The way adults express love is to spend time and money. Where time and money are, love is there.
People only pay for what they find valuable and meaningful.
Spending time with you, or spending money to coax you, the essence is the same, the mind is on you, will be willing.
How much money you have is not the most important thing, what matters is how much he is willing to spend on you. In the same way, whether you are busy or not is not the key, the key is whether you are seriously accompanied.
Where the heart is, time and money are spent.
Not wanting anyone to know about your relationship, the subtext is: I'm not going to be with you for long.
Concealing the relationship, no matter how many reasons, no matter how reasonable it sounds, are actually excuses.
Unwilling to post in the circle of friends, unwilling to let friends around you know, and unwilling to let you contact his parents and relatives.
A person who doesn't want to disclose you, either he doesn't want to at this moment, or he hasn't thought about it at all.
To sum up, he doesn't like it so much and isn't sure how long he can spend with you.
People's ready-made love for those who have come to them is always a little bit of pride of "I put it here first, and it won't run anyway".
Easy to get, will not cherish.
Although this statement is biased, it is not unreasonable. Especially in the current relationship between men and women, most of them are really like this.
You take the initiative a lot, show a lot of love, pay a lot, and the other party feels that you have completely grasped you.
Therefore, I am often indifferent to you, and only when I notice that you have lost patience and intend to leave, will I be slightly nervous and stay a little.
Men don't engage
"Want to get away with it" that set.
Originally a good conversation, suddenly one day began to ignore you, why?
To put it bluntly, there is a new goal.
Men are the least patient to play "want to get away with it", really like it, will desperately go closer; a little good feeling, will also show positive, slowly tempted.
Suddenly he stopped talking, indicating that he couldn't look at it and shifted his target.
The passion is not here for you, because there is a new person, released in her, it is as simple as that.
Most people will not look at him in all aspects, but if there is no better choice for the time being, they will not refuse to associate with this person.
Feelings cannot be reconciled, that is said to people who are too specific and too serious.
There is a real distance between you, and the clear-eyed people are not suitable at first glance, and there will be many difficulties in the future. But the other party does not care and chooses to be with you.
I hope you don't get too moved, most of the time, it is not found better, will be with you.
Be alert, you can't go wrong.
What can verify the authenticity of the relationship is always the first reaction and trade-off choice when there is a conflict of interest.
The gold standard for testing love is "reality."
Good for you, attentive, considerate and sweet. Doing this will not cost him much, will not take up much energy, and will not harm his core interests.
At this time, he loves you.
But once it affects his "property" and "future", the first choice is to ignore you and fulfill himself.
Love you when reality and love you don't conflict; when reality conflicts with loving you, there must be reality.
In the face of reality, it is true love that still takes care of you first.
In the relationship, set your own principles and bottom line, anyone who violates your principle bottom line, immediately give up.
Pay more attention to your own feelings, and if you can't stand it, don't force it.
The person who can refresh your lower limit again and again shows that the other party does not really care about you.
Don't know the stop loss, constantly self-moving, automatic tolerance, you will have a hard time!
Don't live with accusatory personalities, it will exhaust you.
Even if the other party really likes you, if you can't change his accusatory personality, you can't be together for a long time.
People who accuse personality are keen to criticize the mistakes of others, infinitely magnify the shortcomings of others, and ignore the efforts of others.
And the desire to control is very strong, always think that they are right, do not realize any problems of their own.
With such a person, the reason does not make sense, either repression, or quarrel.
Men may lie to you, but the money firmly in their own hands won't. So be sure to make money and save money.
Eternal truth, money is not omnipotent, but no is omnipotent.
In the relationship between men and women, it is the same.
Living together, we will not only talk about the wind and the moon, but do not count the chai rice oil and salt. No matter how much nice words you say, you will have to bend your waist for five buckets of rice in the end.
Whether you get married or not, if you have money in your hand, you are confident.