Every time everyone talks about what kind of profession, it is easy to cultivate excellent students, the first thing that everyone will think of is definitely the teaching profession, parents are engaged in the teaching profession, and the children cultivated will be particularly excellent. If the teacher's child is not good enough, it will often become the focus of everyone's discussion, the parents are the teacher's children, and the excellent grades can account for more than 90%.
It can be seen from the data of each province that the number of parents who are teachers can account for more than 30%, and the proportion of civil servant families cultivating champions is more than 17%.
The sad story of a teacher couple: never thought that the failure of life was their own child
The protagonist of the story is two teachers, also teaching in high school school, the son's grades are very ordinary, originally they hoped that the child could pass the high school study, take a similar undergraduate, at least can be admitted to the second college, did not think that the child did not play well, from the undergraduate line is still a few tens of points.
Two teachers' colleagues, their children and their own children, took the college entrance examination in the same year, other children were admitted to a university, the two couples began to be distressed, the same in a school teaching, why their own children are so bad? Even ordinary undergraduate students have not been admitted, but other people's children have been admitted to double first-class universities.
The two people are the backbone teachers of the school, often winning various awards, but they are not good enough in cultivating children, they serve as class teachers, and it is reasonable to say that the children cultivated by such families will generally have good grades. But the scenery of the career did not make the husband and wife happy, mainly because the children's academic performance was too poor, which hit them very hard.
Parents are the backbone of teachers, why do the children raised have ordinary grades?
There are many examples where parents are particularly good, children who are raised, and grades are a mess, especially in families where both parties are teachers. The reason why such a phenomenon occurs has a lot to do with parents, parents are class teachers, usually the main time must be spent on class management and teaching, and the children's education problems may be ignored.
Especially children who grow up with their grandparents, less of the love of their parents, children in learning and life, often appear rebellious emotions, coupled with children see their parents, spend time every day on the management class, never care about their own education, and eventually lead to worse and worse grades.
Teachers are really busy every day, most of the time is spent on students, and when parents find out what the problem is and want to correct it, it is already difficult to change.
May not be admitted to the ordinary undergraduate, most families are very common, but appear in the teacher's family, it is indeed more special, more and more people want children to be excellent, but if parents do not spend effort, do not accompany the child to grow up, the child's education problems may not be solved.
Since such a phenomenon has occurred, teachers and families should correctly face the child's education problems, spend more effort on the child, accompany the child to learn, and let the child feel the education of the parents.
Even if the child can't pass the undergraduate examination, the parents should not be too disappointed, three hundred and sixty lines out of the line, may choose other paths for the child, may walk more smoothly.
What are the noteworthy points in the raising of children in ordinary families?
Each child's growth environment is different, the cultivation of children's personality is different, when educating children, we must fully understand the child's personality, take the way of teaching according to the aptitude for education, so that children feel that parents are really careful in education.
No matter when, parents should do more to encourage their children, do not always compare their own children with other people's children, each child has its own characteristics, to be good at finding the shining points of children, to praise children more, so that children are full of positive energy.
When children grow up, it is inevitable that they will be slower to accept new things, and they should have more patience, consider from the child's point of view, encounter problems, understand children's psychological ideas, show their patience, and do not be rude in children's education.
Do not shout at the child, do not corporal punishment of the child, so that the child's education itself, there is no good promotion significance, but harmful to the child, parents to create a sunny, healthy living environment for the child, let the child feel the beauty of life.
No matter what position the parents are in, what kind of work they are engaged in, they have to spend more time on the issue of children's education, in fact, what kind of work do parents engage in? There is not much gap in the education of children, and some people always think that teachers must be able to cultivate academic bullies, which is definitely wrong. If you want to cultivate excellent children, parents must spend more time on education.
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