Although the times have progressed and people's minds have gradually become open, China has always been a relatively traditional country, and some ideas are still impossible to be as completely free as foreign countries.
Among them, there is about the education of children, foreign children are free range, in general, parents are very respectful of children, and in China's family education, most of them are still parents occupy a dominant position, children as long as they listen to their parents.
Therefore, whenever a child does something beyond his age, it will arouse the attention of everyone and think that such a child is not behaving properly, including the controversial Huang Duoduo.
Huang Duoduo has been frequently on the hot search for many years, leading netizens to discuss: Can Huang Lei really educate children well?
What can a child do? Many people have similar answers in their hearts, playing, learning, going to interest classes, in short, doing something that is in line with age, but Huang Duoduo is different, although he is young, he always does some adult things.
Makeup and hair coloring with stud earrings, dressing up is also more fashionable, making people look like a child at first glance, and she has been frequently searched for many years because of these inappropriate behaviors.
For Huang Duoduo's behavior netizens have been talking about it, some people are very supportive, thinking that Huang Duoduo has done what many people want to do most when they are young, and the parents' education method is really good, but there are also objections, and even question Huang Lei's education method: Can you really educate children well.
However, no matter how netizens question Huang Lei's education and Huang Duoduo's behavior, they cannot deny Huang Duoduo's excellence, after all, 7 years old can write scripts in English, 8 years old independently translate English novels, 10 years old for animation dubbing, 11 years old on the international catwalk, are enough to prove that Huang Lei and his wife are very successful in education.
How should parents educate their children?
1. Teach according to your aptitude
Each child's genes and family education, the growth environment is different, so the child's personality will also be very different, parents can not set the standards for children as the same, should be taught according to the aptitude, find the most appropriate way of education, so that children can bloom under the education of their parents.
2. Respect your child's ideas
The most difficult thing for Chinese parents is to respect their children's ideas, because China does not seem to have such a trend, many parenting families are parents who force their children to obey themselves, but the times are changing, the way of education should also change, parents should learn to respect their children's ideas.
3. Strict requirements
Parents in the discovery of children in a certain aspect of the talent or interest, you can focus on training, in the child has some slack and lazy when the strict requirements, patient guidance, do not indulge the child too much, so that the child's life will not have regrets, the future when mentioned will not complain about the parents.
Huang Lei's way of educating his daughter is actually respecting the nature of the child, so what are the benefits for the child that parents respect the nature of the child
1. The child becomes an independent individual
Some people will say that each child can eventually grow into an independent individual, in fact, no, people seem to be an independent person, but as long as they are exposed, they will find that some people really rely on others to survive, whether it is behavior or thought, they need the help of others, such people are too controlled by their parents from childhood, resulting in inability to be independent.
2. Your child's life will be happier
Children will yearn for the time after growing up when they are young, although their ideas are not yet mature, but they will also imitate adults to do something that is not in line with their age, especially girls who love beauty, which is the nature of children.
For the child's nature parents should be respected, the child has not done some harmful things, there are some of their own ideas are not good, as long as the parents can be well educated, the child will not be crooked at all, and because of the respect of the parents, the child's life will be happier.
Those who criticize Huang Lei's education, rather than being afraid of children learning badly, are better to say that they can't accept the excellence of others, in the end it is still sour, although Huang Duoduo's behavior is more bold, but he did not learn bad is not it, but he is still very good, but he just learned to dress up early, which will not have much impact on the child's life.
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!