For most families, it is really a headache to educate their children well, many parents are overwhelmed by their children's anger, and some parents have been suppressing their emotions. Parents' love and expectations for their children are the same, parents are full of expectations, the biggest wish is that their children have a smooth life and a better future.
Why do parents value their children's academic performance? Even if the double subtraction lands, it will try to make up the lessons for the children, in fact, the reason is very simple, hoping that the children will win a happy life in the future through knowledge. But when Gu Ailing appeared in the public's field of vision, many parents broke the original idea.
Gu Ailing won the winter Olympics, her excellence is not only in sports, she is also a full-fledged bully, after seeing her life history has to be admired, and what is even more envied is that she has a mother who knows how to educate.
"Gu Ailing" posted a family portrait, Gu Yan's young old photos were exposed, and the dignified atmosphere was even more stunning than her daughter!
When she got the notice from Stanford, she was preparing for the Winter Olympics, and at the age of 18, her life was already so wonderful, and after the beginning of her college life, I believe she would create more miracles.
Gu Ailing was born in a family of academic bullys, although her parents divorced, but her mother's care did not let her be too affected, still smiling brightly, sunny and cheerful. The most important people in her life were her mother and grandmother, and she also posted a family portrait, and her mother was very dignified in a cheongsam.
Everyone thinks that Gu's mother is very lucky to have such a daughter, but in fact, Gu Yan is really not simple, she graduated from Peking University with a bachelor's degree, and later studied abroad, the appearance of her youth is more amazing than her daughter, Xiaogu is the beauty of mixed blood, and her mother is the oriental beauty of temperament, elegant atmosphere.
Gu Yan's life resume is equally rich, after graduation, she entered Wall Street to work, and also founded a company, which is a veritable strong woman. Gu Ailing took her mother as an example when she was a child, and she was as good as her mother, and such words and deeds were really admirable, no wonder Xiao Gu could be so outstanding.
"She's only 18 years old and hasn't gone to college yet," she used her power to influence everyone
Gu Ailing's aura is so dazzling that people seem to forget that she is only 18 years old and is still a student who has not entered the university campus. She uses her power to influence everyone, especially the students in their senior year of high school.
Kotani loves to learn, love sports, in fact, there are many hobbies running, basketball, piano, etc., her self-discipline ability is super strong, in the training will take all the energy to invest in it, in the study of every day there is a plan to complete the task efficiently, and then go to play to the fullest.
Her way of learning is worth learning from all high school juniors to prepare for the final sprint. And her maturity and steadiness, good attitude seems to be beyond her age.
A good attitude is what all high school students should study, the college entrance examination is about to usher in the countdown, how many people have good grades in their usual studies, but when it comes to important exams, they will play abnormally. How many students are discouraged because the results of the mock exam are not ideal, and they have lost themselves even more, so this good mentality is also worth learning from high school students.
After reading Gu Yan's life resume, some parents may feel that they cannot reach that height, let alone have that kind of economic foundation, in fact, the focus of parents should be on education other than the economy.
The economic situation is average, how should ordinary families replicate Gu Yan's education methods?
Everyone is born in a different family environment, and there are many students from cold families, and they are even more lacking in family education. Gu Yan not only understands education, but more importantly, the material conditions she provides for her daughter are also very superior, including Stanford tuition, most families can not afford to pay.
It is normal to have a gap, just like it is impossible for everyone to become Gu Ailing. But parents must not be stingy and do their best within their capabilities.
Parents should first improve their work, especially mothers should also have their own careers, ordinary family students, parents should also cultivate their one or two hobbies, such as dancing, painting, etc., do not save on the cultivation of interest. Be sure to love sports, even if you can't become a good athlete, but the benefits for students are not only physical health, but more importantly, sports can make children's hearts more sunny.
The author's message: if you want your children to be excellent, parents should also set a good example, and when children have a sense of worship for themselves, such education is successful. As an 18-year-old peer, Gu Ailing's 18-year-old is sincerely admirable, she is a role model for peers to learn from, and her mother is also worth learning from all families in education.
Today's topic: Do you think parents have a great influence on children? Do you think Gu Yan's old photo temperament when she was young is outstanding?
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