The "cat girl" that men like often has these characteristics

He Suohuan, a writer of gender-emotional psychology, writes sentient stories, interesting strangers, and material knowledge.

If you've ever had a cat, you'll feel this way:

Their personalities, soft, delicate, gentle or emotional, are all similar to the traits of girls.

Because of this, many people are accustomed to using "cat system" to describe a girl.

Some people will use the term "canine" to describe girls.

So, what are the qualities of cat girls?

Full of mystery and curiosity.

Desire for freedom but possessiveness.

Want to get closer, but not humble.

The personality is changeable, but ultimately gentle.

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The mystery and curiosity of cat girls

The biggest characteristics of cats are: mystery and curiosity.

The cat's curiosity is reflected in many things, curiosity about new things, curiosity about the behavior of the shoveler, curiosity about food, air, surroundings, etc.

The mystery of cats is manifested in their love of hiding and being good at disguise.

In girls, they also have this trait.

The mystery of cat girls is that there is a steady stream of surprises.

How to understand?

With such a girl, boys will have such feelings: "She is really a treasure girl, with her, there are always all kinds of surprises." 」 ”

Today I will cook, tomorrow I will write poetry; today I am a repairman, and tomorrow I will become a gentle and lovely woman.

This contrast and versatility add a lot of charm to the girls.

The curiosity of cat girls will also make boys feel that "life is no longer dull".

Because they can always find beauty and create romance in ordinary days.

If you are a boy with a quiet personality and a calm heart, with a cat girl, you will feel more fresh.

And if you are a cheerful boy, then with the cat girl, you will find that you are very similar to each other.

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Cat girl's concept of marriage and love: I love you and am free

Cat girls have a distinct characteristic: independence and freedom, possession and letting go.

They are particularly measured in their feelings.

When you're not around her, she's able to run her life well, and she's doing well even without you.

For her, you are the icing on the cake of romance, not the whole of her life.

Her attitude towards you will change because of your attitude towards her.

When you want to control her, possess her, and hold her in the palm of your hand, she will leave you and keep your distance from you.

And when you stay away from her and keep a certain distance from her, she will be gentle with you.

Get along with cat girls and don't try to control her.

The most enjoyable relationships they enjoy are:

Relative possession, absolute freedom; love each other, but also leave some space for each other.

Consider a scenario like this:

You fall in love with cat girls and live together.

You work in the study, and she'll watch a play in the living room or plant some flowers and plants on the balcony.

You don't bother with each other, but you have each other in your hearts all the time; sitting together, even if you don't say a word, you don't feel embarrassed.

Because this warm moment of love will last forever in your hearts.

If you're going out to a party, she won't pestering you, and she won't call you a dozen times or send you dozens of messages.

They'll just tell you, "Be safe and get home early." ”

The charm of cat girls lies in: know how to advance and retreat, know the sense of proportion.

She won't hold you back when you're busy; because she knows that everyone has their own things to do, and love isn't all.

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Changeable personality: cold, gentle, spoiled, weak

Being with a cat girl will give boys an illusion:

"I'm not in love with one person, I'm in love with a lot of people."

They can indeed create this illusion and emotional diversity for you.

They are sometimes gentle and sometimes cold; when you are gentle, she is occasionally cold; when you are cold, she becomes gentle.

Just like cats, cats are cold and gentle, random and more autonomous.

Whether you want to be close to you or not, gentle with you, all depends on the cat's mood at the moment.

The same goes for cat girls.

Cat girls are also very smart, why do you say so?

Because cat girls are born to show weakness, especially in the face of boys they like.

They don't express themselves, but give up the opportunity to perform to each other, and she becomes a quiet audience.

Give the boy appropriate praise, silent support, quiet companionship.

Wang Xiaobo wrote a paragraph in his love letter to Li Yinhe, "Loving You Like Loving Life":

"You cry when you're angry, and I'm stunned when I see you crying, like a child who is stunned when he does something wrong and isn't blamed." So what's the matter you don't cry first, come and blame me first, okay? ”

There is a saying: It is best to spoil a woman's life.

Girls who can be spoiled, know how to advance and retreat, and know how to serve softly can often get the love and spoiling of men, so that boys have a strong desire to protect in their hearts.

In love with cat girls, they are sometimes gentle, sometimes cold, sometimes independent, sometimes clingy.

However, you can always find many surprises in her, romantic, clever and delicate.

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