After Chen Yanan left the Zhu family, she changed her living method again, but her "living method" was not accepted by everyone, and a large amount of online violence continued.
It is very normal for a person to have mistakes, a failed marriage is not a person's problem, online violence will only put themselves in the mud, the more struggle, the more mud will be contaminated, the deeper the sinking, the more understanding, in order to avoid tragedy.
After nearly a year of online violence (starting from September last year), Chen Yanan has transformed into a very strong person, in other words, "thick-skinned", in the face of the Internet, this is definitely the best means of self-protection.
On April 21st, Chen Yanan finally decided to start over, and said in the introduction of the new account: I am Ya Nan, Chen Yanan who lives for himself, no matter what the past is, he must start over...
But even so, online violence persists.
Why is it exposed online? The main reason is still the account, many netizens think that the accumulation of Chen Yanan's account comes from the former father-in-law Zhu Zhiwen, but they do not know that they have ignored an important point, that is, operation, why do they also shoot Zhu Zhiwen, and others have no fans? Even the coat sister-in-law's own account does not have so many fans?
The role of the halo ignored Chen Yanan's efforts.
Probably seeing this, Chen Yanan decided to re-register a new account, and said that the future daily will be shared on this, which is enough to show that Chen Yanan is not attached to a million fan accounts, but feels that it is his own hand, it is a pity to abandon it.
Chen Yanan said a total of three points in the video.
The first point is the decision to start over
Recalling his previous life, Chen Yanan had collapsed and despaired. In the face of overwhelming doubts, she could not argue with her, and could only choose to suffer in silence.
Returning to the identity of ordinary people again, she also has the right to choose her life again, and playing videos and playing the Internet is also something that young people want to do. More than half a year of online violence has made Chen Yanan very strong, and when she faces doubts again, she no longer becomes cowardly, but bravely faces.
The second point is to thank the family
From the dissolution of marriage to the present, Chen Yanan's strength is inseparable from the support of his family, right or wrong is just network marketing, who can know the specific things? Is marriage really a person's fault?
Based on this thought, Chen Yanan is also ready to be "sprayed" again, she frankly said that everyone can continue to scold me and give me all your unhappiness and negative emotions, but I hope that the next time you face a similar situation, you will not blindly blame anyone.
The third point is exhortation
As a witness, Chen Yanan was deeply touched, so he shared his thoughts with netizens.
Network exposure generally originates from a certain point that makes people feel resentful, and then explodes around this point, and then takes the surface with points, thus producing a huge network effect. There is no factual basis for this, even if it is wrong, it must be exposed to the end.
At the moment when the facts are exposed, the network exposer will not have an impact, but the person exposed by the network will lose confidence in life, which is tantamount to killing people with a knife. Since you don't like it, you can just take it, so why cause tragedy?
Judging from Chen Yanan's three-point response, she has indeed grown a lot, as the former daughter-in-law of Brother Coat, this title will inevitably accompany her for life, leaving aside the facts, Chen Yanan's strength is indeed admirable, as for the facts, it is better to let it sink in the memory?