, from all aspects affecting the growth of Gu Ailing, but also called his mother "the most tolerant person in the world". Such a mother, then the father is certainly not bad, so why has no one mentioned it?
In an interview between Gu Ailing and her mother, it was learned that they were a special single-parent family, and that her mother and grandmother raised and educated Gu Ailing, and that her father was a high-achieving student at Harvard University, and that other information was not learned more in the interview. Although this is the case, Gu Ailing's life is undoubtedly healthy and open, and mother Gu Yan strives to give her child a perfect and fulfilling childhood, proving with her own practical actions that not every successful family behind a successful child is bound, and children are more likely to succeed in a relaxed and enjoyable environment.
Netizens still continue to understand with their own curiosity, feeling that Gu's mother should have met the same excellent other half when she was in the United States, and chose to part ways because of some reasons that had to be separated after having the crystallization of love. This is all the speculation of netizens, and the real facts can only be known from my mouth.
Puzzle two, the success of the daughter = gu mother's teaching
How can Chinese and Western teaching be taught without any sense of contradiction? Mama Gu set a good example. Gu's mother will support her every time Gu Ailing succeeds, no matter how big or small, and tell her daughter not to be proud, save strength, respect opponents, and help her daughter in time when she fails, as long as it is meaningful, Gu Mother will go all out to support her daughter to do it with confidence. Western education gives Gu Ailing a cheerful and active personality, while Chinese education teaches Gu Ailing etiquette and emotional intelligence morality, and sure enough, such an excellent daughter is not just because of talent, the education of the day after tomorrow is more important.
Whether it is on the advertising film, or the interview scene, or on the playing field, it is more to see the super infectious confidence exuded by Gu Ailing, because Gu's mother never interferes too much in her daughter's competition, "How to play your own heart, your own decision, and bear the consequences yourself." It can be seen that Gu's mother has the openness of Western education in education, and there is also a heart-to-heart of Chinese education, she leads by example, never forces her daughter to do things she does not like, and what her daughter likes is to strive to reach an excellent level.
In addition to the daily encouragement of Gu's mother, the activities and events that Gu Ailing participates in, no matter how big or small, can put down the work at hand and fully integrate into the atmosphere of her daughter, so that she naturally cultivates the mentality that her daughter must pay attention to everything and go all out, because with the encouragement of her mother on the spot, she must perform better. Gu Ailing's all-round development really has to thank Gu Mama for everything she has done for her.
Puzzle 3: Valley-style family education shows its importance and has a huge impact on children
1/ Good family education can improve children's [insight]
Children's childhood can not only be a variety of interest classes, summer camps, tutoring classes, but also let children walk more and move more, communicate with people more, parents should lead by example, understand what children like, and can focus on the cultivation of children's interests, any interest should not be buried, nor should it be divided into high and low.
2/ Good family education can cultivate children's good [character]
It is not difficult to find that Gu Ailing under the valley family education is beautiful, confident, enthusiastic, high emotional intelligence, well-informed can cultivate children's emotional intelligence, can understand the mood of others by heart to heart; in addition, parents properly integrate into the child's life can make them feel the warmth of love, and their favorite things are recognized by their parents, so that such a childhood is undoubtedly happy.
3/ Good family education can make children closer to the end point
Children are on the same starting line, different family education can determine the length and fluency of the child to reach the end, want the child to rush to the end point in a straight line, good family education plays a key role, the first step is to observe whether the child's growth environment is comfortable, reduce pressure and give more positive guidance.
Gu's mother's education method makes many mothers examine whether there is a problem in their education, whether to give their children appropriate freedom and independent judgment space, and fully respect their children's opinions without arrogance.
I believe that every parent is looking forward to Jackie Chan, looking forward to the female chengfeng, at the end of the article for all parents to share a good book, don't miss it!
Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
Colleagues show this book to children, usually children also tutor mathematics, sometimes feel that cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also use what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!