The best gift for a child to grow up is not money, not companionship, but the support and trust of parents to teachers.
However, we often see this picture:
When a child is injured at school, the parents think that the teacher has not fulfilled his responsibilities; when the child is sick at school, the parents think that the school has not taken good care of it; as soon as the child says that he does not want to go to school, the parents will immediately think about what is wrong with the child in school, and will immediately question the teacher... Parents, standing against the teacher, will only hinder the growth of their children.
When the teacher faces every child,
In fact, you will see the parents behind the child
When the teacher faces every child, he will actually see the parents behind the child, especially his mother.
Some of the images in the minds of parents to teachers are always understanding, some may be fierce; some are always smiling, some are anxious; some are relaxed, some are harsh; some make the teacher nervous when they think of it, and some always make the teacher very relaxed...
Occasionally, I also get the chance to get together with teachers and find that the eternal topic they discuss is "home-school work".
The teacher will talk about the various "impressions" of the parents, in fact, these impressions will affect the teacher's judgment of the child, will affect how the teacher teaches a child.
When the teachers talk about being misunderstood by the parents,
The general feeling is very distressed and helpless.
Yes, if you are a teacher, when parents talk to you in blackface early in the morning, it may affect your mood with children all day;
When parents discuss things in class in various groups at night, passing on that unsympathetic energy, as long as you know, it may affect your rest and mood the next day... And all the concurrs and even bystanders became accomplices.
There is no perfect parent, the teacher can not ask all parents to respect the teacher, polite, in fact, some parents who are prone to pick thorns, he is not only picking the teacher's thorns, everywhere is like this, he is a "thorn head".
The teacher's "mood" should not be swayed by these parents, let alone bring his negative emotions to his children or even the children of the entire class.
Similarly, there is no perfect teacher, any group, excellent is always a minority, children can be fortunate to meet good teachers, that is the parents and children in the past life of the blessing.
On the whole, the group of teachers has professional training, managers at different levels and various rules and regulations, and teachers who have "no bottom line" are a minority after all. To some extent, parents are more "careful" with the nanny at home than the teacher, which is the trust and recognition of the teacher group.
However, as parents, we have not received professional training on how to be parents, not only with teachers, but also with their children and families, often showing great "willfulness".
Parent Support Teacher,
It is to support the growth of their children
I am a business operator, strict with subordinates, in the past I often reprimanded subordinates, the effect is not good. Later, I found that more recognition and encouragement not only made other people have high work enthusiasm and good performance, but also their own mood.
After the child goes to school, the rule I set for myself is that I will never talk about the teacher in front of the child, and actively support and cooperate with the teacher's work. In this way, the child obeys the teacher's words, and along the way, he has a lot of peace of mind.
Think about it, if the growth of your children is seen as an enterprise, the parents are the real bosses, the loss is to earn in the end you have to go around, the teacher is at best a professional manager or a middle-level leader, you can pat your ass at any time and leave. "Fooling" professional managers well is the real ability of the boss. What's more, such a "professional manager" as a teacher, parents do not have any choice and right to dispose of it!
This does not mean that we should be parents' acceptance and be cautious about teachers. More importantly, parents are children's role models, and when getting along with others, especially with teachers, more support and tolerance, which is to teach their children how to behave in the world, which is also the foundation of children's future life.
The encounter between parents and teachers is the encounter of love and trust.
Parents support teachers to support their children's growth. Let the teacher passionately devote himself to the education of his children, relying on the teacher's own professional quality and cultivation, and the parents should improve the realm and actively act.