It is often said that men conquer the world, and women conquer men.
But we women are powerless in both fists, why should we conquer men?
Of course, it's a spoiler!
A look, a pampering, will tickle people, such a high emotional intelligence, will be spoiled attractive woman, men are willing to give her everything.
Even if there is a quarrel, the smart ones will not be the bar, but will soften the tone of the tone and give each other a chance to reconcile with the trend.
As teacher Zhang Defen said: Home is a place of love, not a place of reason. Properly spoiling is a woman's little trick to keep love in a hot state.
But in our daily lives, the vast majority of women are like this:
The other half does not do well or does not help, just yell or sulk themselves;
Tell the child to do something, always in a commanding tone;
He did everything by himself, and forced himself to become a woman...
We always feel that the woman who is spoiled is to snort, throw away the flattering eyes, and constantly "do", but in fact, the core of the spoiled woman is high emotional intelligence, which is to use the appropriate tricks to make the results move closer to the direction you want.
Women who can spoil are highly emotionally intelligent
Hundred tempering into a gentle and calm around the finger
Get along comfortably!
Psychologists once did a questionnaire survey on "spoiling", and the results showed that almost 99% of men have no resistance to women's spoiling.
The red rose Chen Chong in the old movie "Red Rose and White Rose" is the ultimate of a spoiled woman, and the style is varied, so that a girl can't help but like it.
She loves to eat peanut butter, and the male protagonist Zhenbao said: Eating this will make you fat.
She put her hands together and handed him the toast: "Then you can paint it for me."
Zhen bao took over and helped her put peanut butter on her, and she said: Do you know why I want to tell you?
"Why?"
"Because I know that you won't paint too much for me, and you won't be willing to give me too little." After saying that, hand over an endless look.
This soft sentence like a child easily hit Zhen Bao's heart.
Around us, girls who will be spoiled, in addition to the super sweet love marriage, daily life can also easily save a lot of things:
Bought a very heavy large express delivery, a phone courier brother is willing to send it upstairs;
Go to the fruit shop, the aunt will help pick big and good oranges, and wipe zero;
The computer is broken, you can repair it for the company's programmer brother, no need to run after-sales...
It was super lucky to go everywhere and green light all the way.
Spoiled≠ selling
Spoiling is just a little trick for women with high emotional intelligence
If you think about it, why do weak women get more pampering from men in their relationships?
For example, if people can't turn on the water, men help her; people are afraid of the dark, and men rush to accompany her.
Because in front of them, men can always feel their own strength, but also feel that they are needed. In intimate relationships, pampering just arouses a man's desire to protect, making his sense of responsibility explode.
However, now many girls are not willing to be spoiled, mainly because they can't pass the hurdle in their hearts:
From an early age, he was taught to be dignified and stable, and when he grew up, he was deeply influenced by the concept that "girls should be independent and elegant, not emotional".
Don't say that dragging the voice is spoiled, even expressing emotions is also careful, afraid that if you are not careful, you will be tied to the big hat of "green tea", "no self-respect", and "emotional".
Episode "The Woman Who Won't Spoil"
But when I went to society, I found that:
Female colleagues whose strength is comparable to their own, because they will be sweet-mouthed and get along well with the leading customers, the monthly rating can steadily get A, and they stay up late and work overtime to complain, and the boss is still not satisfied;
In the feelings, it is not soft enough, accustomed to independence, accustomed to grasping everything with one hand, and as a result, the partner dislikes his own strength, there is no bit of femininity, and the relationship gradually becomes cold...
To tell the truth, it is a kind of sadness that women are stubborn to this point in the workplace and in love!
Like thoughtful and eloquent, being spoiled is actually our women's resources and soft power.
Learn to be softer, sweeten your mouth, use the weapon of "spoiling", get along more comfortably with colleagues and leaders, and your partner will continue to pamper you, and life will really be much smoother.
Seeing this, you may ask:
If we never know how to be spoiled, and are used to grinning or acting violently, is it not related to being a spoiled person?
In fact, spoiling is not a talent, but a skill that can be learned.
If you want to practice the art of spoiling, you need more professional guidance.
This time we invited the queen of the sycophants, Teacher Wang Yiyi, whether you are a straight girl or a little goblin, she can take you to quickly learn, easily get everyone's tricks, and become a popular high emotional intelligence woman.
11 tricks of high emotional intelligence trick + 11 sections of HD video
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