Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Falling in love does not mean that the relationship is eternal! Separation does not equal termination of the relationship!
In the relationship between men and women, the phenomenon of separation and union is common, and the phenomenon of compounding for love is not common! In the real society of equal exchange, once the connection between men and women is broken, even if they are reunited again, love will be "deteriorated" to a large extent.
It's just that most women choose to continue the relationship when men turn back because they can't afford to put it down. Even if there are too many doubts about the sincerity of men in the heart, it is still because of some obsession in their hearts that they choose to believe that men are looking back for love.
Although the disconnection is the last "killer tool" to test true love, people who really love each other and know how to manage relationships will certainly not occur.
Those who heat up their feelings after the disconnection is because they understand what is cherished and what is business after the disconnection.
However, looking at the real relationship between men and women, not every time men turn back is because of love!
After disconnection, men can take the initiative to find you, there are three reasons, the second is because of true love:
First: for profit
Men in the relationship, love and with whom to combine, has always been the reality of the two different things. He can fall in love with someone he truly loves, but he will definitely be united with a partner who helps him in life.
No man wants to let his life go downhill because of love.
Some men say", "I hope your presence will bring me good luck" is the best expression of realistic choices.
In the reality of materialism, a small number of women hope to make themselves soar from a marriage relationship, and most men hope that their marriage is a wonderful rest of their lives with less trouble, no burden, and going with the wind. Instead of landslides, consumption, trouble...
After disconnection, if a man turns back for the sake of profit, he will have two extreme outcome options for women:
For the sake of profit, never again withdraw from the world of women;
For the sake of profit, a later day, a betrayal will be committed.
In short, in the face of men who return for the sake of profit, if women are not careful, they will become poor worms who are once again "abandoned".
For men who value profit, women will be relatively more tired! Once you lose the value of "existence" in your relationship, it is when the relationship ends.
Therefore, when women do not have enough "strength" to bet on the marital relationship, they are cautious about accepting the return of men for their own interests.
Second: because I can't help but miss and remember
In the relationship between men and women, not everyone who breaks the connection is because they don't love! Many times the disconnection is precisely because I love too deeply and want to find my own sense of existence, and in the form of disconnection, I convey a message of "I need to be loved more deeply".
In the eyes of most people, men are careless in the face of feelings! In fact, if women are really careless, men's carelessness is simply the tip of the iceberg.
For a woman who is too careless in the face of feelings, if she does not feel a loss, she seems to never know how indispensable a man has in her heart.
So that, when men can't bear the torment of missing and can't help but contact women, it just happens that when women are cut off and hug each other again, it is inevitable that the feelings will warm up.
The reunion after the disconnection and the continuation of the relationship will make the two people more aware of how to correctly express their demands and how to properly care for each other's emotions from now on.
Love is not self-righteous giving. Love is not wishful thinking. Love is not to get along with each other in the way you think is right. Love is made in the details, and it is managed by using the other party's thinking to perceive itself.
When the connection is broken, men and women can "can't help but" care and contact, after embracing each other again, they obviously feel each other's thoughts, that must be true love!
If the man you love can turn back in the shortest time that breaks the connection, and you find the right form of real getting along through such a disconnection, then be together!
Remember: stop using disconnection to "test" the depth of feelings, after all, this method is very hurtful!
Third: you or someone else is a man's spare tire
Some men, the scum of the clear, even if it is a spare tire countless, will not deliberately hide!
Some men, pretending to be obsessed, but always "small actions" continue. For such a man, a woman can never grasp his heart accurately. Most of the psychology of gain and loss originates from men's various friends of the opposite sex, but men use women to be suspicious and ignorant.
Then, men will often break off sexually. Either it appears when the woman is "needed", or it can only be contacted by herself.
When the men around you often break off contact with you, and often come back to take the initiative to find you, it can only mean:
You are the spare tire;
In this relationship between men and women that you think, there are others who are spare tires;
After he goes around, he finds that you are still "good" - either you are "obedient" or you have a high value in his figure!
For a man with a constant spare tire, his heart only loves himself. In the face of feelings, he will only be responsible for certain desires or values in his heart for a while, and once there is a better "opportunity", he will break off again.
There's nothing wrong with loving someone, what's wrong is that you're dead set on a man who is always disconnected from you.
How can a man who truly loves you be willing to break off contact with you? The man who truly loves you will not use you as a spare tire, and the more he will not have another spare tire.
Maybe, the man who really loves you only loves you for a while, but only this time, he must be single-minded and focused! Otherwise, no matter how good he is, what does he have to do with you if he doesn't love you?
After disconnection, whether men can still take the initiative to find it, mostly depends on the value of your body, really love you and you are probably spare tire three reasons.
As a woman, you must have the ability to distinguish between true love and false love, otherwise, a feeling that repeatedly hurts you is enough to make it difficult for you to believe in love for the rest of your life.
The rest of my life is short, to be with a man who truly loves himself. Don't numb yourself during the disconnection period, because you miss and can't put it down, you numb your nerves, as long as the man turns back and forgets to discern whether the real psychology of his return is related to love.
May all your efforts be treated with tenderness in the years to come! May you not have to deliberately cater to anyone, please whom, just casually look up, meet all the tenderness!
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