"Go ahead, stop following me and be a widow!" In August 1974, an armed police soldier named Yin Jichang was in a major car accident while pulling food for the troops, and his injuries were extremely serious.
When sent to the hospital for rescue, the doctor issued 7 critical illness notices in one day, fortunately, under the full rescue of medical staff, Yin Jichang saved his life, and after 45 days of coma, he successfully woke up.
After waking up, Yin Jichang saw that his appearance was painful and unwilling to drag his wife Jiang Zhilian, and he immediately wanted to drive her away.
Yin Jichang's "desperate feelings" made Jiang Zhilian's heart ache, but she did not leave, but firmly said: "As long as you have a breath, I will also be with you!" ”。
Jiang Zhilian's words touched the people around her, the reason is very simple, although she and Yin Jichang are husband and wife, but married for half a year, counting the time of contact with the object of conversation, it is only 42 days, to say how deep the feelings between them, this is impossible, the reason why she stayed to take care of Yin Jichang, it is entirely because of the responsibility of being a wife.
Jiang Zhilian and her husband Yin Jichang, are both from Lianyungang, Jiangsu, but did not know each other before, in 1983, 24-year-old Jiang Zhilian reached the age of marriage, through the introduction of the matchmaker, met Yin Jichang, who was one year older than himself.
When he saw Yin Jichang's photo, Jiang Zhilian was not too satisfied, although as a soldier he looked very energetic, but his eyes were too small.
However, at that time, the appearance was not very important, and soon the two met, Jiang Zhilian was very satisfied with Yin Jichang, because Yin Jichang was a soldier, the time was urgent, in only one month after acquaintance, the two "flash marriage", after getting along for less than a week, Yin Jichang returned to the army.
Fortunately, shortly after Yin Jichang left, Jiang Zhilian found herself pregnant, although her husband was not around, but Jiang Zhilian, who had a child, felt very happy, and just when she was immersed in a beautiful vision of her future life, a telegram from the army broke her peaceful life.
When he saw the 8 words "Husband has an accident, come to the army quickly", Jiang Zhilian, who is already pregnant for 6 months, fainted when his feet were soft.
Soon, Jiang Zhilian rushed to the troops, saw Yin Jichang, who was wrapped in bandages in the intensive care unit, and did not know whether he was alive or dead, Jiang Zhilian collapsed, and she shouted Yin Jichang's name loudly: "Please, wake up quickly, don't leave me and the child behind!" ”。
Unfortunately, Yin Jichang, who was in a coma, could not hear anything.
Finally, under the rescue of the doctor, Yin Jichang passed the dangerous period, and Jiang Zhilian also calmed down, and she began to think about her future life.
Yin Jichang has several brothers, a large family lives together, in that era, there are many brothers and sisters, which means poverty, and the Yin family is naturally no exception.
When they got married, they really had nothing, the pot was borrowed from the neighbor, the bowl was borrowed from the second brother, and the rice was borrowed from the eldest brother.
Such a poor family, the reason why Jiang Zhilian is willing to marry in, is completely to look at Yin Jichang this person, feel that he married Yin Jichang, as long as he is willing to endure hardships, there will always be a day to turn over, and now that Yin Jichang has an accident, should he consider the way back?
Just when Jiang Zhilian was thinking wildly, Yin Jichang, who was in a coma, often spoke nonsense, and his mouth kept shouting: "Zhilian, Zhilian...".
Yin Jichang's shouting woke up Jiang Zhilian, he was calling his name without consciousness, which showed his position in his heart, and now that he had a car accident, it was a lowest valley in his life, how could he leave?
At this time, Jiang Zhilian made up his mind that as long as he still had a breath, he would guard him for the rest of his life.
Finally, Yin Jichang defeated the God of Death and woke up, but unfortunately, due to the injury too badly, in addition to his two arms, all of his body below the first thoracic vertebrae was paralyzed, and at the age of 26, he became a first-degree disability, and spent almost the rest of his life in bed and wheelchair.
This result, how big the blow to Yin Jichang and Jiang Zhilian, can be imagined, but Jiang Zhilian, who can get the result, has calmed down, and she is pregnant with Liujia, and she has only one wish - her husband is paralyzed, and her family cannot be paralyzed.
After taking care of Yin Jichang for a while, when it was time for the autumn harvest, she was afraid that her mother-in-law would not be able to come alone, so she returned home with a big belly.
Not long after returning home, Jiang Zhilian gave birth to a big fat son, and the arrival of the son gave Jiang Zhilian great comfort, and also strengthened her determination to stay and take care of Yin Jichang.
In the countryside, in order to reduce the burden on her mother-in-law, only 3 days after giving birth, she dragged her weak body to carry water, because she was weak after childbirth, and almost fell into the well.
After finishing the work in the field, Jiang Zhilian ran to the army to take care of Yin Jichang, a woman, who is also watching children and taking care of patients, and its hardships can be imagined.
Once, Yin Jichang suddenly had complications, breathing difficulties, Jiang Zhilian could not care about his son, hurried to find a doctor, and when he came back, his son had fallen off the bed, and his nose was blue and his face was swollen...
In order to be able to take care of her husband with peace of mind, Jiang Zhilian can only endure the pain of leaving the child to her mother...
Jiang Zhilian's efforts made Yin Jichang and his family members grateful, but Jiang Zhilian at that time, only in his 20s, had a long way to go in life, how could he have been dragged down by a disabled person?
Yin Jichang persuaded Jiang Zhilian to leave herself more than once, and her mother-in-law also bitterly advised: "Ji Chang has become a paralyzed child, your future days are still long, while you are still young, the child is small and does not understand things, you leave the doll away, I don't blame you!" ”。
At that time, when Jiang Zhilian married into the Yin family, because the Yin family was poor, many relatives around her were unwilling, at this time, they also advised her to quickly remarry: "You left a descendant for the Yin family, and you can also be considered worthy of their family, and it is too late to find someone to remarry..."
For this almost one-sided suggestion, Jiang Zhilian did not adopt it, and still took care of her husband and son with dedication.
Yin Jichang was not dead hearted, or continued to persuade Jiang Zhilian to leave, Jiang Zhilian said bluntly: "You are hurting my heart, as long as I am here, I will take good care of you and the child!" ” 。
Soon, seven or eight years passed, their children were also 8 years old, Yin Jichang was placed by the troops to a People's Liberation Army hospital in Baoji to recuperate, afraid that Jiang Zhilian was too tired alone, and specially arranged for soldiers to take turns to accompany him.
Jiang Zhilian was grateful for the practice of the troops, but she refused, because she felt that the soldiers came to the troops to receive exercises and learn knowledge and culture, rather than helping themselves to take care of patients.
Not only that, she also repeatedly proposed to take Yin Jichang home, at the insistence of Jiang Zhilian, they returned to their hometown, and from then on, she shouldered the responsibility of taking care of her husband.
The first thing to get up every day is to defecate the husband, because of the long-term inactivity, can only use the kaiser dew, and then use the hand to pull, and need to be careful at all times, because too much force, will puncture the skin, and may even infect.
Every time I defecated, there was a foul smell in the house, but Jiang Zhilian seemed to have lost her sense of smell and concentrated on it.
This work, it takes two or three hours, and when it is done, Jiang Zhilian is always tired and can't stand up straight, such a thing, a 42 years, just open the plug, it used more than 6,000 bottles.
After defecation, the next step is to massage, turn over, turn over every 2 hours, massage once, massage for an hour at a time, and now her hands have been deformed.
In addition to physical care, Jiang Zhilian also pays great attention to her husband's psychological changes, changes the law to keep him in a happy mood, takes him for a walk, buys vegetables, and before going out, always helps him shave and change his military uniform, so that her husband is clean and decent.
For his wife's efforts, Yin Ji often saw it in his eyes and hurt in his heart, he said: "Without her, there would be no life for most of my life!" ”。
What Jiang Zhilian did not only made the people around him sigh, but even the doctors were also amazed, because for decades, Yin Jichang's lower limbs, except for a slight atrophy, did not have a single pressure sore in the whole body, nor did he have a complication.
However, because of the care of Yin Jichang, Jiang Zhilian worked hard for many years, but her body collapsed, and her high blood pressure, cerebral thrombosis, lumbar disc herniation, uterine fibroids, etc., tormented her in pain.
Even so, whenever the doctor advised her to be hospitalized, she always refused: "Who will take care of him when I am hospitalized?" I don't trust others! ”。
In 2017, Yin Jichang, who had been paralyzed for 42 years, walked the road of life and never had to suffer again, and Jiang Zhilian, who had completed his historical mission, seemed to be able to live more easily.
But it is said that the young couple has always been a companion, and suddenly lost the wife who has been with them for 42 years, for Jiang Zhilian, whether it is a good thing or a bad thing, I still don't know...