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People's way of doing things will change with age, and their views and concepts will be different.
When he was 20 years old, he was flesh and blood, arrogant, arrogant, and unaccustomed to everyone, acting recklessly, only caring about his own nature, running in the world, and not knowing how to converge at all.
At that time, I didn't know what it was like to be calm and low-key, what words would be said at the first time, what achievements were achieved, I couldn't help but tell the world, and I would also have contempt for those who were unknown. Feel that they are living too much.
However, after eating some high-profile losses, being mistaken for a display, and withstanding the fingering and pointing of some people, I finally understood the importance of low-key.
Maturity is always accompanied by a change in how people behave in the world, from the previous stumbling to the later becoming convergent, the whole person has converged some sharp edges, from the previous chatter, to later become taciturn, treating many things no longer with teeth and claws, but can be treated calmly.
The more empty people are, the more they need to prove their sense of existence through manifestation, and the more those who habitually show off, in fact, have achieved little. Those who are really powerful, they are moving forward silently, very low-key, never easily reveal themselves.
Sometimes you can be as high-profile as possible, but in some things, you still have to keep a low profile as much as possible, which is really smart.
Never show off your wealth, know how to make a fortune in a muffled voice
The more low-key people look, the more they tend to master more wealth, but those who have achieved a little success will open their teeth and claws and preach everywhere, in fact, their so-called wealth is not worth mentioning at all.
Showing off wealth is essentially a kind of inner barrenness, always wanting to overwhelm the other party to some extent and gain a sense of glory. But in fact, there are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people in this world who are richer than you, and there is no need to seek a sense of existence in front of people who are inferior to you.
The more those who are truly rich, in fact, they do not need to prove themselves by showing off, they have gained enough that they do not want to satisfy their vanity in the eyes of others.
Do not underestimate those who are unknown, how much money they make, what business they have done recently, will never be publicized everywhere, but understand that only the money in their hands is the most down-to-earth, rather than satisfying the temporary glory, more able to distinguish between the light and the heavy.
Sometimes when you publicize the way to make money everywhere, you may attract plagiarism from people with hearts, there are always some people who like to take advantage of others, and such situations abound in the workplace, plagiarizing your ideas, and then preemptively attacking, and finally only putting you at a disadvantage.
Besides, how many people in this world really want you to be well? When you show off your wealth in front of them, you may only attract jealousy, provoke trouble, and attract some people's pointing and criticism.
Really smart people, they never easily show off their wealth, how much ability to make money, only to earn is really their own.
Be low-key in interpersonal communication and avoid hostility from others
There are some people who always like to talk loudly, like the feeling of being surrounded, stand in the crowd and enjoy the eyes of others, and thus become complacent.
In the past, I always envied such people, and I always felt that such people were probably people who were rich in five cars, knowledgeable, and dared to show themselves to the fullest.
However, it was later found that the more people who have no ink in their chests, they like to show everywhere, and many times what they say is some nutritious words, and they get the favor of some people through sensationalism.
They also like to talk about others behind their backs, no matter what happens to the people around them, they often know it at the first time, and then form a small group to point fingers at others behind their backs. It seems that there are many people around, as if the popularity is very good. But in fact, when he talks about others, he also lives in the discussion of others.
You may gain the favor of some people, but at the same time it is easy to make enemies, because you will never know whether what you say will reach the ears of others, and the relationships that you think are intimate are actually not strong at all.
Interacting with people, must not be too high-profile, no one will like to have in-depth contact with such people, always feel that such people are not credible, will not communicate. Truly intelligent people, they are often very low-key, with people will not show too much self, but will use a warm and jade way to protect people, such people are more trustworthy.
Act low-key and calm, down-to-earth and practical
Presumably, there must be such people around you, when they do a thing, they will always be the first time to open up on the social platform, what kind of decisions they make, what kind of things they are doing, and unabashedly share them with the people around them.
But in fact, many times it is thunder and rain, decided to lose weight, just insisted on a week to stop the flag, made up their minds to do the reading plan, just sent for two days, quietly. Such people often have little patience, and in most cases they fish for three days and dry nets for two days.
People who are impatient are often not easy to get trusted, and dare not entrust heavy responsibilities, because you don't know whether he can complete it for you, and you dare not entrust important things to his hands.
The more powerful people are, the more low-key they act. When you learn about him, you have already ushered in a highlight moment, becoming a height that is difficult for others to reach.
They have always done more than they say, have always been diligent and earnest to do their own things, never compare with others, and will not easily show off, they will continue to hone their abilities, and will not waste time on some boring social networking. They will not only meet your requirements, but even exceed your needs, making you can't help but look up.
Act low-key, but in the end live up to expectations, such a talent is really reliable.
Low-key is a top wisdom, but also the basic emotional intelligence of people in the world.
High-profile people, in fact, the more nihilistic they are in their hearts, they need to find ways to get the attention of others and refresh their sense of existence.
Smart people, they never despise showing off, but will choose to do their own things silently, will not make a fuss, will not provoke trouble.
Know that no one really wants you to be good, even if you make a lot of money and live well, you will not get sincere blessings, but it will only attract people to hate.
You don't have to show off everyone, just be yourself.