You are so good, why can't you get a quality man?

Why do the high-quality men you look up to can't look up to you, and the mediocre men you don't look up to chase you every day? This is a common confusion for many students.

Many women, in fact, do not understand that in the field of gender emotions, the core competitiveness of men and women is not the same.

Men's core competitiveness depends on the most core needs of women, and women's core competitiveness depends on the core needs of men.

Many women think they are excellent, they feel that they are smart, beautiful, rich, capable, why can't they get the love of high-quality men, why high-quality men will not fall crazy in love with themselves.

If a woman works hard and tries to make money, it shows that her desire is very large, very anxious, and very insecure, especially the so-called independent woman who never relies on men.

Especially desperate women, will write anxiety and bitterness on the face, temperament will become very bad, you may not be able to see it yourself, but high-quality men can see it at a glance.

The reason why men work hard and make money is understandable, men can't have children, what else can they do if they don't work hard to make money? Men who don't make money are basically equivalent to wasted people.

And men desperately engage in careers, work hard to make money, and finally the return of success is infinite, as long as men have money, they are not afraid of finding women, this sentence is very realistic, but society is very realistic.

So you can see that in order to make a career and make money, men can endure humiliation and burden, for decades as a day, even at the cost of their lives, to gamble on those with a very low probability of success rate, they know very well that once they succeed, the return is infinite.

But you are a woman, but also learn men to do this, desperately engage in career, try to make money, and finally find that it is not as good as women who do nothing, they do nothing, they are much better than you, sometimes life is so ironic.

Of course, I'm not saying that women don't need to work, women who eat and are lazy, and women who want men to raise every day will not actually get the respect of men.

Women do not need to consume a very large career for themselves, do not need to lead to their own career that is not worth the loss, if you insist on adding weight to the career, then you will treat yourself as a man on the line, do not think about the success of the career and then find a high-quality man, the career is successful, to find a small white face is very good.

Of course, it does not mean that you work very hard in your career, you will definitely have good results, you want to achieve success in your career, who are your competitors? It's those men who are staring at the tiger, you have to kill a lot of men, you can succeed, think about how difficult it is.

When a woman's career is successful, she will also emit a temperament, which is different from the temperament of other women, that temperament is more similar to the male temperament of men, similar to Dong Mingzhu, she is actually more like a man, but physiologically a woman.

A woman's temperament is really important, a woman's temperament is a hundred times more important than her appearance, and a woman's temperament determines a woman's happiness.

Noble and elegant temperament, all emanating from the inside out, naturally makes high-quality men fascinated, the real noble and elegant temperament, from speech to demeanor, are all naturally integrated.

However, women who have been working hard for a long time are either contaminated with serious worldly qi, or they are too resentful, and they emit a copper smell, giving people a very dusty and vulgar feeling, and high-quality men run far away as soon as they see it.

Women should cultivate more connotations, let the inner charm emanate, and wait until you open your mouth to speak, you can amaze the public, rather than opening the mouth is those nonsense without nutrition: wow, so-and-so star is handsome, it is good to make money, it is good not to rely on men, men do not have a good thing.

In order to cultivate your own connotation and exude temperament, you don't need to work hard every day to make money, you just need to find a nine-to-five job.

In fact, the best job for women is civil servants, and related types of work, at least in the current China is like this, I have not investigated abroad, in peacetime you do not do civil servants, what else do you want to do?

What insurance, intermediaries, micro-business, women must not do it, the kind of private enterprises that treat men as cattle and women as men, do not do it, these are all jobs that destroy femininity.

After work, you have plenty of time to cultivate your hobbies, such as piano, dance, art, vocal music, these hobbies, will make you exude endless temperament.

Women have artistic characteristics, with elegant taste and artistic style, is very much to their own temperament, once a woman is particularly greedy for money, the desire to make money is very large, the temperament will appear very vulgar.

So no matter what class of man, unless he has no choice, he does not like very material women, because temperament has lost elegance and purity.

Whether a man will spend money on you depends on your temperament, your own value, your emotional intelligence, whether you can meet his core needs, not whether you open your mouth to ask him for money, to be honest, you have no temperament, no value, low emotional intelligence, even if you ask for money, it is useless.

Women don't want to be material women, to be temperamental women, temperamental, naturally someone spends money for you, no temperament, you can only become very materialistic, spend money on yourself, this is the logic of men spending money, this is the truth of gender emotions.

From today on, try to cultivate your own temperament, let yourself become temperamental, not to please men, but to please yourself, to make yourself happier, happier, more secure, and attract high-quality men, that is only a consequence of the incidental.