In fact, the people who choose to stay by your side may not love you.
In this world, not only sentient, people who seem to be particularly good to you may not love you, always use you as a tool, and will not delay their planning because of your feelings.
Taking the initiative to approach you and pretending to be nice to you is seeing value in you.
You are naïve, soft-hearted, good at thinking about others, does not mean that others are like you, see no one hurt, and prefer to let yourself be lost.
No matter who you're with, don't think you know him completely, you can see what's going on in his heart.
Talk about a relationship, no matter how much you love each other, you have to leave a way out for yourself, you can't think that you don't leave each other, do your best to do things for each other, you can last forever.
Feelings are not a matter of one person, if the other party's heart does not have you, no matter how hard you try, you can't keep it, and the distance between the two people is gradually widening.
Moreover, people who don't love you and approach you with a purpose are not happy.
The person you meet may be the wrong person, a passer-by, will never fall in love with you, may push you away at any time, and instantly become irrelevant.
It's not about giving and getting paid, and not everyone loves like you.
A person who does not have you in his eyes may be by your side, but your relationship cannot be stable. Women don't love you, and they are reluctant to leave you, eighty percent of these three reasons, don't be stupid anymore.
First: I can get money here
Willing to spend money on women, never hesitated in terms of money, and indeed can have more intersection with women.
Even if she doesn't love you, she doesn't want to marry you, and she's willing to spend some time and energy on you and say something that makes you feel good.
Because you can give money, you never worry about not having money with you, and whenever you need money, you can reach out and receive it.
How long someone like her can stay with you depends on how long you are willing to give her money.
You've always been a cash machine, she won't leave, you suddenly press the pause button and you don't satisfy her financially, then she will find a reason to break up.
To her, you have no value anymore and she will look for the next goal instead of wasting time on you.
Second: I haven't found a replacement for you yet
Not to leave you, not because of reluctance, do not think that anyone will love you to the deepest depths and want to accompany you for a lifetime.
Too willful, giving you the feeling of being very unreasonable, without an inclusive heart, shows that she does not know how to hurt you, she has not adopted your thinking.
Not curbing your temper is the typical trait of not loving you, and don't expect her to change so much.
Through some of the other person's behavior, it can be seen that she does not love you, she is not willing to have a future with you, she is only with you temporarily, and will leave at any time.
A woman's insensitivity, sometimes like a resentful woman, you should stay away from it, instead of continuing to love her.
It's almost impossible to conquer someone who doesn't love you, and you don't feel like you have the ability to hold on to her heart.
Leaving you is sooner or later, staying by your side for the time being because you haven't found the right one yet, don't be stupid, don't think she's always there.
Third: A habit has been formed
Some people are like this: they don't believe in love, they just want to find someone to live by, and they don't expect to meet the right person and talk about a vigorous love.
I feel that no one is suitable, and the choice is the same as who is with, so there is no standard for choosing a mate, and if you are a little better for yourself, you will choose.
There is no affection for anyone, very little pay when they get along, and most of the time they are enjoying the love given by the other party.
In the intersex relationship, no matter how much you pay, it is difficult to get a response, don't think that the other party is slow and hot, and one day they will fall in love with you and become very enthusiastic.
In the face of such people who do not love you and cannot fall in love with you, you cannot have hope.
She chooses you, and does not leave you, not because of love, you do not want to be over it as soon as possible to stay away, end the relationship, do not think of ways to make her fall in love with you.
Emotional Message:
Not leaving does not mean deep love.
You know, some people have no feelings for you, they have always been selfish, and what she thinks in her heart is to make herself better, and as for you, she doesn't care at all.
To tell the truth, being with such a person will only suffer yourself, and it is impossible to live well.
Two people get along, she is more often only concerned about her own feelings, she constantly asks you for it, makes it clear that she does not love, and it is impossible to be happy with her.
People who are not suitable should let go as soon as possible, instead of thinking about change.
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Author: A senior mentor who accompanies books, writes for fun, freelance writer, and helps countless people get out of emotional difficulties.
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