These cards of a man are only shown to the person he loves deeply, don't live up to his sincerity

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We all hope that we can meet a person, two people can resist the sweep of the years, can resist the temptation of the outside world, from one end to the end, holding hands for the rest of their lives.

However, not all of us can have the privilege of loving and being loved, and before we reach the end of the final love, we will encounter some misses, some disappointments, and may also meet some people who play with our feelings. Someone who loves you with all his love will make you hurt you, but someone will make you feel the human heart and lead you into the abyss.

We can't change other people's attitudes towards love, you don't expect to rely on your own energy to save someone, don't overestimate your own status, you can't move people who don't love you, you won't let him change from a prodigal son to a warm man, treat some unworthy people, and decisively leaving is the greatest protection for yourself.

Some people are unable to see each other clearly, mistakenly invested in a relationship, and finally recognized his true face, while some people know that the front is the south wall, and also want to bump into it, and finally get scaly wounds all over the body.

We can't change a person's obsession, the only thing we can do is to improve our judgment ability, to be able to accurately judge whether a person is sincere or false to you.

There are some things that men only actively expose to someone they love deeply. If he has never shown you, then it is clear that you are not the person he believes he is.

If he is willing to take the initiative to show you these hole cards, it shows that he really loves you, don't live up to his heart.

His real income

Generally speaking, there are some things that can be shared with others at will, even if the relationship is average, as long as the other party asks, they will not hesitate to take the initiative to tell each other. But there are also some things that are more private and will not be casually mentioned to others.

For example, our income, people with ordinary relationships can have some polite greetings with each other, can eat together, and have some open interpersonal interactions, but the issue of income will not be easily disclosed.

Even if others ask, they will reply with some more vague answers, and will not say specific numbers, unless it is related to a certain extent, they will talk about money and talk about specific income situations.

If a man and a woman intend to have a long-term stable relationship, they must go through the stage of talking about money, and the relationship that has never talked about money is not worthy of credulity at all. If they do not reach the point of honesty and honesty between each other, the relationship is still in a relatively shallow state, and it is easy to achieve the point of dispersion.

If a man doesn't tell you his real income for two reasons, one doesn't feel necessary, he doesn't even think about going to the end with you. The second is because of deliberate concealment, or because the income is too low for fear of being looked down upon, or because of the fear that you will take advantage of him. Either way, it shows that he is not sincere enough with you.

Only when he frankly exposes his true income to you, it means that he has already regarded you as his own person and will not hide anything from you.

His plans for the future

The future sounds like a distant word, but for two people who share the same heart, it seems to be close at hand. Because from the day I was with the other party, I fantasized more than once about having him.

For people who don't love you, they don't want to live with you for a long time, and only care about the time they spend with each other in front of them. They just have the idea of walking day by day and watching a day, and maybe one day they will abandon you.

Even if you explicitly hint countless times, he is indifferent, not because he can't understand it, but because he never has your shadow in the future.

Only the man who is completely in love with you will take the initiative to mention to you his plans for the future, including his career planning and the time when the two people will be together in the future, which have been imagined countless times in his mind.

In which city you want to develop in the future, in which area you want to buy a house, and what kind of house you want to decorate, he will take the initiative to tell you about it, because he wants to have your participation in every step of his future.

He has long been planning for your future, starting to save money for a marriage house, starting to become self-motivated, and wanting to give you a better future. When a man takes the initiative to talk to you about the future, it shows that he really loves you and wants to go a long way with you.

Take you to meet his family

See the parents, this is a scene that every couple in love has fantasized about, because when you come to this step, divorce is not far away.

No matter how much a man says he loves you, if he always refuses to take you to see his parents, then don't believe it, he is just talking.

I have seen such a video: the girl has proposed countless times to go back to his hometown with the boy to meet his parents, and every time the boy has an argument and uses various excuses to refuse. It's not that I wait any longer, it's that I lie that my parents have gone to a foreign country, and I will do everything possible to postpone it and not let her go back to her hometown with him.

Until once the girl heard the boy and his parents on the phone, she did not know that her parents were arranging a blind date for him, and he once returned to his hometown to meet the blind date.

It wasn't until that moment that the girl understood that during the time he had been with her, he had been looking for a home. He had never thought of giving her a name, never thought of marrying her.

The man who loves you will always show a look of impatience, will offer to take you to the parents, can't wait to introduce you to everyone around you, accept everyone's blessings, and start a family with you.

He is the more anxious party, afraid that if he hesitates, you will be snatched away by others. Because of love, you will be afraid of loss, you will want to have a long time with you, you want to hold your hand, go from love to marriage together, and go on to be sweet and happy together.

The above three bottom cards are the most important things in a man's life, which will not be easily shown to others, and only if they completely fall in love with you will they be exposed in front of you.

Income is a man's most important confidence, if a man has never taken the initiative to reveal his income to you, then do not believe, have not talked about the relationship of money, itself is very unreliable.

Meeting parents is a vital part of the road to the future, and no matter how you mingle with his friends, as long as you don't get to this level, you will break up anytime and anywhere.

He will plan your future early on, have already put you into his future, and want to spend the rest of his life with you.

Men take the initiative to show you these three hole cards, do not doubt, he really cares about you, cherish it.