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There is a more mysterious saying that from 2024 to 2043, it will enter the Nine Purple Fire Luck, which is especially suitable for women's development.
In the future, knowledge-based ability women, more popular and loved, will usher in their own sky.
Whether this prediction is true or false, superstition or science, but knowledge and ability are powerful bargaining chips in any era.
Behind every solid success, there is a "long-planned" chess game.
If women are still shrouded in their feet and their brains are filled with water, you can't catch up with the better time, and you can't get through the worse time.
When encouraging everyone to work hard to grow, some people jump out and object: I don't have a strong desire for material things, so I don't need to work so hard to grow.
I personally don't agree with the narrow view that growing equals making money.
Growth means sharp eyes, sharp ears, and clear hearts.
Discerning eyes, so that you can see the dirt and enjoy the beautiful scenery.
Ear spirits, so that you can listen to the words of advice, but also avoid evil words.
Heart penetration, allowing you to reconcile with emotions, desires, society, the world, and even life.
Throughout his life, people revolve around the way of heaven, the way of the earth, humanity, and the way of the world.
Leaving aside the first three, let's talk about the way of the world formed based on human culture, politics, production and survival.
I encourage women to have thick wallets and maintain a certain financial source even if they are not good.
Some people like to talk about greed and cheesiness.
But the deeper logic is that much of this is determined by the world.
In the era of money, the world decided that people should live by relying on money. In primitive times, man had to live by nature.
Why should GJ encourage marriage and childbearing? This is also determined by the way of the world formed by human culture, politics, production, and survival.
Perhaps, when human beings evolve to a certain extent, detached from the attributes of animals, do not need physical bodies, and exist only in spiritual form to absorb the energy of the universe, then the way of the world changes.
From this, it can be seen that the way of the world is again at the mercy of the way of heaven.
Of course, this statement is only a characteristic of our culture, and the description is different in each country.
If a woman wants to grow, should she be rational and quit emotions?
Recently, I have received a lot of questions about the value of emotions, so I will simply talk about this topic.
In the past, women were accustomed to emotions, and when emotions were trampled on the ground, everyone began to respect reason.
Any trait has two or many sides.
Emotional value is still a precious bargaining chip today.
Everything is in different fields, and it is difficult to tell who is the best.
The comparison between reason and sensibility is inherently immature.
Emotional value is still useful, but its shortcoming, we have to be clear, is short-lived.
To do things with emotional value, it is particular to strike while the iron is hot.
You make the client happy, and then chase after the victory, and he waves the pen and signs the contract with you.
But if you don't seize the best moment, after the party is over, the customer's happiness will weaken over time.
Then at the moment, he must not be happiest signing the contract, that will be simple.
Of course, here is a suggestion on human feelings and worldliness, and actions with interests must be based on not being discouraged.
Happy customers are a good time for you to make requests, but if you don't ask for it right, it's a disappointment.
Here to answer some women's questions, men will also agree to many requests when they are coaxed by you, and the promises at that moment are not necessarily all fake.
Others are, because of the short-lived effect of emotional value, he is not as happy as when he was at his peak, and he will naturally play with his heart when fulfilling his promises.
Understanding emotional value, and then using emotional value, is the core.
Emotional value is not the same as emotion.
You can make someone happy in a day or even an hour.
Providing emotions is a long-term, step-by-step process.
The effect of emotional value is not long, but the effect is fast. The period of action of emotions is very long, and the visible effect is slow.
Many women confuse these two things, thinking that providing emotional value is providing emotions.
Emotional values are one of the emotions, but they are not equal signs.
In the strategy of many emotional masters, they usually open the way with emotional value, first play a good situation, and then use emotions to penetrate people's hearts to establish various relationships.
The so-called emotional master, here is not a derogatory term for playing with feelings, but a positive term.
People who can be called masters, they must be understanding, love, human nature, know how to make each other feel and like more accurately and efficiently.
Therefore, they are often better able to find good people and noble people than girls who only know how to love and pay for their heads, and they suffer far less than the latter.
In this era, what is not a little skill?
The word skill, reflecting human progress and wisdom, how can it be used in feelings and is always misunderstood by some silly big sisters into impure minds?
As long as the relationship is true, how much does it matter if there are many tricks? You are comfortable, and so is the other person.
Many couples also have feelings for each other, but there is no skill, and it is only to increase the resentment.
Emotions are much heavier than emotional values, and they are more deeply rooted in people's hearts.
Perhaps some small love and small profit can be obtained by mentioning emotional value to others.
But what really makes you harvest is the emotion.
I watched a film, I can't remember the name, the story is something like this, I said simple:
Husbands treat their wives and children badly and often use domestic violence. The wife couldn't stand it anymore and got up to resist under her husband's fist and killed her husband by mistake.
The mother and daughter panicked and did not know what to do, just at this moment, the male neighbor next door knocked on the door.
The woman tried her best to hide it, but the male neighbor found the body in the room.
From this moment, the male neighbor laid out a lot of ideas that disrupted the police's judgment of the case, and finally succeeded in apologizing for the woman.
The reason why he gave his life away was only because in his gray life, the mother and daughter gave him a lot of warmth and kindness.
Therefore, he can be a "murderer" for them.
How much will those warm and kind, discounted words be? Is it worth sparing your life?
This account is difficult to calculate clearly. Therefore, emotional feelings are the biggest surprises and surprises.
There are also many young people who do not want to have children, feel that milk powder is expensive, education is expensive, and it takes energy.
No matter how you calculate it, life after raising a child is not as rich as one person who eats and the whole family is not hungry.
But when you really have a child, you see that he loves you so much and depends on you, you don't know the account.
One person's greatest contribution to another person is by no means derived from profit, but from emotion.
The person who can save your life is unlikely to be your big customer, but it must be someone with whom you have a deep emotional bond.
In life, many people, things, emotions, desires, fame and fortune... Sometimes it is necessary to see it from God's perspective, but to experience it from a human perspective.
The bystander is also a kind of God's perspective.
Don't stand in your own business and look at your own business, but think out of your own business and look at your own business.
When sharing ideas, don't just hear it and say it's too hard to do.
No one will pity you much, people are either born as adults, and they can do adult things.
Demand more of yourself in everything, change yourself, encourage yourself, face difficulties, do not panic in danger, see panic, and always be able to transform.
Many people who say no at every turn end up learning nothing, except crying.
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The powerful brain makes us accustomed to rational thinking and controlling emotions, but excessive suppression makes many people start to be anxious and depressed. The better, the more anxious.
Why, the body becomes a machine that only works? Life becomes like a pool of stagnant water? Why are we no longer full of passion and vitality like the ancients?
Perhaps we should go back to the beginning of life and look at the essence of dance - free expression, free dancing body in the field, and regaining that very simple, special essence of vitality.
A flower does not shy, a tree does not have the puzzle of dancing, we have forgotten ourselves for a long time ...
Then follow the modern dance master Gao Yanjinzi to dance, let go of the standard, let go of the stereotype, let go of all the constraints imposed on us, and express freely.
Rejuvenate and energize your body, this is what you want, and this is what modern dance is after.
Only by letting go of the brain can life fully open up. - Tsuko Gao
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