I never thought that the post-00s concept of love would make my eyes light up.
A few days ago, I saw a viral video called "Tsinghua Boy Humble Courtship" on station B.
The boy is from the Department of Electrical Engineering of Tsinghua University, and in the video, he said slowly and logically:
"I am 19 years old, currently studying in the Department of Electrical Engineering of Tsinghua University, with a net height of 1 meter 81, a weight of 70 kilograms, and no obvious bad habits..."
He jokingly listed his strengths and weaknesses.
For example, he said that his biggest advantage is that he bathes every day and always has a fragrant body.
In addition, his advantages are that he can talk a lot of paragraphs, is more humorous, and often goes to the gym, and his physical fitness is great.
When it comes to shortcomings, he is also very "frank", bluntly saying that he is a stunned young man who has never been in love, and even the girl's hand has not been pulled, so in the process of love, if you accidentally offend, you also need the other half to "give more advice".
As for the mate selection standard, the boy is also very sincere, better looking than himself, not necessarily excessive pursuit of appearance and appearance, he prefers to find the other half of the heart, and demand himself with the same standards.
At the end of the video, the boy is very shy and shy and says, "If we're satisfied, we can try it." ”
Seriously, when I saw this video, I had a bright feeling.
Although he was very green and a little shy, he did not feel twisted or embarrassed at all.
From the beginning to the end, he has something to say, does not shy away from his own strengths and weaknesses, just like a friend talking with you in front of you, very frank, very real, let people have a feeling of spring breeze.
It may be that he presented this frank and humble attitude in the video, he exploded overnight on the B station and was recognized by many netizens.
There are many netizens who send bullet screens and comments to express their affirmation, thinking that he is humorous, cute and excellent, making people very comfortable.
There are also many girls who send videos to respond, hoping to know him, even if the relationship can't be discussed, it is excellent to make a friend.
"Although I am a little shy, my little brother has grown up on my aesthetic point."
"I look like this!"
"If anyone you know sees this, please don't tell me, thank you!"
From their words, you can see that these children are young, speak carefully, and the background of the video is in the dormitory or on campus, but they are also sincere and brave.
With the rise of this wave of enthusiasm on the B station, many people lament that the efficient and targeted way of making friends by sending videos on the B station is simply a "dimensionality reduction blow" to a number of social software!
In fact, when I looked at the "courtship" videos of these young people, I still had a little sigh in my heart.
Like our post-80s and post-90s generations, we like a person who is always hiding, afraid that the other party knows, or dare not love hard, for fear of being hurt.
But this post-00s generation is completely different from us:
They are brave, direct, frank, say what they want, do not twist, do not ink, but directly take the video, what their conditions are, what kind of people they want to find, very simple and clear.
In the video, they look forward to letting their excellent and shining points be seen by more people, are more willing to take the initiative, and will not care too much about the outside world's views.
For them, sending a video to show themselves is as natural as sending a circle of friends after us in the 90s.
Someone has described the best state of love as "to love with all your might, as if you had never been hurt." ”
And isn't that what this group of post-00s is all about?
They don't care about getting hurt, they care more about finding the person they want, whether they're living the life they want.
Later, I thought that if I had been as "mature" and "transparent" as they were, I would not have been delayed for so long.
I have to say that the concept of marriage and love of this post-00 group is really eye-catching and thought-provoking.
After being driven by Tsinghua boys, Station B set off a wave of post-00s "video courtship" boom, and many post-00s also began to use videos to find objects.
Of course, the post-00s are not only brave enough to show themselves, but they are also never ashamed to learn about love.
Online, Professors Liang Yong'an and Shen Yifei's lectures on love and marriage can even be broadcast more than one million times on the B station, and many young people continue to send bullet screen discussions and urge changes in the background.
Of course, these two professors also paid attention to the phenomenon of "video courtship" and gave them support online.
There are also offline, they even go through the window to listen to the love psychology course taught by Wuhan University.
Actually, this is not surprising. Fingers crossed, the eldest post-00s is already 22 years old, has reached the age of entering the society, and began to germinate the idea of finding an object, which is completely natural.
However, I found that this post-00s have a love model that is different from the post-80s and post-90s and exclusive to them.
For example, to determine a romantic relationship, the 80s generation may write love letters and buy gifts.
Post-90s generations who advocate freedom may be more willing to invite their favorite objects to the romantic corners of the campus to confess in person.
After the 00s who grew up in the Internet environment, they can almost complete it online from trying to make friends to determining relationships.
According to the "2019 Post-95 Love Report", more than 60% of the post-95 population believes that online dating is the best way to get off the list.
And in the post-00s group, this proportion will increase a little. After all, the post-00s are a generation that grew up on the Internet from childhood to adulthood, and often went online when they were in elementary school, which is the real online generation.
Another example is the daily love after being together, the post-80s love a peaceful life, like to shop together, cook together, and the post-90s will share each other's hobbies, watch movies and play board games together.
And the proportion of online love accounts for nearly half of the post-00s, there are also ten thousand ways to interact intimately on the Internet, play mobile games together, even Mai watching videos is their "high-sweet daily life", even ben now, must also take a Vlog video as a souvenir, public "sprinkling sugar".
For example, on the anniversary of love, the post-80s may choose a romantic candlelight dinner, and the post-90s may choose to call friends to go to the party together.
The anniversary of the post-00s seems to be more "cyberbo", and they may be more willing to make a commemorative video together and send it to station B, which will be recorded together forever.
As a generation of netizens, they can be said to subvert all our imaginations about the way we fall in love, as if everything can be carried out on the Internet, even if the offline is very shy, but when it comes to online, it can be very open.
I have seen such a comment on the Internet: After this session of 00, they may be social phobia offline, but when they get online, they immediately become social.
Perhaps, in the near future, they will completely change and subvert the previous way of falling in love, presenting a completely different scene.
Of course, the post-00s have changed not only the way they fall in love, but their concept of marriage and love is also keeping pace with the times according to their rhythm.
I have watched a video of a couple of post-00s couple bloggers, who have good planning and insights for marriage and their careers, and they are very clear.
"If the woman has money and ability, then the man is in the master, if the man has money and ability, then the woman is in the lord."
There is also a post-00s female blogger who said: "The idea that girls take the initiative to be cheap is simply outrageous!" If you don't take the initiative, then you can only find a boyfriend in the person who chases you, and the tall one in the short, and if you are a girl who will be smart and active, then your choice is the best man in the whole world..."
I have to say that for marriage and love, they have their own unique views and perspectives.
They have better material conditions and spiritual environment than previous generations, so they will be more rational, have more opportunities to think about what they really want, what feelings are best for them, and they are more daring to fight for what they want, without compromise, not to be satisfied.
While these ideas may not be absolutely perfect, they are the best fit for them.
There is a good saying that the formation of a generation's concept of marriage and love is closely related to the culture, economic situation and family consciousness of different eras.
After this generation of 00, they have more confidence and confidence to pursue the life they want.
This post-00s generation is no longer the child we remember.
They not only have their own clear view of marriage and love, but also plan their hobbies and lives well.
For example, the first professional storm photographer in China @Range Sifang, he is a post-00s;
Or the singer Liang Mingchen, who shined on variety shows, he is also a post-00s.
Unconsciously, the post-00s group has entered the public vision.
I love the traits in them – spontaneous, passionate, proactive, unrestrained, and well-purposed.
Whether it is mainstream or not, whether it is recognized or not, as long as they think it is right, they will stick to it.
After this session of 00, I gradually lived into the way I wanted.
When the outbreak breaks out, they may be the medical students who put on protective clothing and rush to the front line.
Flooding, they may be the backbone of the anti-flood line to carry sandbags.
In the great power game, they may also be fighters who fly J-10 aircraft into the sky.
There is a saying that is very good: "It turns out that unconsciously, we have begun to be protected by the post-00s." ”
Yes, it turns out that this batch of post-00s has quietly come to the front of us and become the people who protect us.
They rushed to the front line like their fathers and slowly became the bravest people in China.
Once, the elders thought that the post-90s generation was the "Beat generation", but the post-90s told the elders with their behavior and achievements that they no longer had to look at them in the one-sided and outdated way of the past.
Although the post-00s have many characteristics that we cannot understand, and they have been regarded by many people as the "Beat Generation", now, they have stood on the stage set up by the times and begun to show their own light.
They did not disappoint this era.
They are a generation that grew up in abundance, with their own ideas and pursuits; they seem to be unruly, but they can take the initiative to assume social responsibility; they are the most promising generation, the most energetic young people of this era, and they will also be the best scenery in the future of this country.
A generation will eventually grow old, but there will always be someone who is young!