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Money: If you want to live a satisfying life, money alone is not enough
With enough money, it's easy to say "money is not everything".
Unfortunately, the richer we are, the more greedy we are.
The philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer once pointedly pointed out: "Wealth is like seawater, the more you drink, the more thirsty you get." ”
Most of us will realize at some point in our lives that the true wealth in life is life itself.
"Life does not bring, death does not bring" may be a cliché, but it is also an unbreakable truth.
Does anyone really want to be the richest person in the grave?
Heard a quote:
"Do work that money likes, live a life that money likes."
This sentence sounds a bit winding, but it is actually very simple:
"Money is for people, and if you spend money but don't produce happiness, money will be unhappy."
Many people are busy making money, but they dare not give themselves some time to enjoy life.
Making money is obviously to live a better life, but I don't know why I have been anxious about money.
Man's misfortune is, to a large extent, due to blindness and ignorance.
Unconsciously become a slave under the concept of consumption.
However, he lacked a basic understanding of the spirit of money, and finally, he was impoverished and "forced to work" in a nine-to-five style, firmly bound, and spent his whole life.
Deal with money all day long, but rarely think about the relationship with money:
Are we trapped by money?
Or happy to use money to create a good life?
Our belief in money and its symbolism is largely shaped by our parents.
Money became an emotional currency within the family.
The way parents deal with money influences how we think about money.
Who has pocket money and who doesn't?
Is it fair when it comes to splitting the money?
These money-related interactions provoke strong emotional responses such as envy, fear, hope, hatred, euphoria, and especially disgust.
The reason why money has so much symbolic significance is also related to these emotional reactions.
Money, in addition to symbolizing power and control, can also symbolize winning the game of life.
It is a sign of personal success, meaning to live better than others.
If there is a lack of self-worth, we can use money to say to others, "Don't underestimate me."
Money is evidence of our triumph over adversity and allows us to be recognized by others – something we aspire to and can help reinforce our shaky self-esteem.
Money is the product of commodity exchange and a symbol of resources, providing a guarantee for the survival and development of modern people. Initially, we survived through the resources (money) given by our parents, but the availability and taste of these resources (money) was different.
For example, your parents spend money for you generously and happily, and the taste of money you experience is sweet and accessible;
On the contrary, if your parents are very hard and hard to earn money, the money you feel is bitter and hard to get.
In the process of being raised, we form certain memories of the availability and taste of money, and internalized resource patterns affect our relationship with money.
For example, in the eyes of some people, it is very painful to make money, and it is painful to spend money, while some people will think that making money is fun and enjoy spending money.
In counseling, I often have to discuss with clients their relationship to money:
How they spend money, what their current financial situation is, whether they and their partner have differences over the distribution of money, etc. The problem of money is not just a problem of money, it often reflects a person's problem.
The relationship between people and money becomes an entry point for counseling, and then unfolds more details of life and leads to more deep questions. Solving these problems will make a big difference in the life of the visitor.
Our relationship with money affects every aspect of our lives.
By repairing our relationship with money, we can often make a big change in our whole lives.
A life without money is painful, and a life without money is painful
If people have no money, if they are poor and happy, they can see that there is no suffering, and they only give up a lot of things for money, then it will hurt.
Material wealth on the people's hearts can never be satisfied, want to get more, become the emperor wants to become a fairy, a lifetime of tireless pursuit of money, lost physical and mental health, the joy of life, the meaning of life, the value of life, life can pursue money, but can not only pursue money, become a money slave.
"The Six Notes of Floating Life", there is a passage that goes straight to the heart:
The world is vast, the years are limited, so why rush?
Life is hard, it is short and long, but it is not a matter of glory and withering, and it is difficult to gain or lose.
Idle and quiet, and the poetry and wine are rampant, singing a song is not too late to return, and the song is a lake and the sea.
Idle to live like a person.
On the contrary, can you see more clearly where the meaning of life is?
Where is the beauty?
It is not idle people who cannot be idle, and those who can be idle must not be idle people
The value of life is not in how much money you have, how much money you make, how much money you make, how much money you spend or how much money you save.....
The value of your life comes from the abundance of your own heart.
How much love you give yourself (no self-blame / no denial / no criticism of yourself),
How much love do you give to others (without judging/denying others), how much love do you accept for yourself, how much love do you accept from others?
Money is not the end, but the embodiment of the pattern of life, a state.
Appreciation, praise, joy, love red dust, chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea.
Love the people around you, make money, be beautiful, cultivate your inner clarity, good health, emotional smoothness, and soul return.
About the Author: Hyun-hong's teacher
Psychological counselor, tarot divinator, planetary energy bowl healer, free code word person, trainer.
The Burrow listens to people cold and warm, and the love volume is the reason.
Red dust comes and goes without a trace, cooking words to heal people's hearts.
I met you, and then I met myself, and fate is like a knife, let me learn with you. - Practical psychology
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Marriage emotions, love and family, parent-child relationship, family education, adolescent psychological growth, group psychological counseling, stress reduction and relaxation, gender relations, Internet addiction and boredom, middle school entrance examination, college entrance examination psychological counseling, test anxiety, depression, obsessive behavior, anxiety, insomnia treatment, fear, private psychological counseling, career planning, corporate EAP, psychological counseling, psychological counseling room construction and other services.
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