On December 3, Chen Yanan announced his divorce, which has been 14 days.
She and Zhu Shanwei were married for a year, how high-profile she was happy at the beginning, and now how fiercely she tore it.
From Chen Yanan to his parents' questioning of Xiao Wei's ability, to brother Yi's seven consecutive questions, the truth of the marriage of this young couple was torn apart clearly.
Many netizens said that Chen Yanan was not married to Zhu Shanwei, but married to the traffic of Brother Yi.
Her aggressiveness made onlookers uncomfortable to see, Zhu Shanwei finally stopped being silent, he issued a statement, from the perspective of the parties, tore off the fig leaf of feelings, it turned out that the person who had been wronged was not Chen Yanan.
The same bed is different, and the feelings are nominal
In his statement, Zhu Shanwei clarified 4 points.
First, the total value of the bride price is more than 5 million.
Chen Yanan said in the live broadcast that he was not a million brides, and the bride price was only in accordance with the local market, asking for 200,000.
And Zhu Shanwei unceremoniously pointed out that 200,000 is only cash, in addition, there are gold bars, gold necklaces, marriage rooms and big ben, etc., which add up to more than 5 million, and the parents have poured out all of them.
The two met through blind dates, and like many people, Zhu Shanwei also looked forward to a happy family, and Brother Dayi hoped that the educated daughter-in-law could help his son and let his son have the ability to be independent.
Obviously, he was going to be disappointed, because the needs of the two sides were different, Chen Yanan wanted traffic, and Zhu Danwei longed for home.
Second, the same bed is different, in her eyes is air.
Being married for a year and not having children was not a big deal.
But because it is an Internet celebrity, this matter has been asked by many netizens, because people have the psychology of loving gossip, Zhu Shanwei said the truth, after marriage, the two sometimes do not sleep in the same room, even if they sleep together, it is also two quilts separated, not what is cheating marriage?
Men have self-esteem, and believe that if they are not forced to be anxious, Zhu Shanwei is not willing to say these details, and he can feel his helplessness.
Third, marriage is a well-designed playbook.
Not long after the two knew each other, the Chen family urged marriage.
When the wedding was held, Zhu Shanwei was only 19 years old, did not have his own career, and had been living with his parents, but there was a habit of early marriage in the countryside, coupled with the expectations of Brother Coat for Chen Yanan, the wedding was lively and lively.
On the day of the wedding, Chen Yanan exposed a large number of photos, and on the third day after the wedding, Chen Yanan began to broadcast live, in just a few months, absorbing 4 million fans, from a nurse, successfully transformed his identity into an anchor.
But after Chen Yanan's traffic stabilized, he changed his face, so that Zhu Shanwei had to think that his marriage was just a designed script, and he and his parents were just supporting roles and traffic responsibilities inside.
Fourth, should the income of live broadcasting after marriage be refunded?
Zhu Shanwei said that Chen Yanan's return of the dowry was because there was no way, the two did not receive a license, and it was illegal not to return the dowry.
But after marriage, Chen Yanan's live broadcast income is based on the flow of parents, should this money be divided?
Obviously, Chen Yanan did not intend to share, because she said that her income was earned by her own ability.
Zhu Shanwei is not ready to argue, but reminds Chen Yanan that from the day he dissolves the marriage contract, he can no longer use the video of himself and his parents, otherwise he will be held accountable.
I don't know if this statement was written by Zhu Shanwei himself, maybe someone gave him guidance, but I have to say that these four sentences are reasonable, sonorous and powerful, and also let us see Zhu Shanwei's progress.
Ambitious, incompetent, seeing tall buildings rise and collapse
Zhu Danwei's education is not high, and his personality is wooden, which Chen Yanan may not have known before he got married.
The reason why she urged marriage is not how much she yearns for love, but wants to seize the flow of the coat brother and lean back against the tree to cool off.
Does Brother Coat know Chen Yanan's thoughts? After his debut, he experienced too many ups and downs, he has long seen through human nature, Chen Yanan's mind naturally conceals him, anyway, he is photographed by the villagers every day, rather than letting others rub the flow, it is better to let the fat water not flow to the outsiders.
In addition, Brother Dayi has high hopes for Chen Yanan, and his daughter-in-law has a good career and can also ensure his son's life, which is also the reason why Brother Dayi has always supported Chen Yanan.
There is traffic, there is support, why does Chen Yanan still play a good hand to the point of thinness?
It has to do with her personality, too eager to hold up the long road.
After marriage, Chen Yanan pointed the camera at his in-laws and mother-in-law, and also let Zhu Danwei be the background board of the live broadcast room, the traffic rose quickly, and after becoming an Internet celebrity, Chen Yanan floated.
She thought that the fans were all supportive of herself, but she did not know that without the coat brother, she was just an ordinary person, if the fans were compared to water, water can carry boats, but also can overturn boats.
After thinking that her career was stable, Chen Yanan revealed her true face, and she openly complained that Zhu Shanwei was incompetent and could not be supported by Ah Dou, and directly touched the bottom line of Brother Coat.
Men all want face, Brother Coat is also a local celebrity, you say zhu Shanwei, is not it to punch his father in the face?
In addition, Chen Yanan wrote a small essay, complaining that Brother Dayi did not stand up to clarify the facts and let himself be wronged, which further intensified the contradiction, Brother Dayi stood up and responded: "You claim that you are the daughter-in-law that Ming Media is marrying, and how many times have you returned to the Zhu family after marriage?" Spend 2 million to buy a marriage house, why do you want to sell it in the first half of the year after marriage? There is a problem with your little two, why do you want my father-in-law to clarify? Is it appropriate? ”
Sentence by sentence, the mind of Chen Yanan is fully exposed, honest people generally do not lose their temper, the influence of temper is very large, the coat brother made a sound, Chen Yanan's grievances completely collapsed, and the live broadcast room was also complained to by netizens to close.
Seeing her rise from the sky and seeing the building collapse, Chen Yanan's traffic came and went faster.
Write at the back:
Only sincerity can go long.
Chen Yanan has a little wisdom, but no great wisdom, has the vision of picking the in-laws, but does not have the patience to keep happiness.
Little clever, let her in a few months, has millions of fans, such traffic, even the average star is excited.
But she couldn't hold her breath, and after a little ability, she was eager to get rid of the baggage, but where the baggage was so easy to throw, it was inevitable that she would fall a few heels.
She chose Zhu Shanwei, although not a rich man, but relying on the coat brother, she can also live a worry-free life for a lifetime.
But Chen Yanan does not want to rely on brother Coat all the time, she has her own opinions, wants to attract fans to herself, but also because she is too eager, so that people can not see a little sincerity, she is also caught in the whirlpool of public opinion.
Feelings can not be adulterated, if you do not even have basic sincerity, sooner or later be seen through, Chen Yanan is too smart, smart but mistaken by smart.
The loss of a sincere marriage buried the tragic foreshadowing at the beginning, the grass snake gray line, and the veins were thousands of miles.
Some people also question whether there will be Li Yanan or Wang Yanan without Chen Yanan, which is really difficult to say.
With the identity of the coat brother, it is not difficult for Zhu Shanwei to marry a beautiful girl, but if he wants to marry happily, he needs to work hard.
First, learn to be independent.
Emotional setbacks should be Zhu Danwei's first big heel fight in his life, which may be a good thing and allow him to see the truth of human nature.
If you are weak yourself, don't blame others for bullying you, if you want to avoid being slighted, you need to be independent.
With a stable job, leaving the protection of his parents, and also having the ability to survive, Chen Yanan's pursuit of career is what Zhu Shanwei should learn.
When you have a stable career, your identity is no longer the son of Brother Coat, but becomes yourself.
Second, marriage should be a little slower.
We don't reject blind dates, but we must not be too anxious to step into marriage.
Zhu Shanwei himself said that after the blind date, the Chen family urged marriage, but the two did not understand each other, and it was easy to have problems when they got married.
The normal situation is that before marriage, we should know more about each other, see whether each other's values and outlook on life are consistent, and if we love each other deeply, it is not too late to enter the marriage.
In addition, feelings should be the same frequency.
Between husband and wife, even if the feelings are good when they first got married, if they can't be on the same frequency after marriage, sooner or later they will go farther and farther.
Smart people will always work hard to maintain their own growth so that the two can have more common language instead of being relatively speechless.
From another point of view, it also rings the alarm bell for people who have a sense of dependence in life, and no matter how much wealth their parents have, they are not as good as their own down-to-earth efforts, their own lives are their own decisions, relying on their parents, although very comfortable, but not long-
Today's topic: Do you think Zhu Shanwei's divorce is a good thing?