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In life, some women like to be lively, as if being lively means that they have a strong sense of presence in the crowd.
In fact, women who really live well like to be "alone".
"Alone" does not mean that women are lonely, but only that women like to spend time with themselves.
Because everyone's wisdom grows in silence, the ancients often said that silence can produce wisdom.
In the bustle of the crowd, women get not wisdom, but noisy superficiality, and the views of the crowd.
When a woman begins to get used to being alone and not social, she is no longer ordinary.
1. Waste of time
Too many people don't succeed because they spend too much time on others.
Always pondering other people's minds, always saying bad things about others, always looking at other people's days.
But I never thought about how my time should be allocated, whether it is God or someone else's affairs, it does not matter, what is important is your own business.
A woman who likes to be alone will not always do unnecessary socializing, because she feels that this is a special waste of time, which is both a consumption of others and herself.
Women have to learn to find in themselves a sense of presence and belief, everything you want, what you have given within, already exists.
A woman who likes to pursue excessively hilarity is restless, absent, and in a barren state.
That's why she needs to be lively so much, so she needs the company of others, so she likes to consume her own strength and creativity in people's interactions.
2. Take care of yourself and start alone
In life, women play too many roles, and none of them are real selves.
Only when a woman is alone is she truly herself.
A woman is the object of work, a wife, a daughter-in-law, a mother, and she always has to intersperse and switch freely in various roles.
When getting along with others, she is often reclusive, she will not directly poke at other people's views, even if the other party and her own opinions are not consistent, she will try to cooperate, just for the harmony of life, the harmony of work.
When a woman is alone, she truly returns to the woman herself, she is herself, she does not need to look at other people's faces, does not need to be wronged, does what she wants to do, does not want to do, does not have to do.
When women are unhappy, they should like to be alone.
Do something that makes you happy, maybe singing, maybe reading a book, maybe watching a movie.
You don't need to grievance yourself with any ideas, even if it's going shopping and eating, as long as you can make yourself really happy, then do it.
Women can take care of their emotions and can put it on
If you have good psychological comfort and can take good care of your body, you are already great.
Being able to love yourself well, being able to take care of all aspects of yourself very well, you don't need to care about the words and eyes of others, you have begun to become powerful.
A woman who likes to be alone, a woman who does not like to socialize, must love herself well, she is not unsociable, she is not used to enjoying loneliness.
But she doesn't want to look at other people's faces, and she doesn't want to go against her own heart, say things that she doesn't agree with, stay comfortable alone, say that she chooses to be alone, not humble, not to be distracted.
3. The best solitude is to read well and improve yourself
A woman's greatest achievement is actually to achieve herself well.
Do not put your own life expectations on others, do not put your own life expectations on your children, your life expectations, should rely on yourself to complete.
A woman who is willing to study well is particularly good; a woman who is willing to study well, no matter how she is now, her future is worth looking forward to, because she is still creating her own future, rather than being chosen by fate.
A woman who likes to be alone, she is definitely focused on her own inner, but also focused on improving herself.
When a woman is alone, she begins to read books, and she has become powerful.
In this impetuous time, in this impetuous era, too many people choose relaxed entertainment, such as chasing dramas, such as brushing videos, and women who are willing to sink their hearts to read a book are extremely rare and extremely valuable.
The older the woman, the more she can not relax the requirements for herself, whether it is for her own appearance, her own figure, or the improvement of her own ability, it should be a woman's life's homework, a woman's most important thing is to develop the habit of lifelong learning.
A woman who is willing to study for life, her future is really infinite possibilities, with the improvement of her cognition, the opening of her horizons, she can do more and more.
A woman who likes to be alone is very powerful in every way.
A woman who cherishes her time and does not waste her time on useless social interactions;
A woman who likes to be alone will improve her awareness of her time alone;
The best way for a woman to be alone is to read well and try to improve herself, because learning is a lifelong thing.
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