Many girls like boys who are older and more mature than themselves.
They feel that such boys are more secure, and they can also learn the truth of how to behave from them. But what kind of personality can attract these mature boys? Then today Xiao Ai will share a few points with you:
First of all, we have to have our own ideas, mature boys are willing to give you advice, but it does not mean that he likes you to blindly listen to him, they like girls with their own ideas, do not mind taking the time to discuss your ideas with you, and will not mind whether you adopt his opinion in the end, because he knows that you are a deliberate decision.
Second, girls who know how to arrange time, know how to arrange their own time, and will not be angry because they have too little time to meet, are the most likely to be welcomed by mature boys. You don't have to worry about becoming a boy in this way, creating opportunities for cheating, because he understands the importance of private space, less meeting does not mean feeling weak, on the contrary, you can use your free time to do what you like, or to learn new things, they will be proud of you.
Third, the intimate partner. Well, a good relationship is not only a deep affection, but also a best friend, but also a soul mate who looks good. When he is depressed, he can listen carefully, will not criticize, quietly accompany him, and when he needs advice, you have the courage to express your most sincere opinion, that is, a competent intimate partner. Fourth, behave generously and decently.
You don't have to wear expensive clothes or designer bags, but you are full of confidence, talk decently, and have your own career interests. Mature men don't want you to put your whole life on them because they know that everyone is an independent individual and can live their own life. So you should develop your own business and run your own interests. I think she'll be happy because of your success.
In fact, in a relationship, grasp is very important. Two people together can be relied on, but there must also be distance, too close is not a good thing. Know how to grasp the distance, give each other space, have their own preferences and pursuits. Feelings such as this kind of thing, love also needs their own time, even if it is in love is an independent individual. If you lose yourself because you love someone, well, that's not good.
Good love should be independent of each other, and then not too much to please others, but to have their own lives. For a man, his heart still hopes that his other half also has his own, rather than blind clothes. Only women who remain independent will have their own charms. Men with good conditions are more scummy, learn these two tricks, and even high-quality men regard you as a treasure