Text: Guardian of emotions
Use the simplest words to write about the warmth and cold of the world and heal the lonely heart.
When the two sexes get along, they can't just be stupid and pay and blindly cater to each other.
Love is only a part of life, never sacrifice too much for a person, not a single hole card, not to live humbly.
In addition to loving each other deeply, it is also necessary to understand that people should have their own lives, do not always revolve around each other, and do not do things that are only related to each other.
Knowing the importance of getting along in your heart, you must not be too active, you can't let the other party affirm that you must be him, you can't suddenly let go and leave him.
Because once the man sees that you have been eaten by him, it is difficult to enjoy the advanced treatment anymore, or even ignored, and there is no sense of existence at all.
In the emotional world, too enthusiastic, constantly pleasing and pandering, life will develop in a very poor direction, and you can slowly feel that this is not what you want.
As the saying goes, "It's easy to fall in love, it's hard to get along." ”
The heart beats wildly, the contact is frequent, the distance is gradually getting closer, the favorability is gradually increasing, and it is very likely to develop into a boyfriend and girlfriend, with an unusual identity.
But good love is not a sure relationship, don't think that with a relationship, everything will be fine.
After two people come together, they need to run into each other and find the most correct way to get along. Because only when you are happy with each other and have a sense of comfort, this relationship will be deeply rooted.
When interacting with the opposite sex, if you want a man to continue to love you and be willing to spend money for you, you have to use some routines.
Show weakness and see that you need to take care of it
A person who does everything and never looks for help from a man will make the man have no sense of existence, and he will not be so concerned about you, and will not invest too much as he did at the beginning.
You are independent and do not ask for help, and men will gradually lose interest in you.
With you, more often than not, I feel that I am not needed, I don't want to stay by your side, and I will look for the person who needs me.
The more you love a man, the more you can't feel that you shouldn't ask a man for help.
That is to say, don't be so out of sight with men, don't stand up, don't want to try to do everything alone, don't put "I can" on your lips, and ask men for help appropriately.
Regardless of their own ability, in the process of communication, appropriately show weakness to men.
In this way, you can feel the warmth of the man, but also let the man prove his ability, and the feelings between the two people will be deeply rooted.
Show love and see that you have a true heart
Love needs to respond.
When you get love, you have to think that he also needs love, also wants to be loved by you, and hopes to be an exception, just turn around and see you.
No matter who it is, they all want to taste love and want to be a lucky person.
As a woman, you can slow down the heat, but you can't not be hot.
I know in my heart that only by getting love can I be at ease, and it is not practical to have no love. Since you understand, you must also let the other party get your love when you are loved.
His sincerity can get your sincerity, he feels that you are a treasure, he wants to pay for you more, and he really wants to give you everything.
Show your abilities and see that you are different
If you want the other person to remember you, you have to have characteristics, that is, there is something special.
For example: you can be independent at work, you are financially independent, your eyes will smile, you are so understanding, you are willing to listen to his ideas.
If there is a difference in the body, it can make a deep impression.
In front of a man, you have to show your ability, but also let him feel your tolerance for him, and it is very comfortable to be with you, and it can really touch his heart.
Two people get along, can find a way to keep the man's heart, but also can make the man pay a lot, but also feel that it is worth doing more for you.
The excellent side should know how to show it, so that the other party can see it more clearly.
Being able to do this will also make men have to give you more things, just want to guard you, and spend the rest of their lives with you.
summary:
It takes a method to keep a man's heart.
Regardless of the feelings of two people, we must think that there is a problem with the way they get along, and the feelings will continue to fade, and they may become friends or strangers.
How to get along is really critical, because determining a relationship does not mean emotional stability.
In front of men, know how to show weakness, show love, show more of their ability, more able to attract each other, more able to make each other pay more, just want to accompany you, and you to old age.
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Author: A senior mentor who accompanies books, writes for fun, freelance writer, and helps countless people get out of emotional difficulties.