From an early age, parents teach students to study hard, so that when they grow up, they can find a job they like, live the life they want, and truly realize that knowledge changes their destiny.
But when I grew up, I learned that the harvest brought to students by reading books has never been just a job, but also a process of increasing their knowledge, expanding their horizons, and even reading books, as well as a screening process for their other half.
With the improvement of academic qualifications, the classmates around me are getting better and better, and they are more and more like-minded people, but sometimes, academic qualifications may also become a stumbling block to a mate, and a female doctor on the Internet is one of them.
The female doctor lamented that it is difficult to talk about love, after reading her mate selection criteria, netizens: say high or not high and low or low
When it comes to doctors, many people's first reaction may be that this must be a very good person, but excellent people, in the face of their own marriage affairs, also have a lot of troubles that cannot be solved.
According to the doctor's sharing, it has been 6 years since he graduated from his doctoral program, and he is currently teaching in a university, with an annual salary of about 200,000+, and his appearance and temperament are also considered middle and upper, overall, the conditions are quite good.
When I was studying, I didn't take love as a serious matter, I focused on my studies, and after graduating with a doctorate, I naturally reached the age of marriage, so after there was really no suitable candidate by my side, I had no choice but to embark on a blind date.
According to myself, in the 6 years since graduation, the number of blind dates has been about a hundred, and it stands to reason that a hundred blind dates should also be regarded as "reading countless people", and there should always be someone who can go both ways, right? Moreover, the conditions of girls are good, and the conditions of blind dates should not be too bad.
But seeing the criteria for choosing a mate listed by female doctors, many netizens understand the reason, in terms of education, because they are doctors, so the other party must at least go to graduate school, otherwise, I feel that there will be no common language.
In terms of income, it is required that the other party's annual salary should exceed 500,000+, and there must be a full house of more than 120 square meters, plus a car of more than 200,000 yuan, and a bride price of 150,000 yuan, these standards are already a not low standard for ordinary young people.
But compared to these material requirements, what really hinders them from finding their other half, there is also a female doctor who insists that the child is born from whose belly, it is with whose surname, can do this, and can still have a good impression of each other, I am afraid that it is really necessary to pick one in a hundred.
Seeing this mate selection standard, many netizens said, say high or not high to say low is not low, speaking of not high, after all, people are university teachers, stable work, considerable income, want to find a better income, better conditions are also reasonable.
Speaking of not low, firstly, there are not many boys who meet this standard, and secondly, boys who meet this standard must have some standards of their own, and if both parties do not want to give in, it is not easy to achieve a two-way rush.
Excellent people want to find an equally good person to spend the rest of their lives with, which is fine, but when the criteria for choosing a mate have rules that cannot be broken, it is expected that blind dates will be fruitless a hundred times.
You can not care about the outside world, but everyone must understand, what do they want?
In the face of the female doctor's mate selection criteria, the voice of ridicule is naturally not a few, but life is not to live for others to see, cold and warm self-knowledge, knowing what you really want is the most important.
If the female doctor yearns for marriage and love, then there is no need to make the choice of mate like an interview, all kinds of hard conditions are there, it is better to put like-mindedness in the first place, other standards can be relaxed, and it is not too late for the two people to work together in the future career.
If the female doctor feels that marriage is not a necessity, insists that it is better to lack than abuse, it must be carried out in her own plan, it does not matter, there is no rule mentioning, entering marriage is the only way for all women, do yourself, do not be afraid of the voice of the outside world, be prepared for the arrival of fate, and be ready for "unique beauty".
So no matter which path you choose, there is no right or wrong, the important thing is to know what you really want, rather than wanting to stick to yourself, but also unable to withstand the pressure of the outside world, and finally being stirred up by outsiders into a pot of paste.
Other students are the same, even if their education and ability are not as good as the female doctors in the text, they must always hold the choice of life in their own hands, not the emotional kidnapping of parents, let alone the gossip of Zhang San, Li, 4, Wang 5, Zhao Liu.
Of course, we must also remind students that working hard to improve their academic qualifications is a very meaningful thing no matter when it comes, and students do not have to worry that reading will become their own shackles because they see similar cases, and reading will only give themselves more opportunities to choose.
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